The reason why you don't like this man is that you have different views.

You can realize the problem, but she can't.

She thinks there's nothing wrong with the details. You can't. She feels comfortable, but you force yourself to care about her.

This kind of thing happens in every dormitory. It is nonsense to say that roommates are the most precious friends and the longest friendship in life. Here, I would like to advise that there is no need to accommodate roommates on the issue of three views in order to find a long-term friend.

You will get married, work and meet more people in other cities in the future. When you have a stable job and a baby, the possibility that you and your friends are in the same circle of friends will increase. This also means that before this, your girlfriends and beautiful women are likely to be wishful thinking, because there are many situations in which information is not equal, so every time you enter a new environment, you will definitely start to alienate the old environment and people in the old environment.

Second, do you haggle over every ounce?

On this issue, we can only say self-judgment.

The three views are different and the natural measurement standards are different. My view on getting along in the dormitory is that it doesn't count.

Some rules and regulations of dormitory life are hidden rules, such as don't make noise during recess, dormitory health sharing and so on. These will not be clear, and everyone will naturally abide by them. Unfortunately, if there are some wonderful things, then my opinion is, let's talk about them first, but we can't talk about them well. Just one word, fuck!

Tell your own story. As you said, I also have a roommate in my dormitory. I won't care about her at the movies. My method is to say it directly.

XXX, can you turn down the sound? I feel a little sick.

Tell your own story. As you said, I also have a roommate in my dormitory. I won't care about her at the movies. My method is to say it directly.

XXX, can you turn down the sound? I feel a little sick.

This is the first time I got up the courage to tell her, because I had a fever that day and was lying in bed. This roommate is the only one in the dormitory who laughs loudly and watches variety shows.

I also want to put up with it a few times first, but you will find that you can't keep silent when your legitimate interests are deprived, so I chose the same method as you, and I also quarreled with her.

As a result, she gave me a fierce speech. I heard her lose her temper that day, quietly repeated what I wanted to say in my mind, and then stood up and threw a chair at her.

The words are terrible, but the effect is obvious. From now on, as long as I sleep, she will automatically wear headphones. Of course, I will automatically put on headphones when she is resting, not to accommodate each other, but to avoid unnecessary disputes.

This incident inspired me a lot. Some people may think that fighting for such a trivial matter is too haggle over every ounce. No, if you give in to a detail once or twice, it means you have to endure it thousands of times until graduation. My dormitory life has opened a very harmonious era. Of course, I never talk to that roommate except when necessary.

I hope that the subject will encounter such a problem again. If the communication is ineffective, just open it and have a look. Believe me, once you tear it up, you will find that many problems that bother you will disappear.

Third, how to prevent these emotions from affecting yourself or hating a person less?

While you are still worrying about these problems, I can only say that the subject is not busy enough.

College is not for fun. Don't stay in the dormitory when you have time. Staying for a long time is prone to problems. Run outside, go to the library, go to the study room, participate in club activities, visit scenic spots, find some food shops, and then apply an old saying, you will find that there is no time to care about those low-quality goods.

In college, gregarious sometimes means wasting time.

Especially in many people's universities, interpersonal relationships have lost more than half.

Of course, my experience tells me that it is really sad that so many roommates can't get along completely. After all, they still want to live together, and they still find the atmosphere very strange and boring. So what can I do at this time? One is exercise, and the other is study. When you have these two habits, it is especially easy to be in a good mood and calm down.

Fourth, finally.

It is easy for a person to be decadent in college life. If you meet a roommate who is unable to return to heaven in the dormitory, you should reduce the time in the dormitory and try your best to improve your ability. If you have a strong ability, you will naturally meet better people and ignore those who are getting farther and farther in your life.