(1) Do you know whether life in Ming Lan is set in the Ming Dynasty? This drama shows us the unique life that belongs to which dynasty, and also shows us the hardships of women's life in that dynasty. The focus seems to be the life of a big family, but in fact it depicts a true monologue of human nature and the way of the world in life. Sheng, the sixth daughter of the Sheng family, is the protagonist in Know No, and her life is bumpy. My mother is a concubine bought by the Sheng family, and she has no status at all. Of course, my father is an official, but he never pays attention to Ming Lan's mother and daughter. His father's neglect made Ming Lan live carefully all the time. Who would have thought that his first attempt ruined his mother's life, which laid the foundation for Ming Lan's passivity towards Nuo Nuo.
(2) After the death of his mother, He Denglan lived alone with her grandmother and enjoyed a good reputation in Shengjia, but she was not her own mother after all. Therefore, when Ming Lan was a child, he would read people's faces and speak cautiously. Therefore, although Ming Lan's presence at home is not strong, she is also very likable, which is why she can get along well with her first daughter Sheng Rulan. Rulan is a veritable maiden of the Sheng family and has a prominent position since she was a child. She is naive and kind, and has no bad ideas. She likes honest people and people who can cater to her best. And Ming Lan did not dispute since she was a child, and her work was also very low-key, so Sheng Rulan was very willing to play with her. Compared with Moran, Ming Lan and Rulan are more like sisters.
Do you know that the opening scene is the wedding scene of eldest sister Hualan? At that time, it was still very young, and the relationship with the elder sister was just a simple sister relationship, as big as Lan and Lan. Naturally, Ming Lan and Juran must get closer. From here, we can see that no matter who we are, we all like people who can cater to us, maybe not feelings, and sometimes we just think this person is more suitable for us!
(3) Behind the understanding of Ming Lan and Hua Lan, we can find that Ming Lan and Hua Lan are closer, and Ming Lan's marriage is still led by Hua Lan. Having said that, I have to mention the hero Gu, Gu's second uncle. Gu's life is also very bumpy. Although he is the eldest son of Hou Fu, Gu's mother still had maternal love when she was alive because of the bad relationship between her biological mother and her father. After her mother died, Gu almost looked like an orphan. She was killed by others and lived in hot water. It can be seen from here that we are similar to Gu's life experience, so we can walk together, which is one of the reasons why Xiao likes it, but in the end we married Uncle Gu.
In addition to being the son of Hou Fu, Gu Juwan is still a general, and Hua Lan's husband is his subordinate, so Hua Lan has always been very much in favor of Gu Juwan's desire to marry Ming Lan, and has been actively mediating in the middle. Ming Lan's marriage to Uncle Gu is not only good for himself, but also good for Hualan. In ancient times, all family members shared weal and woe. Ming Lan's husband has a high status, and even his sister lives well in other families. Hua Lan is a very sensible woman, but she is inevitably bullied by her mother-in-law. If you marry Gu, your husband's family will naturally have more respect for Hualan if they look at the face of the monk. Hua Lan's husband and Ming Lan's husband are both military commanders, and they are closer. After the natural marriage, there should be more negotiations between Ming Lan and Hua Lan.
Through the relationship between Ming Lan and Rulan and Hualan, we can see that we and the people around us are also the same. Identity, status, and environment all play an important role in our interpersonal communication, and the once-sister love can't avoid having its own ending.