Kong Rong was born in Qufu, Shandong Province in the Eastern Han Dynasty, the twentieth grandson of Confucius and the second son of Kong Zhou, a captain of Mount Tai. When Kong Rong was four years old, it happened to be his grandfather's sixtieth birthday, and many people came. There is a dish of preserved pears, which is placed on the longevity table. Mother let Kong Rong share it. So Kong Rong divided them according to the order of generations, and everyone got his own share, but his own share was the smallest. His father asked him strangely, "everyone else takes big pears, but you take small ones." Why? " ? Kong Rong calmly replied, "There are heights in trees and ages in people. Respecting the elderly is the truth of being a man! " Father is very happy.
When Kong Rong was a child, he was smart, studious, flexible and answered irrelevant questions. Everyone praised him as a child prodigy. At the age of four, he could recite many poems and poems, and he knew manners. His parents love him very much.
One day, my father's friend brought a plate of pears to the Kong Rong brothers. Father asked Kong Rong to divide the pears, Kong Rong picked the smallest pear, and the rest were given to the brothers in the order of generations. Kong Rong said: "I am young, I should eat small pears, and big pears should be given to my brothers." Father was very surprised and asked, "Is that brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "Because my brother is younger than me, I should give him up." Kong Rong let the story of pear spread throughout the Han Dynasty. Kong Rong Jr. has also become a good example for many parents to educate their children.
2. Four words about honesty and friendliness are polite.
A modest and prudent gentleman
humble and cautious
Respect those who have lower positions.
Treat talented people and scholars with the utmost courtesy ―― respect wisdom and fear learning.
Don't be conceited or praise yourself.
Introduce sincerity to others
Treat talented people and scholars with the utmost courtesy ―― respect wisdom and fear learning.
Gong Kekeshun
Entertain guests warmly
Politeness and friendliness
People with high status and low accommodation status.
be self-denial in service to others
To condescend/condescend/bend down to show respect for talents
Clean the road and wait.
Sweep the couch to welcome guests
Smile to welcome.
Thai, but not arrogant
Wan Wan friendship
Gentle, respectful and straightforward
Gentle and modest
Gentle and kind
gentle and cultivated
mild
Listen attentively
(of married couples) respect each other as if they were guests.
Treat sb with due respect
Open-minded-very open/modest.
Listen to criticism with an open mind
Leave the seat on the left vacant and wait for the talented person-leave this glorious position to the truly capable person.
Holding meridian consultation
Loyalty, loyalty, happiness
guard against arrogance and rashness
Know your limitations
Neither conceited nor reckless.
(of a ruler or senior official) treat people with courtesy.
Approachable.
In the four-character idiom, the last two words are friendly. What are some unfriendly idioms? The fourth idiom is as follows:
Punish evil and persuade good: punishment; Persuasion: encourage. Punish the bad guys and reward the good guys.
The more the better: the more the better. The more, the better.
Suppress evil and promote good: stop; Yang: Publicity. Prohibit bad things and promote good things.
Turning evil into good is to stop doing evil and be a good person again.
Turn evil into good. Stop doing evil and do good.
Get better, correct mistakes, get better. Refers to evil is good.
It is emphasized that people come with bad intentions, so be alert.
Evil will not end well. Don't deny a person's merits just because you hate him.
Conceal evil, promote good and conceal: conceal; Yang: Publicity. Don't talk about people's disadvantages, only promote people's benefits.
Be kind to others: praise and sponsor; For: do it; Good: A good thing. Refers to the recognition of people learning well. Now it means sincerely helping people.
Stop at the best: achievement; To: the most, the most. Reach a perfect state.
4. What is the story about kindness and caring in ancient idioms? Guan Zhong and Bao were both Qi people, who lived in the Spring and Autumn Period more than 2,650 years ago, and were also famous statesmen of Qi at that time. They became good friends when they were young, and then they went through many ups and downs together.
When I was a child, I liked reading the history of the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. Sima Qian also focused on many stories in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period in Historical Records, and now many idioms and allusions also come from that period. First, Guan Bao shared the money. When Guan Zhong was in his twenties, he met Bao. At first, they did some business in partnership. Because Guan Zhong is poor, he invests less and more.
Business is doing well, but I found that Guan Zhong used the money he earned first to pay off some debts he owed, haha! The money was spent before it was recorded. Now the accounting terminology is: sitting on a branch and spending money privately, which is not far from the crime of misappropriating public funds. Even more exasperating, Bao gave him half of the year-end bonus and he accepted it.
This can ruin the popularity of Bao's men. Someone told Bao that he invested less, usually spent more, and shared the profits with you at the end of the year. Obviously, he is a very greedy person. If I were Guan Zhong, I wouldn't have the cheek to accept the money. Bao Shu Ya scolded his people and said, You are full of money. Don't you find it difficult at Guan Zhong's house? He needs money more than I do. I want to help him do business with him. I am willing to do so. Don't mention it again.
Second, they joined the army together. Later, the two brothers joined the army together, and they lived alone. Once Qi was at war with its neighbors, and the armies of both sides launched a massacre. When charging, Guan Zhong always hides at the end and runs slowly, but when withdrawing troops, Guan Zhong runs as fast as flying.
The soldiers laughed at him and said that he was afraid of death. The leaders wanted to kill the chicken with Guan Zhong's head to show those soldiers who were afraid of death. At the critical moment, Bao stood up again (Bao has become an officer at this time, but I think he is also a grassroots cadre like a company commander! He defended Guan Zhong and said: I know Guan Zhong best. His 80-year-old mother was left unattended, and he couldn't help living in shame to show his filial piety.
After listening to Bao, Guan Zhong was moved to tears. He cried and said, My parents gave birth to me, and only Bao Shu Ya knows me! After more than two years, Guan Zhong's old mother died of illness, and his heart lost care. Only then did he settle down to work for Qi, and he was indeed more heroic than anyone else, and was soon promoted and reused. Third, each has his own master. Later, Qi Xianggong's younger brother Gong Zijiu discovered that Guan Zhong was a talented person and asked him to be his own counselor, that is, an official like the Chief of Staff.
As for Bao Tooth, it happened that another brother took a fancy to him and worshipped him as a strategist. Two good friends each assisted a son, and they worked hard.
But it didn't last long. The fatuous Qi Xianggong always suspected that his two half-brothers were trying to usurp his throne. Let his men find a chance to kill Gong Zijiu and Xiaobai.
Two childe heard the wind, omiya long pull guanzhong, ran to grandma lu's house. Childe followed suit, and he took his bag to bow's grandmother's house. In the winter of 686 BC, the tyrannical Qi Xianggong was killed by his own soldiers, and one of his younger brothers, Gongsun Ignorance, was named King of Qi. Listen to this name-Sun is ignorant, he must be an idiot! Just a few months after he became king, he was killed by his ministers. Qi chaos.
When the son in exile in Ju and the son Jiu living in Lu got the news, they both felt that their chance to inherit the throne had come, so they quickly packed their bags and went back to China to compete for the throne. As Gong Zijiu's strategist, Guan Zhong promptly reminded his master that the Ju country where Xiao Bai is located is very close to Qi, and if he returns to Qi before us, we will be hopeless. Why don't I take a team to stop the childe first, and then let General Lu and a team escort you back.
Miyako smiled and replied: Good idea! When Guan Zhong and his men arrived at the junction of Ju State and Qi State, Bao led a group of Ju State troops to escort his son. Guan Zhong stepped forward to stop the way. He said, why don't you go to grandma's house? what are you going to do？ Childe Xiaobai said: I'm going back to China to attend a funeral! Guan Zhong said: Your brother Miyako has gone back to Qi for a long time to deal with this matter. I think you'd better go back to Ju 'an and stay! Bao and Guan Zhong are brothers on weekdays, but now they are their own masters! He glared at Guan Zhong and scolded: Our son has his own career when he returns to China. Do you care? Besides, you can't hide your lies from me, can you, Bao Shu Ya? If Miyako really returned to Qi, why did he bring someone to intercept my master? Guan Zhong's lie was exposed, and his face turned red, and he was speechless for a moment.
Bao did not dare to delay and ordered the troops to rush forward. Guan Zhong looked worried. If he can't stop Xiao Bai, he will have no face to see Gong Zijiu again. So he bent his heart, set up an arrow with a bow and shot it at Xiaobai, the son in the car. Xiaobai let out a cry and jumped on the car. Guan Zhong saw that he was finished, so he flew away with his hands. I didn't expect Guan Zhong's arrow to hit the hook of Xiao Bai, and it didn't hurt anyone at all, but he knew that Guan Zhong's archery was of great interest, so he would die if he added another arrow, so he let out a cry and pretended to be dead and fell in the car.
Seeing Guan Zhong run away, he took a long breath. Bao Shu Ya was overjoyed to see his son Xiaobai safe! Immediately ordered the troops to copy the path and make every effort to relax. V. Stubbornness In the end, Guan Zhong thought that he had killed Xiao Bai, the son of Qi State, so he unhurriedly escorted Gong Zijiu to Qi State. As a result, when he reached the border between Qi and Lu, the envoys of Qi stopped their chariots and horses. The messenger said, "I've been ordered by the son of the new King of Qi to inform Lu that you don't have to send your son Jiu back to China.
After listening to this, Guan Zhong realized that he had not done things well and had been taken in by the package. So in a fit of pique, he killed the emissary of Qi. Miyako ignored everything for a long time and only ordered the general to wrestle with more than 500 pieces.