Lao Li will help you sort out your feelings first.

It's a subconscious reaction that you profess that she has distanced herself from the relationship. This reaction shows that she is a traditional conservative girl, and that her feelings are not the focus of her current life. She cares more about other things than feelings. She doesn't want to fall in love hastily, and she thinks that feelings should be very cautious and should be discussed when she is ready. At present, she doesn't think she is ready to start a relationship.

Judging from her reaction after confession, she didn't think about how to deal with your confession, so she simply gave it a cold shoulder. She considered the following points in the face of your confession:

A. I think you are good, quite good, but I don't feel anything about you. For more than a year, you didn't inspire her emotional enthusiasm for you, so I made a warm confession to you, and I don't know how to deal with it.

B. Her work and life, this is the second point she considers. She is afraid that your original relationship will be changed, and people around her will talk about it, which will affect her image.

C. Consider how to get along with your future relationship.

It is her instinctive reaction to hug you for one day and ignore you for the next day, which also shows that she lacks emotional experience. Afraid that your old relationship will break up and you don't want to lose your friend, it shows that she still depends on you to some extent.

At present, her reaction shows that she is deliberately keeping her distance from you, which is related to your emotional attitude. Your every move seems to ask her for an answer, but she can't give you the answer you want at present.

It should be said that you have made two mistakes.

A. In the past year or so, you haven't done anything for you. It causes her to have indigestion in the face of your confession. < P > B. Your emotional expression is not mature enough, which causes her to have greater psychological pressure and then reject you. < P > She sees some good things in you, but she also has a good feeling and intimacy for you, but your confession interrupts her emotional process, which makes her fall into a dilemma. When facing this situation, Rejection is the most likely choice.

Here's some advice from Lao Li:

Adjust your emotional attitude and manage your emotions. In a word, her current emotional attitude towards you can't wait to punch your affectionate eyes.

Let her feel guilty about you and pretend to be hurt by her reaction. In fact, there is no need to pretend that you are really hurt by her. In this way, she will come to comfort you because of guilt. Simply put, she will pretend to be poor and inspire her maternal brilliance.

Pretend to be generous and indifferent, learn to resolve her concerns about you in a relaxed and joking tone and re-establish a friend relationship with her, and then find opportunities to awaken her feelings for you, so that your relationship will gradually develop into an ambiguous state. When you think she realizes that she has you in her heart, You fall in love with another girl again.

After making her realize that you are in love with another girl, you still keep an ambiguous relationship with her, so that she can't see through you and don't know what you really think.

When she can't hold back being anxious with you, you show her your sincerity at the right time, and then she will lie in your arms in tears.

In fact, with Lao Li's experience of falling in love for more than a dozen times, the so-called If you get along unremarkable, it's hard to feel love, just like you did with her before. You must make her feel that she has you in her heart, so you need to create such an atmosphere to make her realize that she actually likes you.

Let's talk about it so much first. I hope Lao Lizhi's analysis will inspire you and help you. I hope you can get a happy harvest.

If you have any questions that need Lao Li's analysis or help and guidance, you can communicate with Lao Li's private letter. How to chase girls so that she doesn't feel pressured?

start with a friend, care about him every day, be kind to him, and rest assured that he will be moved one day, but remember not to confess. . . . . . If the confession fails, it will be completely over? Chasing a girl is too tight. She said that she needs to be given some space. What should I do now?

Don't chase a girl too tightly. Chasing a girl should be like manually measuring a sphygmomanometer, that is, sometimes it is tight, sometimes it doesn't matter, and if it is too tight, she will feel disgusted with you and feel that you can't live without her. Sometimes I don't care, that is to say, don't contact her often or something, that is, give her space and see if she has you in her heart. If she does, she will contact you if you don't contact her for a long time. Will chasing a girl be considered too tight?

Chasing a girl can only make her feel at arm's length, and can't make her ego swell, otherwise, she won't care if you chase a girl too tight. What should I do if she gets angry at last? Can it be eased?

You can express your feelings with a gift on Valentine's Day on Tanabata. My boyfriend gave me a gift called the Voice of the Heart. There is an eternal rose music box, which represents eternal love. Open the wooden box, there will be music playing, and the romantic wooden box can also be engraved with lettering. TB is subtle but thoughtful. You can try it when you express your feelings.

Chasing girls is too tight. Don't pay attention to me. What should I do

Chasing girls is still slow. If you want to chase a girl, you have to stew the frog in warm water. If you send a short message to care about her from time to time (read the weather forecast more, remind her to wear clothes and bring an umbrella, or other details), girls are most easily moved by the details. When the stew is almost done, you can heat everyone up. Who knows how to chase girls?

I think it's just three words: bold, cautious and thick-skinned! Courage means taking the initiative. If you like a girl, you should confess to her. Don't be shy, or you will regret losing the opportunity. Careful observation is to know what your favorite girl likes and dislikes. Be a caring person in the process of communication, always care about her, be caring and attentive, and make girls feel that you are considerate. Thick-skinned means don't lose heart if you are rejected by a girl, just get back on your feet and start a new fight! How to chase a girl? I don't know what to talk to her about.

I don't know why the landlord knows that the girl likes to watch Conan. Did you find it yourself or did she tell you? I don't think you've known each other for a long time. Maybe she told you. Of course, you can't start a topic every day according to this article. But having one is enough. This kind of girl can't have two kinds of people. One is to watch the love between Xinyi and Xiaolan, expecting Xinyi to grow up and watch the plot with Xiaolan. The other one is obsessed with reasoning in animation, and he is a mystery fan, but the latter one prefers to watch mystery novels and movies. After all, animation is extremely vague. I think your girl should belong to the former, that is, she should not only look at reasoning but also some other plots inside. Your girl should be more rational and think clearly. So don't say the wrong thing when you speak, or the consequences will be unimaginable. If you say a word to such a girl, she will have three answers immediately, which is terrible. But a girl is a girl after all. You can talk to him about animation every now and then. If you don't watch it yourself, you can take a tutorial. This cartoon has a lot to talk about. But don't always talk about anime, it will be boring. This kind of girl likes to be nervous and have a fresh life, so you should try to find something new and magical to start the topic. Don't say those boring things every day. For example, what's the latest movie, what's the content of the movie (very boring. It will be embarrassing to chat for a while), if you want to go online or inquire about something new with your friends, it is best to make people feel incredible. If the resources around you are really exhausted, then you should consider playing with him and try to impress her with less words and actions. Do more for her when you are together. But don't let her think that you have some intentions unless it is obvious. Your little actions can usually touch such girls. If you can't speak, talk less. You can impress this kind of girl by doing the same thing. Just play together and let the playing time fill the speaking time. If you have a chance to talk, do more for her. What do girls think every day? Does anyone know?

Love is based on communication. Two people with tacit understanding can understand and tolerate each other, and will not care!

As a girl, I hope my boyfriend can understand and understand me! More hope includes a lot! If the boyfriend is good to himself, there is nothing. Because he doesn't know you at all! I don't know what you need!

Know what girls think every day! First of all, we must understand, whether it is external or internal!