My daughter used to give me a headache because of her grades. She has been in the middle and lower reaches of her class. She has never passed math, let alone English. She can't remember a few words, and she can add points to Chinese by collecting words! I was so worried.
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Every time I finished the exam, I was called "tea" by the teacher: I always deserted in class, and I didn't know the questions I talked about; Other students have recited the text, but she can't remember it. Look at this paper, there are several correct places.
As a parent, I am worried to death about her situation, and I am struggling to find a good solution, but there is no good solution. One day, the head teacher called me and said that the children now have an inferiority complex because of their poor academic performance, and they have no enthusiasm for learning, which is very dangerous. It is necessary to reverse her inferiority complex as soon as possible, so that she can gradually build up self-confidence and become interested in learning.
One day, my daughter suddenly went home in high spirits and told me happily that I had got a certificate! I was surprised to ask why. It turns out that my daughter is willing to help others although her academic performance is not good. She actively helps anyone in trouble. On this day, a female classmate in physical education class suddenly had a stomachache and rolled on the ground. My daughter ran out first and took her to the infirmary. As soon as the doctor in the infirmary checked, this classmate got acute appendicitis and needed immediate operation. My daughter accompanied her classmate to the hospital and actively helped contact her parents, so that the classmate got timely assistance. Because of this incident, the parents of the students specially found the school teacher and gave my daughter a certificate of helping others, which was given to her in front of all the students at that time.
I think it's strange that my daughter has gradually become optimistic and confident since this incident. Academic performance is gradually improving. The final exam also won certificates from three outstanding students. What a surprise. Now my daughter has been in the top five in her class. Now that I think about it, I really should thank the parents of that student.
Now I firmly believe that every child wants to be affirmed and praised by his parents. A small award may be ordinary, but for children, it represents the recognition and affirmation of teachers and parents. Now my children are working hard at school or at home, just to get the teacher's small prize as soon as possible. The child's purpose is clear. Anyway, they know that it is good to fight for it by their own efforts.
I remember a passage in Learning and Revolution: "If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives in hostility, he learns to fight. ..... If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident. If a child lives in recognition, he learns to love himself. " So, let's not be stingy with words of encouragement, because then you will achieve a wonderful life for a child.
Certificates have a great influence on children!
That year, I was the head teacher of Class 4, Grade 8, Nanyang Boya College. This is my first time as the head teacher of Class 8, but I humbly ask the old head teacher, and I also focus on class management. The class achieved excellent results in the mid-term exam, won the glorious title of "the best class to learn" and was praised by school leaders and parents.
My specific approach is:
As long as the students in the class have "bright spots" in learning, discipline, hygiene and safety, I will immediately fill out the certificate for this student and post it on the wall of the corridor outside the classroom. Everyone wants to put gold on their faces! This award guides students' positive energy too much, and students are scrambling to express themselves. As a result, the "bright spots" in the class are constantly emerging. Of course, these are not affectations, but positive energy from the heart of students. Naturally, there are many prizes, and the walls have been built! I told my classmates: there is no place to post the card, but I am worried that I can't get it!
The first mid-term review:
Class 84 is before the eighth grade 10, and my class accounts for 5, all in the top 6!
Ranked first in the eighth grade in the overall evaluation, won the "Excellent Class in Learning" and won the prize of 500 yuan.
Health first, discipline first.
Winning awards one after another, I also won the "excellent class teacher".
Hello, my child is in the fifth grade, and his grades have been stable in the bottom ten for a long time, which is basically insulated from the certificate, but I am happy to answer your questions.
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I am very grateful to my son's third grade teacher. At the end of that year, my son brought back a certificate of Zhang greatly, which made me happy for a while.
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The content of the certificate is mixed, probably "I have made great progress in my study this semester, and I hereby issue this certificate as an encouragement".
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My son and I were in a good mood when we got the certificate back.
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? A small award made some students smile; A small award makes some students dream of it ... but a small award has such great charm.
Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, once said: "Children have the hope of being recognized by nature." Teachers should treat students' little progress with appreciation. No matter how immature the soul is, it also has self-esteem and longs for sincere encouragement, praise and respect.
If their performance can be affirmed by teachers and parents, it will be a kind of excitement that touches the heart, especially for a person who rarely gets praise and reward from teachers. Although the awards are small, what is broadcast in the students' hearts is incomparable sunshine, which inspires people to forge ahead.
I can't forget it. Teacher An came to answer the question.
Forgive me for not answering this question directly, but first talk about the phenomenon of issuing certificates!
I teach in junior high school and help in the academic affairs office of the school after teaching. The final exam is over and the winter vacation is coming. Many class teachers go to the academic affairs office to ask for certificates and give them to students.
Some class teachers said they would give awards to student cadres in the class, some said they would give awards to students with good academic performance in the class, and some said they would give awards to students with progress ... Anyway, opinions are divided! How many students will get certificates in that class? Almost 30% of the students!
I'm talking about public schools, and private schools are even worse. They are considering how to give more rewards to students. They give awards to students if they want to improve their eyesight at will, and students are soft-hearted about awards. Almost every student in the class will win the prize.
The original purpose of issuing certificates is to commend advanced students and encourage all students to study hard and strive for greater progress. However, the influence of spamming awards on students is different, and students no longer attach importance to the significance of awards.
If every student can get a certificate, there will be no difference between students, and students will not be able to form a heart of comparison in their studies. How do they study? How can there be progress? The exam results are all the same, and everyone can get a certificate. Who wants to study hard? Especially junior students, senior students will be better.
A teacher once told me such a story. When her son was in primary school, she took care of him alone. In the final exam, his son's grades did not enter the top five in the class, that is, he was not eligible for the certificate.
The teacher wants to apply to the headmaster to see if he can give his son a certificate to encourage him to make greater progress. The result is not what the teacher thought. Anyway, the headmaster doesn't agree, so there's nothing I can do!
Finally, the teacher bought a prize-winning certificate privately, filled it out, stamped it and sent it to his son. Inspired by this award, his son studied harder and made great progress. Later, his son was admitted to the university and found a very satisfactory job.
Once, she mentioned this to her son, who said that he knew that this award was given to him by his mother in private. The teacher said that you still dare to ask for her private letter. Her son's answer was beyond her expectation. He just wants a certificate.
In fact, the influence of award-winning children is still quite great. Sometimes awards can really motivate students to continue their efforts and make them feel that their efforts have been affirmed.
Some students worked hard for a semester, and as a result, their exam results were not ideal, and they didn't get the certificate at the end of the term. The whole people feel very disappointed!
What do you think the certificate will do for the student union? The influence of certificate on students occurs after students get the certificate. You shouldn't expect the certificate to have any influence on students. But convey the influence of the certificate to the students!
This is the teacher expectation effect!
Awards These are just an area for children to learn and an encouragement. There were no prizes when I was a child, because no matter how hard I worked and how good my grades were, my teachers didn't like me, because my family environment was not good enough and I didn't study well, and I was always looked down upon by my teachers and classmates. In fact, my psychological endurance has begun to bear ... but I have always been open-minded.
The purpose of reward is to commend the advanced and encourage the backward. Certificate is the most common form of reward. Reward is the most common way to affirm people who have made great labor contributions in society, and it is the most important link in the positive energy orientation of society. On the morning of June 5438+1October 10, 2020, the National Science and Technology Awards Conference was held in the Great Hall of the People in Beijing, which was the best reward given by society to those who made great contributions to social progress.
So, what are the positive meanings of issuing certificates to children?
1, improve children's confidence in growth.
Children will experience many difficulties and challenges when they grow up. The best way to overcome these difficulties and challenges is to have confidence in growth and believe that "I can do it". Human babies learn from the day they are born. Without a little progress, children can "rejoice", and the behavior that can be encouraged becomes the driving force to encourage children to move on. This motivation is self-confidence. Therefore, the best way to teach children to grow up is to find the advantages of their growth and give them appropriate rewards, which will make them move in this direction.
The growth of life is long, and every moment of growth is very important. Everyone is willing to keep those behaviors that can be affirmed by others. Therefore, in life, parents often reward children with good performance, and teachers also reward children with good grades and good performance in teaching activities. Reward is the best way to inspire people to forge ahead, the basic guarantee to give children confidence in growth and the fundamental way to stimulate their growth potential.
2. Witness the child's growth process
Great men have many biographies to record their achievements in life. The process of children's growth is also a pleasant thing. Many parents will take pictures of their children at different stages of growth. So, how to record and witness the growth and progress of children? Certificates have become the best way to record children's growth and progress. Behind the awards is the new height of children's growth through hard work, and behind each award is the children's long growth experience. As the saying goes, "One minute on the stage takes ten years off the stage", and the certificate is also full of solid footprints on the child's growth path, which is the best testimony of the child's growth and progress.
3. Affirm the child's growth practice
People's activities are divided into two aspects: one is to obtain growth resources from the outside world according to their own growth needs; The other part is to contribute to social construction according to one's own ability. In life, everyone is constantly repeating these two basic forms of activities: acquisition and dedication. In the activity of obtaining resources, resources are transformed into energy to ensure individual growth, such as eating, and the energy of eating is finally reflected in physical growth and physical strength growth; Everyone is getting resources every day in his life, and at the same time he is dedicating energy in various ways. For devotees, the most valuable thing to gain social recognition is to get rewards and certificates. In life, there are various awards in the society every year, such as model worker, March 8th Red Flag Bearer, model of being brave and so on ..... These are the highest honors given by the society to those who have made outstanding contributions to social construction and the highest recognition of labor dedication.
The road to children's growth is long, and their growth and progress are slow. These slow growth processes are hard to find. The best way to discover them is to be recognized by the outside world. For example, children often say to their parents, "I can do it myself. Am I good?" And "I have learned * * * *" ... These simple words are that children are striving for external recognition for their own growth process, especially parents' affirmation of their children's growth and progress. To this end, some families will set up small red flowers for their children to record their specific basic growth behaviors; Make an annual growth plan with your child and give rewards after reaching the goal ... The ultimate goal of the reward is to affirm the child's growth practice, thus further stimulating the child's autonomy in growth.
As the saying goes, "growth requires one step at a time", and certificates are the most obvious footprints for children. The certificate given to children is the witness of their growth efforts, the best affirmation of their growth practice, and the most unforgettable thing in their growth process. Rewards can stimulate children's self-growth potential, and certificates are the best witness of children's growth and progress and the best memories of life growth.
The mission of educating neighbors: to be a sparring partner and consultant on the road of children's growth.
The vision of educating neighbors: Let the world have no children and no old people.
Children's growth is like a century-old tree, which needs to go through wind and rain. For parents, you need to be patient enough to accompany them. Accompanying children needs care, and companionship is more than nursing. When many people choose to go home to accompany their children, I choose to come to Beijing to do a career to accompany more children-educating neighbors: promoting social harmony with neighborhood friendliness, promoting social moral education, and promoting everyone's healthy and happy growth. Exploring neighborhood mutual assistance to solve "one-child disease+intergenerational education" is a public welfare education undertaking, and "tailor-made" children's growth plan together with parents, that is, providing children with room for play, cooperation and sharing. ......
What effect does the certificate have on children?
Certificates can be said to have a great influence on children, even for life.
At present, people think that material rewards are affordable, and spiritual rewards such as certificates are illusory. I don't know that spiritual encouragement is lasting and strong.
At the reunion, President Chen told us the story of a college student. Our school is a provincial middle school. The headmaster has a high prestige among the students, who all admire him. On one occasion, President Chen went to a Chinese class in a senior three class. Because President Chen worked overtime until late at night the night before, he couldn't help falling asleep in class. In order to distract himself from sleeping, the headmaster consciously looked at the blackboard newspaper at the back of the classroom. I saw a student's article written better on the blackboard. Look at the names in the students' exercise books. The students are next to the headmaster. A few days later, the headmaster saw the student again. President Chen reached out and patted the students on the head and said, your article is very well written. Students say I can't write well. President Chen said that I saw your article on the blackboard very well. Come on, young man! I patted the student on the head again. A few days after the start of school on September 1, President Chen received a thank-you letter from a university student. The student thanked President Chen for patting him on the head, which gave him confidence and motivation before he was admitted to the university. This letter is also a great shock to President Chen. He introduced his experience to us, hoping that we could educate the next generation.
The above examples show that the spiritual encouragement to students is enormous.
Moreover, we often hear people proudly say what prizes they won as students! It is rarely mentioned what awards are awarded, which also shows that the certificate has a high status.
At the same time, it shows that spiritual encouragement is lasting and unforgettable. When I encounter difficulties when I go out, my first thought is the advice of my parents and teachers, not how much money my parents or relatives and friends gave me.
In history, we only remember Sima Qian's Historical Records, Zu Chongzhi's Pi, Guo Shoujing's Calendar and so on, but no one remembers how much property they have!
Similarly, Chairman Mao left us Mao Zedong Thought, which strengthened our belief in socialism, serving the people and common prosperity. If he had left 1000 yuan to the people of the whole country, I'm afraid he would have used it up long ago. Only Mao Zedong Thought has been handed down from generation to generation!
To sum up, although material rewards are important, spiritual rewards and certificates are more important, which will inspire students all their lives and even become family heirlooms, affecting a family and generations in a place!
Certificates are a way to recognize children's academic performance and school performance. In the past, when the material conditions were poor, the school issued certificates to encourage children to study hard. Nowadays, many schools will give students some material encouragement while issuing certificates. What effect does the certificate have on children's development?
First of all, certificates can stimulate students' self-motivation and promote students' learning motivation. Whether children who study well or children who study poorly, they all have a vanity and want to be praised by teachers. So all students want to get certificates and praise, and they will study hard for it. Of course, it must be admitted that some students are too active and don't work hard. But he will work hard in other aspects and get praise and recognition from his teachers.
Secondly, the certificate is the recognition of students' three abilities. At present, there are several forms of recognition for children, either verbal encouragement, reward or bonus. Think about it. Without material or spiritual incentives, some children may not study so hard. Very simple truth, adults also apply, do overtime within an hour can get 200 yuan, one is voluntary overtime. Which one do you want to be? Of course, it is for the benefit maximization. So are children.
Finally, certificates will hurt some people's self-confidence. Why does the school not advocate grade ranking now or has cancelled the ranking? This is that ranking will have a negative impact on those students who don't study well. Students in the back often think that their poor study will hurt children's self-confidence and stop positive progress. This will affect the child's future development.
In a word, the influence of certificates has both advantages and disadvantages. How to better promote children's development in the form of rewards requires teachers to conduct more research in the process of teaching management in order to better stimulate children's potential.
Awards have a great influence on children. There are several reasons.
First, the meaning of the certificate. Awards are like children's certificates of honor, just like our diplomas and year-end awards. It is a proof of hard work for a semester, a reward and a manifestation of happiness.
Second, improve children's self-confidence. In daily life, a certificate is a proof of rewarding a good child. Children who don't get a certificate generally feel lost. Are they worse than others? Why do others have awards and I don't?
Third, the role of certificates. What does the certificate do for children? You may underestimate this ordinary award. After getting the certificate, the child will consciously study, after all, learning is rewarding; Enhance the sense of honor and win the recognition and encouragement of others. It is also a great honor to go home for the New Year.
Fourth, the child has a solid heart with this certificate. With the motivation to learn, I am more confident in doing things. A small certificate has so many functions and great influence, can you think of it?
William james, an American psychologist, said: "The most eager need in human nature is the desire to be affirmed." For the affirmation and recognition of students, it can be a sentence, an action, a small object … and I think a small award will have a greater impact on the growth of children.
In the past, every semester, students ended their mid-term and final exams. In order to encourage the children, I will give certificates to the students who get the highest scores. I do this to stimulate children's sense of competition and cultivate their interest in learning. However, gradually, I found that almost every time I won the prize, it was those children who studied well. For most children, they just applaud. I don't think such awards can motivate most students to study.
In order to arouse students' enthusiasm for learning, I changed the standard of issuing certificates and told my classmates about the different standards of issuing certificates formulated by our class. Even the worst students may win the prize.
Our class has set the following awards:
First, the academic performance award, that is, students with excellent academic performance can get certificates, regardless of the number of places. Among them, the top three students won the best academic performance Excellence Award.
Two, learning progress award, reward two subjects to improve academic performance by more than fifteen points, the same is not limited by the number of places. Among them, the student who made the greatest progress won the best learning progress award. For the students with learning difficulties (two books) in the class, if the requirements are lowered and the scores of the two subjects are improved by ten points, they can get the learning progress award.
After two semesters of practice, I found that this is much better than the previous practice of rewarding only the first few students. Because most students see the hope of winning the prize, they are more motivated than before. When some students won the prize for the first time, their joy was beyond words. Their faces are full of happiness and joy.
Small awards are a symbol of success in the eyes of children; It is an inspiring force in the process of children's growth; In students' families, it is priceless wealth; In the deep heart of students, it is the hope to light up children's hearts.