1. First of all, we should prepare offerings, such as cakes, fruits and dishes.
2, lock, in the unlocking ceremony, you need to bring it around the child's neck, and at the same time bring an iron chain, and lock the two ends of the chain together with an iron lock.
It should be noted that:
1, the three people who unlock the lock refer to the elders in the family, such as uncle and michel platini. Pay attention to the needs of three poor surnames.
2. When the child opens the lock, read three sentences: "When you open it, you are smart; Second, academic success; Three open, rich and full! "
3. After unlocking the lock, parents should give the prepared gift to the "foster mother" and thank the foster mother for her concern for the child's growth.
The custom of unlocking is mainly spread in the northern region. It is mainly the enlightenment movement for boys who are about 12 years old. It has a good blessing, which can open the shackles in boys' hearts and make them smarter.
Extended data
The origin of custom
In the north of China, the birthday of child 12 is commonly known as "round lock", which is a blessing for children to enter youth. Also known as "unlocking", "ecstasy lock" and "round sheep", it is a birthday ceremony specially held for children over 12 years old. This custom is very common.
The purpose of unlocking is to open the chain of wisdom for those children who are about to become adults, so that children of this age can be freed from childhood ignorance, step into the mileage of teenagers, develop in the direction of intelligence and wisdom, and develop in the direction of adults, so that children feel that they have left their childhood, have the belief of joining the ranks of adults, stand on their own feet and get rid of dependence.
Nowadays, this kind of unlocking activity has been simplified as the whole family getting together, hanging a lock around the child's neck, and then in front of the whole family, the uncle will open the lock around his neck and have a happy dinner to celebrate the unlocking, and the unlocking activity will come to an end. The child seems to have reached another realm, and soon he has a spiritual detachment.
Baidu Encyclopedia-Unlock (China Northern Folk Custom)