1. According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, but they met Mr. Cheng who closed his eyes and took a nap. At this time, it began to snow outside. Eager to be a teacher, the two men stood aside respectfully and said nothing. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yi slowly opened his eyes and saw You Zuo standing in front of him. He was startled and said, "Ah, ah! Are they still there? " At this time, the snow outside has accumulated more than a foot thick, and He Youzuo doesn't look tired and impatient.
This story, called "Cheng Menxue Pear", was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, people often used the idiom "Cheng Menxue Pear" to express that scholars should respect their teachers and study sincerely and firmly.
Several juniors walked side by side, talking and laughing. A teacher came up to them and they didn't know him. But when the teacher came to these students, everyone else was joking. Only one student bowed respectfully and said "Hello, teacher". Of course, the teacher answered "hello" happily, and the other students didn't hum.
After the teacher passed. Some people say that classmates are sick and teachers they don't know bow. Some people say he just pretends to show it to others. That classmate didn't refute them, but said: being a polite person is the most basic requirement of being a student. I was very moved to hear this last sentence. I was moved by the sincerity of that classmate. Politeness is really a rare quality
In ancient times, there was a man who wanted to go to a temple, so he came to a strange town. Walking, he became more and more lost and didn't know where to go. At this moment, an old uncle happened to pass by him. He stood in front of him and shouted, "Hey, old man! Tell me where XX Temple is! How far is it! " The old uncle looked at him and said calmly, "rude (five miles)." So the man walked five miles, but he still couldn't see the temple he thought of. At that time, he thought about the old uncle's words and suddenly understood something. ...
On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water downstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the woman go upstairs, and then he went downstairs.
5. The story of Kong Rong Li Rang: When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! " Experience: Kong Rong knew the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship from an early age, which surprised the whole family. Since then, Kong Rong has spread the story of pears for thousands of years, becoming a model of unity and friendship.
(1) a short story about the origin of etiquette 100 words extended reading civilized etiquette is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term common life and communication, and is fixed by customs and traditions.
Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and education, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality, the accomplishment of the city and the face of the country. Therefore, as a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years, we should treat people with civilized behavior and reasonable etiquette. This is also an important way to carry forward national culture and show national spirit.
The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, there are appearance, manners, expressions, movements, language, clothing, speech, treating people and so on. From the object, there are etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication and so on. The code of conduct in the process of interpersonal communication is called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech action is called politeness.
To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can communicate with each other on the principle of "respecting others, self-discipline, moderation and sincerity" and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.
Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied, but each has its own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting people; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-restraint, and no arrogance; The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and control; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't take part in accidental amusement, and behave differently.
In this world, people are bound to stumble and sometimes even be rude. A "sorry" can make resentment disappear, otherwise it may have unexpected consequences and even lead to human tragedy. In interpersonal communication, learning to apologize is a very important moral accomplishment for us to be human from primary school. We should learn to say "I'm sorry" and try to be civilized teenagers.
Moreover, language is a tool for communication, and civilized language is the golden key to open the soul. Whether civilized language can be used in communication reflects a person's accomplishment and affects the whole social atmosphere. The world of swearing is "black and white", and the society that speaks civilized language is "colored". Of course, there are still many polite expressions in life, so we should pay attention to the polite expressions used in various occasions.
Secondly, learning "etiquette" should be based on improving my self-esteem. Self-esteem, that is, self-respect, is a psychological state of wanting to be respected by others, not bowing to others, and not allowing others to insult and discriminate. It is the expression of people's self-awareness, guides people's actions in a specific way, and is a positive behavioral motivation.
Correct self-esteem should have a humble character, not arrogance and impetuousness. When young students learn to respect others, they also gain the respect of others. While their self-esteem is improving, their inner moral requirements are also improving. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate young students' noble personality and good moral qualities of self-esteem, self-love and self-discipline.
Etiquette education can be regarded as a kind of motivation and guidance, which plays an important role in the individual development of young students. Thirdly, learning "etiquette" should focus on practice. A person's manners can only be reflected in his words and deeds. If you don't talk about it, you can't say whether someone has "manners". On the basis of understanding the etiquette requirements, everyone should dare to show their civilized and polite image in daily words and deeds and in dealing with people at ordinary times.
Some students usually know to be polite, but in public or when they meet unfamiliar people, their "etiquette" norms can't be brought into play, which is a sign of their lack of confidence. It is necessary to educate young students to build up confidence and know that while using proper manners and words, they are also shaping their good image, daring to show their polite, confident and civilized self, and making full use of various occasions and opportunities to show this.
Etiquette is also an important embodiment of campus culture. People with good manners and habits first give people a feeling of "pleasing to the eye" and can adjust the relationship between people. In school, etiquette can make the relationship between teachers and students, classmates and classmates more harmonious, harmonious and friendly, and make the campus civilized atmosphere more intense.
(2) the ancient short stories about etiquette (short)
China has been called "the state of etiquette" since ancient times. In the historical development of our country, etiquette culture has a long history and has a very deep and rich foundation in our country. The story about etiquette can be described by taking a bus.
It can be seen that paying attention to etiquette is of great significance to both individuals and countries.
(3) Self-made civilized etiquette stories are about 100 words.
If I were a breeze, I would erase your troubles; If I were a leaf, I would shelter you from the hot sun; If I were a light, I would light up your future! I am your good friend, and I want to send my blessing to you! Pentium river flows with my memories, erupting volcano spews with my thoughts, blooming flowers bloom with my blessings, such as moonlight pouring my expectations, and mobile phone text messages convey my greetings: Are you okay?
(4) A short story about civilized etiquette (preferably 100~200 words)
Ceng Zi avoided the seat.
"Ceng Zi is not at his seat" is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is the younger brother of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. "
Here, "avoiding the seat" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.
5] A short story about civilized etiquette-100 words, urgently needed!
One thing can be said to be just an action, that is, a teacher saw a piece of popsicle paper, bent down, picked it up and threw it into the trash can. It was a humble move, but he set an example and taught us that he was a teacher. If some students see what the teacher has done, how can they not admire the teacher? Maybe he will do the same next time. He will also understand that littering is uncivilized.
[6] etiquette story 100 words and feelings. Urgent!
On Saturday, Xiaoming and his mother went shopping in the shopping center. meet by chance
My good friend Xiaogang said, "I just bought a small toy. I'll lend it to you temporarily. "
Xiao Ming said, "No, thanks." After that, Xiao Ming went to the bookstore.
Seeing Xiaoming's brother, Xiaoming said, "Brother! Hello! " Xiaoming's brother
Say, "Hello Xiao Ming, I'll lend you a book!" " "Xiao Ming said," there is no need. "
After that, Xiao Ming came home, and his good friend Xiao Gang happened to come to his house to play, so Xiao Gang borrowed him.
A toy, Xiao Ming said, "Thank you." But he accidentally broke the toy,
He said to Xiaogang, "I'm sorry I broke your toy." Xiao Gang said, "No..
Relationship. "Xiao Ming and Xiao Gang both laughed.
(7) The following words are 100.
0 1 Xiaogan touched heaven
Shun, a legendary ancient emperor and one of the five emperors, was named Yao, Zhong Hua and Shi Yu, and was called Yu Shun in history. According to legend, his father Gu Sou, stepmother and half-brother tried to kill him many times: Shun set fire to the barn while repairing the roof of the barn, and Shun jumped off with two hats to escape; Shun dug a well and Xiang Ke went down to fill it. Shun dug a tunnel to escape. Afterwards, Shun was not jealous, but still obeyed his father and loved his younger brother. His filial piety touched the Emperor of Heaven. Shun plowed the fields in Lishan Mountain, the elephants plowed the fields for him and the birds mowed the grass for him. Hearing that Shun was very filial and capable of handling political affairs, Emperor Yaodi married his two daughters. After years of observation and test, Shun was chosen as his successor. After Shun ascended the throne, he went to see his father, still respectfully, and made him a vassal.
02 Qingchang decoction
The third son of Emperor Gaozu was born to Empress Bo. Eight years after high school (before 180) is the throne. In the name of benevolence and filial piety, he is famous all over the world, and he never slackens in serving his mother. His mother was ill for three years, and he often disappeared and took off his clothes. Let mom bring the soup, and he won't worry until he tastes it himself. During his 24 years in office, he emphasized the rule of virtue, advocated etiquette, and attached importance to the development of agriculture, which made the Western Han society stable, the population prosperous, and the economy restored and developed. His rule with Emperor Han Jing was called "the rule of culture and scenery."
Bite your finger and feel sad.
Zeng Shen, a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, was a proud disciple of Confucius. He is called "Ceng Zi" and is famous for his filial piety. When I was a teenager, my family was poor and I often went to the mountains to collect firewood. One day, there were guests at home, and my mother was at a loss and bit her finger with her teeth. Zeng Shen suddenly felt distressed. Knowing that his mother was calling him, he hurried home with firewood on his back and knelt down to ask why. Mother said, "Suddenly a guest came, and I bit my finger. I hope you will come back." Zeng Shen received the guests and treated them with courtesy. The well-read Zeng Shen once put forward the cultivation method of "I will save myself in three days" (The Analects of Confucius Learning). According to legend, his works include Confucian classics such as "Da Xue" and "Xiao Jing", and later Confucianism honored him as "Zong Sheng"
04 Hundred Li minus one meter.
Zhong You, Zi and Lu Ji, from the State of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, were proud disciples of Confucius. He is straightforward, brave and very filial. In the early years, my family was poor, and I often picked wild vegetables to cook, but I went home from a hundred miles away to serve my parents. After his parents died, he became a big official and was ordered to go to Chu, with hundreds of chariots and horses and accumulated as much as 10 thousand grain. Sitting on a piled brocade mattress and eating a sumptuous banquet, he often misses his parents and laments, "Even if I want to eat wild vegetables, where can I get them?" Confucius praised: "You served your parents best when you were alive, but you missed them after you died!" " (Thoughts on Confucius' Family Language)
05 Lu Yi Shunmu
Min Loss, the word Zi Qian, was a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period and a disciple of Confucius. He was known as Yan Yuan under Confucius. Confucius once praised him and said, "Filial piety, Min Zikai!" (Advanced Analects of Confucius). His biological mother died early, and his father married a second wife and gave birth to two sons. His stepmother often abuses him. In winter, the two younger brothers wore cotton winter clothes, but gave him a "cotton coat" made of reed flowers. One day, when my father went out, Min Min was pulling the car, shivering with cold. He threw the rope to the ground and was reprimanded and whipped by his father. Lu Hua flew out with a crack, and his father knew that Min had been abused. Father wants to divorce his stepmother when he comes home. Shen Min knelt down and begged his father to forgive his stepmother, saying, "I am the only one who is cold when I leave my mother. My three children will be cold when I divorce my mother." Father was very moved and obeyed him. When the stepmother heard about it, she regretted her mistake and treated him as a parent.
Deer milk entertains relatives.
Tan Zi was born in the Spring and Autumn Period. My parents are old, suffering from eye diseases, and need to drink deer milk for treatment. He went into the mountains in deerskin, mingled with the deer, and milked them for his parents. When I was getting milk, I saw that the hunter was about to shoot a muntjac. Scorpion quickly uncovered deerskin and came out, telling the hunter that milking deerskin is the fact of treating parents. The hunter respected his filial piety and gave him deer milk as a gift to escort him out of the mountain.
Play with colors to entertain parents.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Lao Laizi, a hermit of Chu State, cultivated himself in the southern foot of Mengshan Mountain in order to avoid the chaos in the world. He is filial to his parents and chooses delicious food for them. He is 70 years old and not old. He often wears colorful clothes and plays rattle like a child to make his parents laugh. Once he brought water to his parents and fell down when he entered the room. Afraid that his parents would be sad, he simply went to school on the ground. The children cried and their parents laughed.
In order to bury my father, I betrayed myself.
According to legend, Yong Dong was a native of Gancheng (now north of gaoqing county, Shandong Province) in the Eastern Han Dynasty. He lost his mother in his teens and moved to Anlu (now Hubei Province) for desertion. Later, when his father died, Yong Dong sold himself to a rich family as a slave in exchange for funeral expenses. On my way to work, I met a woman in the shade and claimed to be homeless, so they got married. This woman knitted 300 pieces of brocade in January to pay off Yong Dong's debts. She went to Huaiyin on her way home. The woman told Yong Dong that she was the daughter of the Emperor of Heaven and was ordered to help Yong Dong pay his debts. Say that finish volley. So Huaiyin changed its name to Xiaogan.
Wood carving and sex.
According to legend, Ding Lan was a native of Hanoi in the Eastern Han Dynasty (now north of the Yellow River in Henan). His parents died when he was young. He often misses his parents' upbringing, so he carved a statue of his parents out of wood. Everything is like life, and he negotiates with the wooden statue. After honoring his parents, he eats three meals a day. He must tell them before going out and see them when he gets home. He never slacks off. For a long time, his wife didn't respect the wooden statue very much, but curiously used the fingers of the wooden statue to acupuncture, and the fingers of the wooden statue actually bled out. When Ding Lan came home, she saw the tears in the eyes of the wooden statue and asked the truth, so she abandoned her wife.
10 line maid as mother
Jiangge, a native of Linzi, Qi State in the Eastern Han Dynasty, lost his father and was filial to his mother. During the war, Jiangge fled behind his mother's back and met bandits several times. The thief tried to kill him. Jiangge cried: My mother is old and has no one to raise her. The thief saw his filial piety and couldn't bear to kill him. Later, he moved to Xiapi, Jiangsu, and worked as an employee to support his mother. He is poor and barefoot, and his mother needs a lot. When Ming Di was elected as Lian Xiao, Johnny was elected as the founder of Xianneng and served as the commander of the five senses.
1 1 Huaiju Legacy
Lu Ji was a scientist from Huating (now Songjiang, Shanghai) in Wu and Wu counties during the Three Kingdoms period. At the age of six, he went to Jiujiang to see Yuan Shu with his father Lu Kang, and Yuan Shu took out oranges to entertain him. Lu Ji hid two oranges in his arms. When he left, the orange fell to the ground. Yuan Shu sneered: "When Lu Lang came to my house, did you have to hide his master's oranges when you left?" Lu Ji replied, "My mother likes oranges, and I want to take them back for her to taste." Yuan Shu was surprised to see that he knew how to be filial to his mother at an early age. After Lu Ji became an adult, he was knowledgeable and familiar with astronomical calendar calculation. He once wrote the map of the muddy sky, annotated the Book of Changes and wrote the Annotation of the Xuanjing.
12 Bury the child and serve the mother
Guo Ju, a native of Longxiu (now Linxian County, Henan Province) in the Jin Dynasty, had a well-off family. After his father died, he divided the property into two parts and divided it between his two younger brothers. He takes care of his mother alone and is extremely filial to her. Later, the family became poorer and his wife gave birth to a boy. Guo Ju is worried that raising the child will inevitably affect his mother's support. He discussed with his wife: "A son can have another one, but his mother can't be resurrected after death. It is better to bury his son and save some food to feed his mother. " When they were digging a hole, they suddenly saw a golden altar two feet underground, which read: "Guo Ju is a godsend, officials should not accept it, and people should not accept it." Husband and wife get gold, go home to honor their mother and have children at the same time.
13 pillow warm blanket
Huang Xiang, a native of Anlu, Jiangxia, Eastern Han Dynasty, lost his mother at the age of nine and was extremely filial to his father. Fan a cool pillow for my father in cool summer; Warm my father's bedding with my body in cold winter. I learned a lot of classics when I was a teenager, and my literary talent was flying. In the capital, it is widely circulated that "a westward journey, a yellow teenager in Jiangxia". An Di (107- 125) was the satrap of Wei County (now Hebei Province) at that time. Wei County was flooded and tried his best to help the victims. He is the author of Jiugong Fu and Ode to the Crown of the Son of Heaven.
14 decanter
Cai Shun, a native of Runan (now Henan) in Han Dynasty, lost his father and his mother was very filial. At that time, it was the chaos of follwed, and there was a famine. Rice was expensive, so we had to adopt mulberry and mother to satisfy our hunger. One day, I happened to meet the Red Eyebrow Army, and the rebel soldiers sharply asked, "Why do you put red mulberries and black mulberries in two baskets?" Cai Shun replied: "The black mulberry is for my mother, and the red mulberry is for myself." The Red Eyebrow Army pitied his filial piety and gave him three barrels of white rice and a cow to take back to his mother as a token of respect.
15 Yongquan carp
Jiang, a native of Guanghan, Sichuan in the Eastern Han Dynasty, married Ponzi. Husband and wife are filial, and their home is six or seven miles away from the Yangtze River. Ponzi often goes to the river to get the Yangtze River water that her mother-in-law likes to drink. Mother-in-law loves fish, and husband and wife often cook fish for her. My mother-in-law didn't want to eat alone, so she invited her neighbors to eat together. Once, because of the strong wind, Ponzi came home late to fetch water. Jiang suspected that she had neglected her mother and kicked her out of the house. Ponzi lived in a neighbor's house, worked hard day and night to spin and weave, and sent his savings to his neighbor to honor his mother-in-law. Later, my mother-in-law learned of Ponzi's dismissal and asked Chiang to invite him back. On Ponzi's way back to China, spring water suddenly gushed out of the courtyard, which tasted like the Yangtze River water, and two carp jumped out every day. From then on, Ponzi used these to worship his mother-in-law, so that he didn't have to go to the river far away.
16 Qi Tomb
Wang Pou, born in Wei and Jin Dynasties (now southeast of Changle, Shandong Province), was well-read and versatile. His father Wang Yi was killed by Si Mazhao. He lived in seclusion as a teacher and never sat facing west, saying that he would never be a minister. His mother was afraid of thunder before her death and was buried in the mountains after her death. Whenever he heard thunder in stormy weather, he ran to his mother's grave, bent down to comfort her and said, "Mom, this is your son. Don't be afraid." When he was teaching, whenever he read Guo E, he often burst into tears and missed his parents.
Nurses are not lazy.
Cui Shannan, a native of Boling (now Hebei) in Tang Dynasty, was called "Shannan" because he was an official on Shannan West Road. At that time, Cui Shannan's great-grandmother, Mrs. Sun, was old and lost her teeth. Her grandmother, Mrs. Tang, is very filial. After washing her hands every day, she goes to class to feed her mother-in-law. A few years later, Mrs. Sun stopped eating other meals and kept healthy. When Mrs. Sun was seriously ill, she called the whole family together and said, "I can't repay the kindness of the bride. I hope the bride's children and daughter-in-law will respect her as much as she respects me. " Later, Cui Shannan became a big official, and as expected, he addressed his grandmother, Mrs. Tang, as instructed by his grandson.
18 carp sleeps on the ice
Wang Xiang, a native of Langya, lost his mother in his early years. His stepmother Zhu spoke ill of him many times in front of his father, which made him lose his father's love. When his parents were ill, he took off his clothes to serve them. His stepmother wants to eat live carp, and it's freezing. He unbuttoned his clothes and lay on the ice. Suddenly, the ice melted by itself and two carp jumped out. After eating, the stepmother really recovered. Wang Xiang lived in seclusion for more than twenty years, and later worked as a senior farmer and an ordinary magistrate from Wenxian County.
19 Mosquitoes are covered in blood.
Wu Meng, a native of Puyang in Jin Dynasty, knew how to honor his parents at the age of eight. The family is poor, there is no mosquito net, and mosquito bites keep my father awake. Every summer night, Martin always sits naked in front of his father's bed and lets mosquitoes bite him, instead of driving him away, for fear that mosquitoes will leave him to bite his father.
20 seize the tiger and save the father
Yang Xiang was from the Jin Dynasty. When I was fourteen, my father and I went to the field to cut rice. Suddenly, a tiger came running, threw his father down and took him away. Yang Xiang is unarmed. In order to save his father, regardless of his own safety, he quickly rushed forward and grabbed the tiger's throat with all his strength. The tiger finally put down his father and ran away.
2 1 crying bamboo shoots
Meng Zong, a native of Jiangxia in the Three Kingdoms, lost his father when he was a teenager and his mother was seriously ill. The doctor told him to make soup with fresh bamboo shoots. It was winter and there were no fresh bamboo shoots. Meng Zong had nothing to do, so he ran to the bamboo forest alone and held the bamboo to cry. After a while, he suddenly heard a crack on the ground and saw some tender bamboo shoots growing on the ground. Meng Zong was overjoyed and picked it back to make soup. After drinking it, his mother really recovered. Later, he became an official.
22 Taste dung and worry
Yu, Gao Shi of Nanqi, was appointed as the magistrate of Yiling County. Less than ten days after taking office, I suddenly felt scared and sweaty. I had a premonition that something had happened at home, so I immediately resigned and returned to China. When I got home, I realized that my father had been seriously ill for two days. The doctor said, "To know the condition, just taste the patient's feces. It is bitter." Qian Lou went to taste his father's excrement and found it very sweet. He is very worried. At night, he bowed down to the Big Dipper and begged to die for his father. A few days later, his father died, and Qian Lou buried his father and raised him there for three years.
23 Abandon the official and find the mother
Zhu Shouchang was born in the Song Dynasty. At the age of seven, his biological mother Liu was jealous of his first mother (his father's wife) and had to remarry. For fifty years, the mother and son have not heard each other's voices. During the reign of God, Zhu Shouchang was an official in North Korea. He used to write the Diamond Sutra and look for his birth mother everywhere. After getting the clue, he decided to give up his official position and go to Shaanxi to find his birth mother, vowing never to come back until he saw her. I finally met my biological mother and two younger brothers in Shaanxi. Mother and son get together and come back together. At this time, my mother was over 70 years old.
24 cleaning drowning prevention device
Huang Tingjian, a famous poet and calligrapher, was born in Fenning (now Xiushui, Jiangxi) in the Northern Song Dynasty. Although he is in a high position, he still tries his best to serve his mother. He personally washes the drowning device (toilet) for his mother every night, and forgets his son's duties every day.
(8) Stories about ancient and modern Chinese and foreign etiquette are 50 to 100 words.
1. Shi Yang's modest and polite story
Shi Yang in Song Dynasty liked studying very much. At noon on a snowy day, he and his classmates went to the philosopher Cheng Yi for advice.
Teacher Cheng is taking a nap, and they are waiting outside the door.
The snow is getting heavier and heavier. In order not to disturb the teacher, I still wait patiently outside the door.
The teacher woke up. Found Shi Yang two people standing in the snow, busy call them into the house, Shi Yang hurriedly salute to the teacher, ask.
2.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius and his students traveled around the world to publicize their political opinions.
One day, they drove to the state of Jin. A child was playing with rubble tiles in the middle of the road, blocking their way. Confucius said, "You shouldn't play in the middle of the road and block our car!" " "The child pointed to the ground and said," Grandpa, what do you think this is? "At first glance, Confucius saw a city made of rubble bricks. The child added, "Do you think the city should give way to the car or the car should give way to the city?" Confucius was puzzled. Confucius thought the boy was very polite and asked, "What's your name? How old are you? The child said, "My name is Xiang Tuo, and I am 7 years old this year!" ! Confucius said to his students, "Xiang Tuo learned manners at the age of seven. He can be my teacher! "
3.
There is an ambassador from China to Germany. He worked and lived in Germany for many years. After returning home, he wrote a memoir based on his own experience: Along the Elbe River. In the book, I wrote a lot of things that I never thought about, but often made me think deeply. Let's look at a few things that the author didn't think of and didn't think deeply.
4, line up-please respect others.
A few days before New Year's Day, the author went to the post office to remit money to his family. With the arrival of Christmas and New Year, the post office, which is usually at leisure, is also busy. Germans are also busy with mail. But every window is lined up in an orderly way, and there is absolutely no loud noise and crowding during the period. The author observed it for a long time and was deeply touched. Admire the quality of the Germans. However, there is another strange phenomenon that I don't know: the first person in each row is far away from the second person, one meter away, and there is a line on the ground in front of each window. The first person in each row stands inside the line and the second person stands outside the line. When the first person does not leave the window, the second person never crosses the line. Why? When the author came in second, it suddenly became clear. There is a warning sign in front of each window, which clearly says, please respect the privacy of others, thank you! In some countries in Europe and America, it is impossible to ask people's age, occupation, salary, home address, family members and so on. Although these trivial things are inconspicuous, they have already involved personal privacy. They respect the privacy of others very much and are protected by law. In order to protect personal privacy, there is such a "one-meter line" in some public places that need to queue up, such as telephone booths, banks, checkout counters of shops and so on. Everyone consciously abides by this rule and few people violate it.
5. Who should stand on the right-take care of others;
The author often goes to public places. There are elevators or escalators in public places in Germany. Every time I go up the escalator, I am surprised to find that no matter how many people are there or how few people are there, no matter whether people walk together or couples walk, there are no people standing side by side on the escalator. The author felt incredible and asked the Germans. They explained that when going upstairs and downstairs, stand on the right, leave the position on the left vacant, and let the anxious people go first from the left. How considerate of others. Although it is not a law, but people's living habits, the author highly values this behavior. This phenomenon can be seen everywhere: men walk on the left and women in the same trade walk on the right, for fear that vehicles will hit women; There are also juniors who go left, elders who go right, hosts who go left and guests who go right. These habits are convenient for taking care of each other.
6. Open the door actively-convenient for others.
In public places in Germany, wherever there are doors, there will always be such a phenomenon. People who walk in front always look back to see if anyone has entered the door behind them. If there is, he will hold the door and let the people behind him in. When people in the back go in, they always say thank you to those who hold the door. Few people go out after entering the door. What is touching is that everyone does this and is very conscious.
Seeing these little things made me think deeply, and I gradually realized that in interpersonal communication, we should always pay attention to respecting others, taking care of others and facilitating others, because we live in a society, and everyone is not an isolated existence, always thinking about others, leaving difficulties to ourselves and convenience to others. This is a spirit without selfishness and selfishness. As * * * wrote in "In Memory of Bethune": "A person's ability varies greatly, but as long as he has this spirit, he is a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, and a person who is free from low tastes and beneficial to the people.
7. Confucius worshipped Laozi and gave him a tea ceremony. After Laozi collected the tea, Confucius put the teapot on the shelf. But the spout rushed at Lao Tzu, and as soon as Lao Tzu threw the tea, he closed the door and disappeared.
(9) A short story about etiquette, within 50 words and not more than 100 words. Thank you.
Kong Rong, call pear.
Kong Rong (153—208), a native of Lu (now Qufu, Shandong), was a famous writer in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian 'an. His literary creation was highly praised by Wei Wendi Cao Pi. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very clever when he was young, but also a typical example of paying attention to brotherhood, mutual help and friendship.
When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! "
At an early age, Kong Rong learned the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then, Kong Rong has spread the story of pears for thousands of years, becoming a model of unity and friendship.
⑽ Etiquette story 100 words or so.
Everything around you, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and treating people with things should be counted. Like visiting a friend's house, you'd better bring some fruit or something, and say hello to your uncle and aunt when you enter the door. Don't interrupt others casually in conversation, it's impolite and so on.