First, Huang Yibo, a boy with five bars. At that time, in the media reports, I accidentally took such a photo. There are five bars on a child's shoulder. In that era of studying, five poles represented the captain of the Young Pioneers. A child can take on such a great responsibility. You can imagine how excellent this child is. It is reported that people realize that this excellent boy's name is Huang Yibo.
Very calm at an early age, 13 years old is also very calm. From Huang Yibo, we can see the shadow of an adult. He is very stable and capable, which makes people feel that this is not a child of 13 years old, but an adult who has worked hard in society for many years. Huang Yibo's calmness before his peers made many people feel very disobedient.
However, there are also many people who believe that such a good character can be formed at a young age, which has a good guiding role for Huang Yibo's future road. So many people are very optimistic about this young boy, thinking that he must have lofty aspirations in his heart and can go higher and further in his future life. So public opinion has put all directions on this child.
After the report came out, many news media came to the children's school from time to time to interview them. Through the contact with this child, I let everyone see the difference of this child and let everyone have more expectations for this child.
In fact, such exposure is not allowed now, but it may have been allowed before, so 13-year-old five-bar teenagers have always appeared in front of people.
Second, the grandson of Brother disdain. It is because of this daily shooting that people come into contact with another different child, that is, Sun Tong, which is different from Huang Yibo. Sun Tong was not very interested in the Young Pioneers in his life. On the contrary, Sun Tong felt that the identity of the Young Pioneers was a constraint on himself, so Sun Tong was very disdainful.
Whenever others praise Huang Yibo, Sun Tong's eyes show great disdain. He thinks that Huang Yibo should not expose himself too much, nor should he be praised too much by the media, which can easily lift a person's heart. At an early age, Sun Tong knew what he wanted and where he wanted to develop. Therefore, his goal is very strong. For him, the identity of the Young Pioneers is indeed a constraint on himself. Once trapped, there is no way to develop yourself better in study.
Because of the arrival of the media and Huang Yibo's long-term filming, Huang Yibo's classmates were more or less exposed, and Sun Tong was also exposed. Sun Tong was exposed because of his dismissive eyes. At that time, people also felt that his family education was problematic. That dismissive look also made people call him "Brother disdain".
At that time, China had not yet perfected the regulations on the exposure of teenagers as minors, so it received a lot of attention in this exposure. Of course, Sun Tong has also received a lot of criticism. At that time, people agreed that Sun Tong was not a good boy, and even many people doubted Sun Tong as a child. These two different teenagers can also be said to be different representatives in the eyes of people at that time. The five-bar teenager represents an upright teenager.
Third, after a lapse of nine years, the five-bar teenager went to a private university. The network has memory. Huang Yibo, who was reported before, has been living under everyone's eyes. Some behaviors and records of Huang Yibo are reported by the media from time to time. Nine years later, the young man was admitted to a private university in China, which was actually excellent. According to the young man's mental journey, it is relatively clear that he can be admitted to such a university.
Under normal circumstances, this teenager is living his own life step by step. However, this step-by-step life is not enough for most netizens or people who pay attention to this teenager. After all, they think the Five-Bar Teenager can afford the Five-Bar because Huang Yibo is very good and powerful. So an ordinary private university is not enough for them to bear such a reputation.
Therefore, what should have been blessed by everyone has become something despised by everyone. No one expected that a teenager who was so admired at the beginning didn't do so well in the exam, not as well as he thought. So, what was the significance of those worships in those days? Therefore, this matter has become a teenager's fault.
Under the pressure of online media, this boy was admitted to a private university, which became nothing to mention. He even thought that the child was very smart when he was a child, and the more he grew up, the more stupid he became, and the evaluation of this child became worse and worse. People think that this child does not deserve an excellent evaluation at all, which also leads to great pressure on the child himself.
Four or nine years later, "Brother disdain" was admitted to Harvard University. Without comparison, there will be no harm. If Huang Yibo is admitted to an ordinary private university, it will be a great blow to everyone. Then, Sun Tong was admitted to Harvard University, which was a fatal blow to everyone. A teenager who didn't think highly of himself was admitted to such a good school in the world. Why is this boy so excellent?
Netizens do not reflect on themselves at all. On the contrary, they will think that Huang Yibo is complacent, self-reflective and modest in this process. Sun Tong can reflect on himself under their blows, so he can come this far. For these two teenagers, the pressure of public opinion is always around them, which also makes their hearts suffer great pain.
In contrast, Sun Tong may be relatively better. After all, Sun Tong showed his real strength and went to Harvard University, thus proving himself. So from the public opinion, Sun Tong's pressure is relatively small, and the pressure of another teenager is much greater than Sun Tong's.
Those who have been praised are no longer praised, and those who have been despised are still despised, because these parents don't want their children to learn from Huang Yibo, and they don't want their children to know that those who have been praised by themselves have been admitted to an ordinary private university. Similarly, they don't want their children to know that people they don't like have been admitted to Harvard University. After all, the child appeared in public with a bad image, and it was such a bad image.
Five, these two people have different ideas about the future development, and they have taken different roads. Their initial idea was that Huang Yibo took the road under the red flag, that is to say, Huang Yibo was more eager for the education in China, so Huang Yibo respected the education in China, and Huang Yibo went its own way and chose the private university in China. In his eyes, these private universities are much better than Harvard universities abroad.
The person who can be the leader in Young Pioneers shows that Huang Yibo has a high inner and ideological level, which is more in line with the development of modern society in China. Such children are actually more suitable for some domestic developments, such as the development of civil servants, but Huang Yibo is not suitable for studying under high pressure. Therefore, it is more reflected in dealing with people and thinking and morality. In this respect, his realm is far higher than many people. Therefore, he can also say that he is going his own way.
On the contrary, Sun Tong is a child with strong goals. Sun Tong is very competitive, and he also likes these competitive studies. Therefore, in terms of personal learning ability, Sun Tong is stronger, but similarly, such children have a weak sense of personal belonging. Therefore, Sun Tong doesn't quite agree with the identity of the Young Pioneers, and thinks that this thing will share his energy. Instead of being a young pioneer, it is better to spend all your time.
Children with strong purpose are also very competitive, so their strength will be relatively matched. The ideological realm and personal ability of these two people are not in the same area, and the young pioneers are evaluated according to their thoughts, not their achievements.
6. Most parents subconsciously rank these children according to their grades and colleges and universities. Why is there such a huge difference? It is because we often ignore the inner thoughts of children. Most parents are ranked according to their own consciousness, and many parents are in line with some modern achievement education. So in their minds, the better the grades, the better. However, these people often ignore a special person in their hearts. His name is Ma Jiajue. Although such children have excellent grades, they can't stand any test in character.
It is because of this speculation and this idea that we have completely different views on these two children. In the process of their development, the educational concept of these two children is contrary to the educational concept we advocate, so we can't agree with these two children.
In my opinion, these two children are both excellent. Both of them have developed according to their own ideas and ideas, and both have achieved very good results and achievements. But in the eyes of many parents, this ending is not their ideal, so they don't agree. I think these two children are actually excellent children, but their development paths are different. You can't just decide the level by your grades.