Luo Dayou and Li Lie are friends who met when they were young. In the best years, they got to know each other. One is a talented music creator and the other is a well-known TV actor. They went from knowing each other's name and appearance to knowing each other's personality and preferences. At that time, they didn't know that the other person would become their lover that they would be entangled with for many years in their lives. The reason is also very simple. Not long after they met, Li Lie got married.

For Li Lie, this is a love and marriage in which love slowly fades away. After two years of mutual torment, they divorced. Li Lie continued his work and spent all his energy and time on his career. She invested most of her savings, but unfortunately, these measures did not bring her any benefits, but only made her penniless and impoverished.

At this time, Li Lie was already 30 years old. She has never encountered such a blow and setback in her life. Even when she was divorced, she never felt so uncomfortable. It was at this most unfortunate moment that she met Luo Dayou again.

The little boy back then has become a capable and responsible man. Luo Dayou met Li Lie when she was in the most difficult time, helped her, gave her a place to stay, and gave her a support. Soon, the two people living together fell in love. They eat together, attend events together, make music together, go from early morning to dusk together, and go from youth to middle age. In 1999, the two entered the palace of marriage.

But the more than ten years of staying together finally came to an end a year after the marriage. In 2000, the two people went through divorce procedures.

A life of mutual companionship

People often don’t believe in love at first sight, thinking it is superficial and insincere. In comparison, relationships that last for a long time appear to be more reliable and stable. However, love is love, and just because it lasts for a long time does not mean that two people are destined to be together forever. Just like Luo Dayou and Li Lie, they knew each other for more than ten years, but in the end they never saw each other again.

Why do we break up after being together for so long? Why can't we keep each other even though we're already married?

What is the most important thing for two people to be together? In my opinion, it is appropriate. The personality is suitable, the living habits are suitable, and everything is suitable. Of course, not all relationships or marriages are perfectly compatible from the beginning. There is always a process of getting used to it. What is break-in? It is for both parties to make corresponding changes in the face of being unaccustomed and unsuitable to love, rather than endless accommodation by one of them.

Li Lie once said in the program "Kangxi Is Coming" that Luo Dayou, as a musician, must listen to the songs played outside to fall asleep when he sleeps. Li Lie was completely uncomfortable with it at first. She expressed her opinion to Luo Dayou, but he didn't take it to heart and even got angry because of it later. Slowly, she stopped talking. Eventually, she got used to sleeping this way.

But this is not a break-in, it is just a unilateral accommodation. From such a small detail, it can be seen that the running-in between the two people was not successful.

But it stands to reason that two people have been together for more than ten years. How could they feel that they are not suitable for each other in just one year?

In fact, everything develops slowly, and the understanding of a person also changes slowly. Some people may have been together all their lives without knowing what kind of person the other person is. Moreover, people who love each other will always tolerate each other. It's just that this tolerance is not unlimited. When negative emotions such as disappointment and sadness accumulate to a certain level, this tolerance ends.

One parting and two widening, each is happy

In fact, in a relationship, two people have experienced countless losses and pains from falling in love to not loving each other. When love has gone away from each other, if two people continue to be together, it can't be called life, it's just bound to numbness and moving forward. Therefore, it is better to say goodbye to each other, say goodbye to the past, and start a new life.

After the divorce, the two people now have their own new lives.

Li Lie embarked on the path of a producer, and most of the movies and TV series she has handled are talked about. Li Lie, who spent the first half of his life in ups and downs, finally understood that when you fall in love with someone else, you must never forget to love yourself. As for Luo Dayou, he also met a new wife and had a lovely daughter. After the divorce, the two did not become depressed because they left each other. Instead, they realized the meaning of happiness more clearly.

Although Luo Dayou and Li Lie cannot reach the end of their lives together, they are both lucky. After leaving, you can still live with a smile. Most people envy love that lasts until death, but behind long-term love is precious mutual accommodation.

Reference materials: Luo Dayou’s ex-wife Li Lie: Our wedding is just a show? "Guangzhou Daily"

Encyclopedia entries? Li Lie?, ?Luo Dayou?