Great ancient country, leisurely China. Five thousand years of historical track and five thousand years of cultural inheritance. Five thousand years of wind, frost, rain and snow did not bury the fine tradition of the descendants of dragons, but lasted forever and passed down from generation to generation. The ancients respected honesty, but today people love honesty, and history chooses honesty.
Confucius said to be benevolent and Mencius said to take justice. Benevolence, courtesy, righteousness, affection, mind and body. In Confucianism's view, the premise of benevolence and righteousness is kindness in heart, and the so-called diligent and sincere people are also. If you have faith in your heart, you can feel at ease, cultivate your self, keep your family in order, and rule the country. Those who do righteousness should also be based on integrity. The existence of righteousness, integrity also exists, reading "University" and "The Doctrine of the Mean", one word covers it, integrity is all-encompassing, and integrity is its concrete embodiment.
In the long history of rolling in and passing away, there are many honest people. Jing Ke bid farewell to Taizi Dan in "The Wind is Whistling in Shui Han", and the strong man went only to repay the kindness, although he died without regret. Wu Zixu escaped from Chu and gained the reuse of the king of Wu, who promised to avenge him. Since then, Wu Zixu has devoted himself to assisting him, but even if he was suspected, he did not change his loyalty. The secret of Tao Zhugong boating on the West Lake is "Spin a thousand pieces of silver, come back!" Is to do business with integrity. Later generations of Huizhou merchants and Shanxi merchants all practiced this principle, and their business flourished.
Integrity is in the heart, and it can only be used in business to get rich. It can be praised by later generations to extend honesty and settle down; If it is extended to the Eight Wastelands, the Six Rivers and the Four Seas, all people will return to their hearts, and the four seasons will be in harmony with the yin and yang of heaven and earth. When it is transported, the five mountains shake, the rivers run, the princes serve, and the world is rectified. When Qu Yuan was released, he lamented that "the world is turbid, I am alone, everyone is drunk, and I am alone". He hates those who "observe with their own bodies and accept things from humble people". He was loyal to the monarch, attached to the country, jumped to the top, stirred up a river of clear water, and became famous forever. Liu Bang's entry into the Guanzhong area won the hearts of the people because he fulfilled the three chapters of the contract, while Qiu did not commit any criminal acts. Liu Bei made friends with neighboring countries, governed the people at home, and was honest with the people, which was based on the three-thirds of the world; Li Shimin knew that "water can carry a boat, but it can also overturn it". He is sincere to the people. If everyone supports him, he will work for the welfare of millions of people, thus creating a "chastity rule" ... It has been said that honesty is the foundation of people and heaven rewards diligence.
Therefore, if we inherit the fine quality of the nation, run integrity through our body and mind, and guide us to do things with integrity, our life will be wonderful and our cause will be brilliant!
Remember, heaven rewards diligence, and honesty will accompany me all the way.
Chapter two: the triple realm of reading.
There is always contact with the outside world between heaven and earth. And reading is its main channel.
There are several kinds of reading, and most people's reading belongs to recreational reading. The purpose of this kind of reading is to kill time. To put it mildly, it means that time will not pass in vain. Browsing the web, reading newspapers, watching TV, learning some hot news, collecting a few celebrity gossip, knowing where strange things happened, seeing how many tigers were investigated ... watching music, and then making a splash with like-minded people is a very comfortable and proud thing.
The reading of ordinary people is generally the same, and the reading of many office workers can also be classified into this category. We young students are sometimes willing to do these entertaining readings. In order to relax and adjust some boring study life. I think "recreation" is a neutral word, which can even be classified as a compliment in a sense. After all, it is much better to have something to trust with recreation than to do nothing and do nothing.
The second realm of reading, I call it charging reading. This kind of reading has obvious practical utilitarianism, which means selling now and cramming for the Buddha's feet temporarily. Take me as an example, it's time to hand in my comprehensive research homework, and then I search for relevant information on the Internet, including books, magazines and related papers, and then burn the midnight oil and scan quickly, from which I can screen out the minerals I need, smelt and purify them, and finally form my own products. This kind of reading is efficient and impressive. Every little makes a mickle, and the things in my head feel more and more delicious. For the purpose of myopia, the effect is long-lasting, and this kind of reading is actually a step in our growth.
I heard that most adults, especially office workers, have some kind of "utilitarianism" in reading. This is not a bad thing. The key is to transform this information reasonably and avoid copying it mechanically. Otherwise, this kind of reading will become opium, and the side effects are not generally great.
The realm of reading is spiritual reading, or spiritual reading. This kind of reading is entirely a personal interest, and the process of reading is also a process of cultivating body and mind and cultivating sentiment. It is said that such people, watching classic film and television works, will forget the existence of the world and be happy and sad with the fate of the people in the play; When reading favorite literary classics, it is often like Mr. Wu Liu who "forgets to eat every time he knows one thing." Unfortunately, I haven't reached this level, but I will work hard in this direction.
Lu Xun said that you should read all kinds of books, even those that have nothing to do with your career. Rousseau, on the other hand, stressed that reading should not be greedy, but thinking more. The question of what to read and how to read it is revealed. If you understand this and put it into practice, you will reach a great level.
Article 3: How are you doing?
According to some humorous programmers, "other people's lives are what you think." Jpg, but in his own opinion. Gif. What you see is the appearance of others, not the real interpretation of his life.
A woman in rags, followed by a child, looked afraid of her mother and didn't dare to look her in the eye all the way. Presumably, that is a strict mother. Walking to the subway platform, an old man with white hair was playing the erhu, and there was an iron plate next to it, with only a few coins in it. When the woman passed by the old man, she turned her head in disgust and said to the child, "Look, what a pity. If you don't obey, you will live like that in the future. " I watched quietly. The child nodded timidly and followed his mother. Like that?
The woman can say this, it must be from the heart. However, it is obviously a heartfelt inferiority complex. Obviously, she is just a rural woman, and only when she comes to a big city can she look swaggering.
From this, I can't help thinking that while evaluating other people's lives, your evaluation may only be a true portrayal of your heart. When a person feels inferior, seeing the glamorous life of others is more envy, jealousy and even compliment. I may have to guess that woman's life, or she may be bitter, poor and not so happy. This is only a very small thing, which may happen every day, so that it is gradually diluted. What's more, Liu Yuxi, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, was once sent to a humble room, which is even more humble than today's humble room. People are talking about how miserable and unhappy Liu Yuxi's life will be, and at the same time, they are glad that they have not violated the government and that life has not ended like this. But in fact, Liu Yuxi's poor and happy mentality has long put him in a paradise-like state. He should write poems, drink tea and live a leisurely and comfortable life.
Do you need to discuss other people's lives? A glamorous company president may be an ordinary layman behind him; And a lonely wandering singer may become extremely glamorous because he often pursues his dream life. Life is for yourself, not for others. Are you good at discussing other people's lives? In my opinion, the evaluation of other people's lives may be a true portrayal of their own living conditions and attitudes. If a simple and leisurely literati passes by Liu Yuxi's former residence, he may sigh: Although the accommodation conditions are bad, the fresh air and elegant environment here are fascinating!
And an official with a strong vanity and actually a low self-esteem may also sigh: I am afraid I can't sleep countless days and nights in such a shabby and shabby house. Watch this step. People with moss and inferiority always comment on other people's lives, which is more of a comfort to themselves, but it is always a manifestation of inferiority.
However, it is always difficult to discuss other people's lives fairly. Everyone has a different mentality, and a truly fair discussion can only come from "others" themselves. Everyone is someone else. So it is enough to live well.