My 2 1 day online course trip with Weiwei Picture Book is coming to an end, but this is really just the beginning. In the future, I will insist on letting the picture book go on, telling stories and being a 60-point mother who can tell stories.
In the documentary "Foreign Childhood", the war correspondent who experienced the storm suddenly burst into tears and said, "I am always said that this is not good and that is not good. I can't do this and that. Now I finally know what lifelong education is. "
There are a few words written in front:
In fact, there is no answer to how we should educate our children. Finding a way is the purpose and the most important thing. We need to learn and grow together with our children with a mode of thinking. There is no right or wrong, as long as we learn and grow. The way I educate my children is to accompany her, accompany her to grow up, show her the world and keep that curiosity. I want to respond if I don't forget it. Ye Jia has always had a strong curiosity about pigs. Except Peggy, he likes pigs of any shape. After returning to my hometown, I have been talking about seeing pigs. Finally, my uncle realized the little girl's little dream and went to see the pig. In the stinking pigsty, we saw pigs, including sows, boars and suckling piglets, but Ye Jia, who hated this and that, insisted on staying in the pigsty for a long time and refused to leave.
The children's curiosity was satisfied, and these three little pigs became the apple of Ye Jia's eye.
Picture book recommendation:
The three little pigs left home when they grew up. After a happy summer, they built different houses in autumn, but they met the story of the wolf. This story is concise in conception and distinctive in theme, and is suitable for babies of different ages to read. Although it is recommended to be over 3 years old, I personally think that because the story is simple, younger babies are more acceptable, and it is a good choice as an entry-level 3D pop-up book. Tell the baby through this story that the house is a place that can shelter from the wind and rain and avoid danger. Your family will help you in case of danger. A family should live together and share food, happiness and toys.
Don't be lazy, do everything well and do your own thing well.
Picture book guide
1. Why do we live in the house?
Build a space, know what home is and why you want to live in a house. The three brothers built their own houses, and the houses of the old pig and the second pig were blown down by the wolf in one breath. Only the third pig's house can escape the wolf. Brick and cement are stronger than grass and wood, and our home is made of brick, cement and steel. Because it is strong enough, no wolves will come in and no rain will leak. Home is the safest place. No matter what difficulties we have with our families, we can solve them.
Because this book has the concept of building a house, Ye Jia will tell me when building blocks that he will build a tall building for his mother to live in. Will you ask me if this is strong? Is it dangerous? The moral behind the story tells children not to be lazy in daily life, to have a long-term heart, to be responsible and considerate.
One of the laws of jungle life is the law of the jungle.
Master Jia asked me why the wolf destroyed the pigsty.
I said, because wolves want to eat pigs.
Master Jia asked again, why do wolves eat pigs?
I asked Master Jia, why do you want to eat cock?
Ye Jia replied, it's delicious.
I began to try to tell Ye Jia that the law of the jungle, the law of the jungle, big animals always like to eat small animals, stupid animals are always eaten by smart animals. After several times, although I don't know if she understood, at least she didn't ask me why wolves eat pigs or why cats eat mice.
Knowledge expanded, children's songs and mice came on stage together.
3. Try to get children to retell stories and role play.
Because the story is simple enough and there is no picture book, you can tell it when you sleep or when you are in the car. Say more and you will remember. It is actually a good choice to let the children speak for themselves at an appropriate time.
Because Ye Jia went to a small kindergarten in1June, I began to try to play a role exchange game with her because I was worried that she would be bullied in the small kindergarten. She is a teacher and I am a child, or she is another child and I am her. Gradually, she got used to doing role exchange, so I began to try to let her play some roles in the picture book, such as these three little pigs. I'll let her play the wolf, I'll build the building blocks and she'll blow. Although she often kicks them with her hands or feet, at least she knows that building blocks can be kicked. She also knows that the higher the cover, the more unstable it is. She knows that she can only cover one layer, but her mother can't blow it.
Finally, I want to say that everyone has his own unique way of reading picture books, and every baby also has his own favorite stories. Every mother knows that instead of holding her child in her arms and forcibly reading it to her, it is better to read the picture book in a way suitable for the baby, choose the story that the baby likes, and start reading to stimulate the child's reading interest. Don't worry that children don't understand, explain more. The baby's brain can compose music by itself. Don't limit her with your mode of thinking. She will say whatever you say, and she will have her own ideas. The more you talk, the more she will accept it. Keep in touch with your daily life and ask more questions, and she will continue to follow you.
Rogers said: An interesting paradox is that when I accept myself, I can change. Accept the child as it is, not as you want it to be. This may be what we have to do.
There is never a perfect education in the world. We are all eager to have a book about parenting, and we can find the answer to everything, just do it one by one as required. However, there is no one-size-fits-all method on this road. It is the most important thing to achieve mastery through comprehensive study and find a way suitable for your children.