In the Spring and Autumn Period, Chu Zhuangwang won the championship.
One night, I held a candlelight party with my beloved princess and held a grand banquet for the ministers. Halfway through the wine, suddenly a strong wind blew out the candle. A military commander wanted to flirt with Princess Ai in the dark, and Princess Ai tore off the red tassel on his helmet. Princess Ai suggested that the King of Chu light a lamp at once to see which guy lost the red tassel on his helmet and severely punish him. A friend's wife should not be bullied, let alone a leader's wife. Unexpectedly, King Zhuang was magnanimous and ordered all the generals to take off the red tassels on their helmets before lighting the lamps. Soon, the king of Chu made a personal expedition, engaged the enemy, and fell into a tight encirclement. His soldiers will flee everywhere, and the life of the king of Chu is at stake. Suddenly, a desperate battle appeared to protect deus ex, the king of Chu, and get back a life. The king of Chu said excitedly, "Everyone else is running for their lives. Only Ai Qing is willing to lay down his life to save the driver. What's your name? Which unit is it? " The general should answer: "I was the one who molested your wife at the candlelight party that day!" " "
Second, offer a humble apology.
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
Third, the Prime Minister can hold a boat in his stomach.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
Fourth, the story of Liuchi Lane.
In the Qing Dynasty, there was a famous family in Tongcheng, Anhui Province. Father and son are two generations, with great power. It turned out to be Zhang and Zhang.
During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Ying was a university student in Wenhua Hall and a minister of rites. The old house in Tongcheng, my hometown, is adjacent to the Wu family. There is an open space between the two houses for traffic between the two sides. Later, neighbor Wu Jia built a house and occupied this passage. The Zhang family disagreed, and the two sides defeated the county government. Considering that both sides of the dispute are prominent aristocratic families, the county magistrate did not dare to end it easily.
During this period, the Zhang family wrote a letter to the official in Beijing, asking to get involved in this matter. After receiving the letter, Zhang Ying thought he should be humble to his neighbors, and wrote four sentences in his reply to his family: A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so why not be three feet? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang.
After reading it, the family understood the meaning and offered to give up three feet of open space. The Wu family was deeply moved by the situation and moved out of the three-foot homestead, thus forming a six-foot alley. The courtesy of the two families and the Zhang family's practice of not bullying others were passed down as beautiful talks.
Five, Lincoln's way of dealing with political opponents.
Some people criticized President Lincoln's attitude towards his political opponents: "Why do you want to make friends with them?" ? You should try to attack them and destroy them. "
"We are not in the elimination of political opponents? When we become friends, political enemies do not exist. " President Lincoln said gently. This is how President Lincoln destroyed his political enemies and turned them into friends.
He was elected president of the United States twice.
Today, this passage is engraved on the wall of the memorial hall named after him:
"No malice to anyone; Be generous and kind to all people; Adhere to justice, because God makes us understand justice; Let's continue to work hard and finish what we are doing; Dress up the wounds of our country.
Sixth, Peng's measures are generous.
More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. General Peng immediately told him to go back to war and knew that he was in trouble. Seeing that General Peng was indifferent, he was scared and moved. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
7. Pan answers questions from foreign journalists.
Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, answered a question from a foreign reporter like this: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges process have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear and rational mind, do things more comprehensively, inspire your courage to accept challenges, and let generate realize the potential of life. This is not a simple tolerance, this tolerance is like a hammer, sharpening your will and sharpening the blade of your life.