First of all, the respect of both husband and wife is very important. When two independent individuals are combined, both sides will inevitably have different living habits and ways of doing things, and there will inevitably be friction and conflict. At this time, the respect of both sides is particularly important, because after getting along for a long time, the filter of love fades, and there are more daily necessities. Only by respecting each other's lifestyle, respecting each other's choices, unconditionally supporting each other, giving each other a solid backing, paying each other in life, and supporting each other can we maintain a good relationship between the two sides. If one party insists on changing the other party, or hopes that the other party can act according to its own wishes, it will make the other party feel oppressed and uncomfortable and arouse negative emotions.
Secondly, a perfect marriage requires both husband and wife to have the same goal, so that they can have the same direction and move in the same direction. The management of marriage also lies in the mutual understanding. For example, if one side is lenient and the other side is strict, then the two sides will inevitably quarrel and conflict. Only when both sides have the same goal, cultivate the children into a kind of person, and then do the same thing together, can the relationship between husband and wife be better managed and contradictions be reduced. In addition to children's education, there are also discussions on economic consumption, travel and so on. If there is no common goal, then the two sides will have disputes and drift away.
Therefore, a perfect marriage is not maintained by passion and love, because emotions will fade. Back to life, the daily necessities are more about mutual respect and care, and * * * working together to advance towards the same goal.