It can be said that it is interesting for people to get married now, but in ancient times, they also liked to hold weddings.
During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, the people suddenly received a rather difficult case. The plaintiff is the newlywed groom, and the defendant is a ruffian scoundrel in the same village. The reason why hooligans really have no bottom line is that the groom went too far on their wedding night, which made the groom very angry and even got into a fight with hooligans, but instead of hitting others, he was beaten black and blue and humiliated.
It is not uncommon for new houses to have problems. "Wu drew a treasure? A bridal chamber tragedy in Ningbo was recorded in On Customs Records, because a man was lurking in the groom's house, eavesdropping and peeking at the sacred process of the bride and groom making babies at night. But just as he was listening, the infiltrator smiled and was finally discovered by the groom. In a rage, the groom stabbed the eavesdropper with scissors! ?
During the Northern and Southern Dynasties, the custom of disturbing the bridal chamber was widely spread, even in the palace. During the sui and Tang dynasties, the marriage custom of holding happy events was circulated among the people and recorded in the history books? For example, women in local families don't need a big hijab, so they let their relatives go. The Virgin sits on the couch, and the best one sits in front of the couch. The viewer says she is happy and beautiful. Although the man is poor, he is also happy. And don't think it's wrong. ?
According to the book Bao Pu Zi written by Ge Hong, a Taoist scholar and medical scientist in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the mischief of the bridal chamber in the Jin Dynasty has reached an outrageous level, and even tragedies such as the groom being molested and hanged have appeared. What is even more shocking is that these tragedies are still happening today. The tragedy of a groom's death in Shaanxi Province made netizens sigh and caused extensive discussion. It is reported that on the wedding day, friends began to make trouble in the bridal chamber, and the newly married man hid in the bedroom, causing him to fall to his death, which triggered a wide discussion among netizens about the trouble in the bridal chamber.
In the Ming and Qing dynasties, the civil strife in the bridal chamber was even worse than that in previous dynasties. On the wedding night, get the groom drunk, set off firecrackers to scare the bride, and put forward many indecent demands to embarrass the bride. Usually, weddings don't end until midnight.
Why did what was originally a festive celebration become a bad habit? The reason is that people's entertainment in traditional society is limited, and they can only vent their entertainment on weddings and funerals. As a modern civilization, we should take its essence and discard its dross, such as wedding customs such as bridal chamber, so as to protect the peaceful and blessed atmosphere of traditional weddings.
Some netizens said that although the bridal chamber has a long history and strong vitality, it has now become vulgar and even evolved into a vicious incident of simply teasing and insulting women. We should arouse everyone's thinking and vigilance, break the vulgar wedding farce, and don't let the couple talk about the bridal chamber.