The bear broke the stick (corn)-unknown charm
20 12-02- 16 23:55: 19
A few days ago, I visited my friends in Qingdao. After we swam together in Laoshan Mountain, we sat together and chatted. Most of the friends who participated in the topic changed jobs one year after graduation, and some speakers had extra plans. Presumably, everyone has not pursued what they want, whether it is material or spiritual. During the dinner, a friend with a steady job smiled: "One by one is like a bear breaking a stick, breaking one and throwing one." Then I talked for a long time about the relationship between the international situation and employment prospects. These words seem to shake the hearts of some of them, and it is inevitable to re-measure the gap between ideal and reality after returning home. After all, resignation is also a big deal.
For me, the story of a bear breaking a stick still reminds me of many ideas. First of all, I think my aunt in kindergarten will tell me earnestly, don't be as dissatisfied as a bear breaking a stick and end up with nothing. This time, I have a new understanding.
Different bears enter the cornfield for different reasons. Similarly, each bear can only pick one stick to chew. Some bears want to fill their stomachs. He just needs to find a stick just big enough to satisfy him. Some Xiong Gang broke the biggest stick and came in, so these bears were not so relaxed. As they stayed in the field longer and longer, watching those who had broken sticks chew with relish, they gradually lost their ambition, so they found a stick that felt great and simply followed. There are also some other kinds of bears. They don't come in for dinner. They just kept breaking and throwing. Over and over again, they just enjoy the process of throwing sticks. They don't find it difficult, but they find it interesting. When throwing, they expect what the stick in front will look like.
The bear talked for a long time, all laying the groundwork. Three kinds of bears represent three kinds of people with different pursuits, so you might as well take your seats accordingly. In fact, the theme of this story is the unknown charm.
I said, the unknown is the most beautiful thing in the world. Give up the unknown, and the life of the first person will inevitably be boring; Unknown makes the second kind of people never satisfied with the continuous pursuit of Excellence, and get more fruitful results in the process of continuous pursuit of the unknown, but one day they will give up the unknown; The unknown keeps the third kind of people living in a fairy-tale wonderful world. Driven by curiosity, they enjoy exploring every unknown process. From the unknown to the known, there is often only a moment of joy, and then a new unknown.
I have given up the life of the first person, and am inspired by the unknown to go to the track of the second person, and I also look forward to the realm of the third person. I am extremely excited when I think of all the possibilities in the future, as well as those completely unpredictable possibilities.
I'm just on the road, and I don't know what kind of person I will eventually become. Is it the second kind of utilitarianism that focuses on results? Or simply enjoy the third process? But this is a beautiful unknown. . .
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Diary of memorial archway for moral integrity