A letter from parents to 17-year-old son
Male male:
How time flies! In a blink of an eye, one semester of senior high school has passed, and you have passed your seventeenth birthday, with a height of 175CM and a weight of 70 kg. You are already an upright man standing in front of us. Seventeen years, like yesterday. Your childhood scenes, like colorful animations, often appear in my mind. I often feel that there is an invisible force that binds mom and dad tightly to you. This relationship has deep feelings besides blood.
In these seventeen spring and autumn periods, mom and dad always pay attention to your progress, your growth, your joys and sorrows always affect us. Mother has given more care to your food, clothing, housing and transportation, from the shuttle to and from school, the collocation of three meals a day, and the increase or decrease of clothes in spring, summer, autumn and winter, which can be said to be meticulous. Dad is more concerned about your healthy growth and study. From the early English education in primary school to the composition training in junior high school, from being a man and doing things to the homework arrangement in winter and summer vacations, parents have devoted a lot of efforts to one purpose, that is, you can grow up healthily and happily. From primary school to now, you have been excellent, and your academic performance has been among the best. You are a "three good" student every year. Occasionally, your first or second exam results are not satisfactory. I know this is also your negligence. We all believe that you will catch up immediately, and it is true. Through this letter today, I want to talk about my heart.
My child, I want to tell you that learning is always your top priority, and it is an important task for you now, in the future and even in your life. By June 6, 20 1 1, there are still 802 days to study, and your high school study career will be over. A philosopher once said: The road of life is often only a few steps. High school is the most critical stage in life. Lay a good foundation and you will benefit for life.
You study very hard. You study until about eleven o'clock every night. But sometimes I think your study efficiency is not very high, and sometimes your energy is not highly concentrated. In my opinion, when studying, we should concentrate on it, adopt appropriate methods, don't memorize it, grasp the tricks, learn from some excellent students' learning methods, improve learning efficiency, and learn and recite some important and difficult points repeatedly. Only in this way can we keep them in mind. Compared with junior high school, senior high school is more difficult to learn, with high intensity and more content, and the learning burden and pressure are obviously aggravated, so it can no longer rely on junior high school teachers? Cramming at the last minute? Teaching? Watch the pipe, okay? Self-study Imperative? In homework, we should gradually cultivate our ability to acquire and consolidate knowledge, make a study plan that suits us, persevere and form a good habit of autonomous learning.
Although there are many unreasonable factors in the current college entrance examination system, there is no fairer and more reasonable system. College entrance examination is to test the comprehensive knowledge and ability of candidates. Your generation is the next generation's baby boom of our generation in the 1960s, with great study pressure, many employment difficulties and fierce competition. So, now work harder, pay more, endure loneliness, watch less TV, read more books, play less games, do more homework, pursue less fashion of clothes and study harder. Yes, the outside world is wonderful and the temptation is moving, but now is the prime time for you to study hard, and people's energy is limited. If you spend too much on it, you will definitely study less. Remember what the teacher asks to recite and learn what the teacher asks to master. You will be more calm and have a better chance of winning the college entrance examination, being admitted to your ideal university, winning glory for cultivating your alma mater, winning glory for education teachers, and winning glory for raising your parents and realizing your lofty ideals.
Son, I want to tell you that learning to be a man is your lifelong homework. Never too old to learn. Although you have always been a clever boy in the eyes of your parents, grandparents and grandparents, sometimes you are a little introverted, greeting your elders with a low voice, and sometimes you are not active enough. To study? Be a man first, then do things, then study? Put life first, including being polite, moral, civilized, respecting the old and loving the young. We should respect teachers and parents, learn to think twice before you act, often communicate with classmates and friends, unite classmates, help others, learn from others' strengths and supplement our own shortcomings. Good character will benefit you for life. In specific life, my father wants you to gradually develop a sense of responsibility, instead of always thinking about what others should do for you, think about what you can do for others. Do your own thing and help others. People who have no sense of responsibility can hardly achieve great things, and it is even harder to get social recognition without real friends. The sense of responsibility is embodied in all aspects of family, school and social life. A person who dares to take responsibility is also a person who keeps his reputation, an honest person, a self-respecting person and a just person.
You should learn to communicate with people. Communicating with parents will deepen family ties, communicate with teachers will be sensible, communicate with classmates will enhance friendship, and communicate with the outside world will better understand society. Good communication can get rid of your inner depression, and good communication will make you feel the beauty of life. You should know how to cherish your feelings, have a grateful heart, be grateful for the upbringing of parents, the teaching of teachers, the friendship of classmates and the help of society.
Son, I want to tell you that good health is an important foundation for you to do any work. Without a healthy body, nothing can be said. Isn't that what health experts say? Good health, right? 1? Career, family, knowledge, wealth, everything? 1? In the back 0? , in poor health? 1? , everything behind is? 0? . Children, health is the capital of life. Only when you are healthy can you experience and enjoy life better and make more contributions to the country, society and family. Having a good body is not an overnight thing, but the result of continuous efforts. By health, I mean physical health and mental health, both of which are indispensable.
Don't be partial to food, eat more fruits and vegetables; In terms of physical exercise, we should have a long-term plan and insist on physical exercise for many years. Maintaining mental health is also the result of continuous learning and hard work. Bad habits and hobbies will greatly damage people's health.
I remember a writer saying this sentence: A person's life is only three days, yesterday, today and tomorrow. Yesterday, has passed, become history, gone forever; Today, it is at your feet, and every minute is shortening; Tomorrow, the future, the hope? . I hope to cherish today, and there will be hope in the future.
I am here to convey
Study smoothly.
dad
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A letter from parents to 17-year-old son
Son:
Mom hasn't written to you for a long time. Now you are a handsome boy who is seventeen years old and more than one meter eight, and you have entered the tense and arduous learning stage of senior three. I study harder and do things more independently than before. Mom knows that you have grown up and become sensible.
Mom found that you have changed a lot recently: you often change clothes, like looking in the mirror, pay special attention to external image, and have more text messages on your mobile phone than before. Mom knows that you have grown up and have your own little secret. In fact, it's nothing, which means you are a normal and healthy child. Entering adolescence is a stage of physical and psychological growth that everyone has to go through. What makes my mother happy is that my son is appreciated by girls, which shows that you are excellent; You have a girl you like, which means you are a psychologically sound boy. To tell the truth, you were brought up by your mother. My mother is really afraid that you will become a little boy by relying too much on your mother. Now it seems that her mother is worrying too much.
What makes mom happy is that your good classmates and friends can give you great help in your study and make your grades advance by leaps and bounds. It seems that you have made a good friend, and it is a great blessing in life to have a good friend who cares about you, helps you study and encourages you to make progress. So mom is happy for you.
The friendship between classmates is the purest and truest. In three years of high school, * * * studied hard in the cold window 1000 days, * * * faced the pressure, * * * witnessed each other's growth, shared each other's joy and solved each other's troubles. This friendship is precious. What is more gratifying is that we can learn from each other. You are good at Chinese and physics, and she is good at English and biology. Each of them taught her effective learning methods, taught each other, helped her classmates and improved herself. This year, before the senior high school entrance examination 16 school year 16 students accounted for 12 students in your class, which is inseparable from the concept of * * * learning together and helping others improve themselves advocated by your class teacher.
This kind of mutual assistance between you and your classmates is a successful example of learning. Mom hopes that you can set more ambitious goals for yourself, make gradual stage goals and make solid progress. Get along with classmates more cheerful and open-minded, get along with female classmates more generous and responsible, and don't step into a narrow emotional world. Because you are only 17 years old after all, what you see, think and experience are very limited, and there is still a long way to learn, grow and experience. Work hard with classmates and sprint to their respective goals. I hope that in next year's senior high school entrance examination, you and your classmates can reap the long-awaited heavy fruits, enter higher institutions with more good classmates and friends, win opportunities for yourself at the critical turning point in life and sail.
mother
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A letter from parents to 17-year-old son
Dear son:
On the occasion of your 17 birthday, when my father decided to write you a letter, he felt a faint sadness in his heart. It's almost 17 years since you were born. Dad never wrote you a letter seriously, and never communicated with you in the form of paper and pen. Because you have been by my side, and you haven't left my sight for almost a long time, a few simple words are the normal communication between you and my father and son, and you sometimes tell us some very interesting stories and anecdotes in your class. Although there is not much communication, it is the greatest comfort to your mother and me.
Dear son, with the passage of your seventeenth birthday, your step towards adulthood is approaching, and the morality and responsibility you have to bear will be obvious.
Dear son, in your study career, you must talk about methods and have strong study perseverance. ? Life is not easy for anyone, we must have perseverance. The most important thing is that we should have confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we have a natural talent for everything, and we must finish it at any cost. At the end, you should be able to say with a clear conscience: I have tried my best. In terms of methods, it also needs good arrangement and a certain degree of organization. Review your life and study carefully. Did you do it satisfactorily?
Dear son, on the road to growth, you must have clear goals and hold fast to your dreams. The first paragraph of a model essay "On the Road with a Goal" is well written: the goal is a bright light to illuminate your life; The goal is a road sign to show you the way when you get lost; The goal is the compass that guides your life; The goal is the torch, which can burn everyone's potential and lead you to the dream sky. Roman? Roland said: the most terrible enemy in life is not having a clear goal. ? Indeed, the goal is your dream, and the goal is the hope of success. If you lose your goal, you lose your direction and everything. ? The higher the goal, the more valuable the ambition. ? My son, when he is in love, should swim in the ocean of knowledge, absorb nutrition as much as possible, arm himself, and constantly strive to achieve the goal of life. Now, it's time to set a goal, whether it's an online writer or an archaeological or film director, it's time to set it as soon as possible.
Dear son, learn to work hard to realize your dreams and be a useful person to society. Although the journey will inevitably encounter such bumps and hardships, I sincerely hope that you can be strong, because your happiness will always be your mother's happiness. Mom and dad walked out of the countryside through their own efforts and created a world for themselves. Without any background, I can find my own value on a blank piece of paper, and I can also build a platform for you to grow up. Studying in Xi 'an is a famous school in Shaanxi, which is what many children and parents dream of. Mom and Dad hope you can use this platform to rise from a high starting point. People's potential is great, we are all flawed people, so are our parents, but we all have dreams in our hearts, a dream that may not be said, but will always exist. For a dream, my parents left their hometown and came to Xi 'an. At the beginning, we were at home, worried about the poverty of life every day, and often held our heads up in front of our classmates. Because of poverty, we can't often get together with our classmates and colleagues; Because of poverty, we even have to consider buying a book for half a day; We have to hesitate for a long time to buy a dress. The pace of life after work is tense, and the intensity and pressure of work are enormous, but we have no regrets. Because life should be more exciting, you should be proud. Dear son, mom and dad are not extremely smart people, but we can say that we are all arrogant people, all self-reliant people and never admit defeat. Although we haven't made any great achievements, after all, we are all changing our lives with our diligence.
Dear son, you should learn to be grateful; People often say: the grace of a drop of water is rewarded by a spring. You are a very kind person. You are so kind that you can't even curse and hit people. Good people won't even fight for the benefits you deserve. Thank you, mom and dad, teachers and classmates, all those who helped you, and all those who hindered you. However, kindness also has a choice. Kindness to the wicked is cruelty to oneself.
Dear son, you must learn to grow and share. Yang Lan, a famous cultural person, said: You can't succeed in this life, but you can't help growing up. Maybe you have reached a balance in a certain occasion and period, and this balance is short-lived, which may be fleeting and constantly broken. Growth is endless, and this growth is a dynamic process of continuous development. Many things in life are difficult to grasp, but growth can be grasped and it is a commitment to yourself. Although we can't become Liu Xiang no matter how hard we try, we can still enjoy running. Growth means commitment and responsibility. Be responsible for yourself, others, parents and society. A man should bravely shoulder the heavy burden, learn to share and learn to take responsibility. Growth means getting in touch with more things and the wider world.
Son, please believe that mom and dad are your strongest backing on your growth path, and we will share it for you and cheer for you! In the process of achieving your life goals, mom and dad are your consultants and your partners.
Dear son, dad loves you and mom loves you! I wish you a happy birthday, good health and academic progress!
Mom and dad.
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A letter from parents to 17-year-old son
My son:
Read the letter!
Poor Chengfeng, a father has so much to say to you, but as a person who has been through it, I know you think your mother and I are bothersome, so I haven't said anything. In my opinion, you have been sensible and lovely since childhood, and you are clever and obedient. Although you are studying in a military school now, in my opinion, you are still a child, and your life and social experience need to be increased. It is inevitable to be disobedient during the rebellious period. Therefore, I still have a lot to say to you, so I wrote the following words for your discussion. Fathers are willing to communicate with you as friends on an equal footing, talk about some of my life feelings, and talk about some hopes and entrustment of your mother and me. If not, please criticize.
First of all, son, you should learn to control yourself.
People live in this world, not for themselves. How many people walk by you in life? As a man, you need to get married, take responsibility, honor your parents and raise your children in the future. People live in this world and can't do whatever they want. They should learn self-control, what to do and what not to do. Since childhood, your parents have paid a lot for your growth. They often educate you to study hard, be a good person and do things well. To this day, everyone in the family is still worried about your study. Everyone is happy for your progress, and everyone is worried about your shortcomings. Mom and dad's love and affection for you are often unspeakable. Being alone does not mean that you can get rid of the bondage and act according to your own pleasure. Any freedom is relative, and there is no absolute freedom. Therefore, strict self-discipline should be exercised at all times. Generally speaking, we must abide by laws, regulations, systems and regulations; From a small point of view, we should strictly follow moral standards. In learning, you should have your own learning plan every day, every week, every month and every semester, and you can climb the peak of knowledge over time. You are about to face graduation assignment, so from now on, you should be more steady and step by step. Have a strict concept of time and strictly abide by the schedule every day, you know? Diligence is good at diligence, barren is good at playing; What I did was thinking, what I destroyed was following? Since ancient times. To tell the truth, my father was shocked to hear that you were getting married. I understand how you feel, but reason tells me that it is not appropriate for you to get married now. Marriage is a lifelong event for two people, which is related to the future happiness of two families. Need economic foundation and emotional running-in, absolutely not on impulse. My father was once young, you know? Which girl is not affectionate and which teenager doesn't love spring? . However, you are getting married too early now, and I know it's hard for you to listen to your parents now, but I hope you understand the pains of being a parent. We don't want you to regret it one day. You will tell us why we didn't discourage you in the first place. In short, a father respects your feelings, but please also respect your parents' feelings. I'm still against your marriage. I just hope you can think it over, and when your graduation work is stable in the future, your first parents will agree to your early marriage and family.
Second, son, you should cherish time.
Be prepared to cherish time, whether from a personal or family perspective. Your parents have placed great hopes on you, but I don't think you have the obligation to realize your parents' wishes or to honor your ancestors. However, just for your personal future, you should cherish it again. Do you have your own life plan? Have you considered what you want to do in the future? If you think about it, you must arrange your time scientifically and reasonably. In order to achieve your goal in life, you should eliminate all interference and go forward bravely. At the very least, you should also be a decent person who is useful to society. Now I'm getting married, to say the least, what will I live on after I get married? Have you thought about it, son? Getting married and having children needs an economic foundation. In your present situation, isn't marriage equivalent to child's play? A father doesn't want you to regret it later, and he doesn't want it to be a lifelong regret. No regrets, the medicine is sold in time. Only by suffering can you become a master. It's time for you to study hard. Although some girls have given you hints, I think your main task now is to study, which is the golden period to increase your knowledge and skills. When it comes to this problem, you will spend too much time and energy. Emotional problems are not allowed to be played with or teased. We should respect our feelings as well as those of others. Although your bodies have grown into adults, your minds are still immature and there are many problems, especially in love. It should be to deal with the problem of an age group. Outside the stage, it will delay the important things in front of you. A truly capable man, why not marry!
Third, son, you should learn to bear hardships.
All successful people in ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, without exception, are diligent people. Difficulties and hardships, raising you in success? . Your generation, either born in the 1990s or only children, are self-centered and depend on their parents for everything. This will not work for a long time, which is not conducive to your growth. Learn to live independently. You know, suffering is a precious wealth of life and a rare opportunity to learn. Only by going to hell can you go to heaven. As the ancients said, those who walk a hundred miles are half ninety. Why is this happening? The reason is that many people have no perseverance, which leads to failure. In a sense, learning is a hard job, which needs us to overcome with tenacious perseverance in order to reach the brilliant peak and achieve the established goals. The father hopes that one day his son can really grow up, be independent and really take on the responsibility of a family. At that time, my father will give my most sincere wishes to my son's wedding. Son, good advice is hard to listen to, but good medicine tastes bitter. Don't always feel that your parents are long-winded; they are always in charge of you. You can only know your parents' kindness by raising children, and one day you will understand their hard work.
Finally, I wish our son success in his studies and all the best. Remember a person, take care of yourself and keep in touch with your parents. Remember, no matter when and where, parents will always be your strong backing.
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