I think you should choose parenting books based on your own situation and needs. After all, everyone is different and has different understandings and perceptions of things. What is suitable for others may not necessarily be the same. Suitable for yourself. If you really don’t know how to choose, I suggest you first choose from some classic parenting books. These books are not personalized or purely personal recordings, but are universally operable and instructive. Tested by the market. Recommendations are as follows:

1. Books on parenting techniques

For first-time parents without any parenting experience, the most important thing is to know some practical parenting techniques. The following books are highly recommended:

1. "Sears Parenting Encyclopedia" (USA)

This book mainly focuses on parenting issues from pregnancy preparation to the age of 2 years old. . Sears is a well-known pediatrician in the United States. They have raised 8 children and have 40 years of experience in pediatric medicine. The biggest feature of this book is that it is rigorous and scientific. It is a dictionary-level book. When you encounter something you don’t understand, you can read it and you can always find the answer. It is very detailed, and the author has rich experience and is constantly summarizing. .

2. "Spock's Parenting Guide" (USA)

It is mainly written for parenting issues between 0-18 years old. It complements the "Sears Parenting Encyclopedia" and can be purchased. read.

3. "Practical Parenting" (USA)

A very practical and operable book, not preachy or boring, tailor-made for all new mothers Created as a parenting guide.

4. "Zheng Yuqiao's Parenting Classic" (China)

The "Zheng Yuqiao Parenting Classic" series is a series of parenting expert Dr. Zheng Yuqiao's 20 years of clinical experience and the most cutting-edge scientific parenting concepts, combined with The institutional characteristics of Chinese babies help novice parents interpret their babies' physical and emotional needs and provide a comprehensive range of parenting solutions. It is very suitable for Chinese parents to read.

5. "Baby Health Open Class" (China)

This book is the column "Dr. Cui's Clinic" written by the popular pediatrician Dr. Cui Yutao in the "Must-Read for Parents" magazine 10 A masterpiece of the year. The content is divided into three parts: baby nutrition, common diseases and care. Through the analysis of real cases in the clinic, the key points of parenting are explained in detail and in a simple way. At the same time, the most cutting-edge parenting knowledge in the world is disseminated to help parents establish a correct outlook on parenting.

2. Books on parenting psychology

1. "Who took away the child's happiness" author: Li Yuer

This is a very fascinating book A thought-provoking and awakening book, Li Yuer uses her sharp writing style to directly attack the pain points of traditional education. Teach us as parents how to give love and respect to our children.

2. Author of "Love and Freedom": Sun Ruixue

This book is currently regarded as the "parenting bible" by many mothers. Teacher Sun Ruixue wrote the true version based on her own practice. A book that is in line with China's actual situation and what Chinese parents need most. Telling parents how to correctly give love and freedom to their children makes up for the shortcomings of traditional domestic parenting concepts and practices.

3. "Capturing Children's Sensitive Periods" Editor: Sun Ruixue

The cases in the book were all recorded by teachers and parents and occurred when Sun Ruixue was running a school in Ningxia Sun Ruixue commented on real cases that happened to children. After reading these real examples and analyses, we can actually understand many children's inner "secrets" and understand the rules of children's development, so as to avoid using adult "colored glasses" to view children's behavior during their growth and understand this. This is very important, otherwise, the normal development of the child may be inhibited.

4. "Too Much Is Less Than" Author: (U.S.) Claude, (U.S.) Townsend

In traditional Chinese concepts, it is difficult to draw clear boundaries between people , this book is a classic on how to maintain boundaries between people and avoid harming themselves and others.

3. Books on parenting communication

1. "Positive Discipline" author: Jane Nelson (USA)

This is also a book that has benefited me a lot. This book subverts many traditional parenting concepts and allows parents to understand another brand-new parenting concept. "Positive Discipline" is a method of disciplining children that neither punishes nor pampers. It explains it through examples and related discipline techniques. Teach parents how to raise their children correctly in an easy-to-understand way. This book is not only about educating children, but more importantly, it allows parents to learn to educate themselves to improve themselves and influence their children.

2. "How to speak so that children will listen, and how to listen so that children are willing to speak" Author: (USA) Adele Farber, Elaine Mazlisch

The mutually respectful and practical communication methods provided by two outstanding education experts make the relationship between parents and children of all ages easier and more quality.

3. "Child, Give Me Your Hand" by: (American) Ginott

A very classic book, a masterpiece that completely changed the way parents communicate with their children. , reading it will greatly benefit both parents and children. The author, Dr. Ginott, is a famous American psychologist. His life was very short and he devoted all his energy to the study of children's psychology and the training of parents and teachers. He is worthy of everyone's admiration.

Summary: Reading parenting books is important, but it is more important to practice it based on the situation of your own family and children, rather than just reading. In this case, you will not know how to read it. There is too much effect.

I am Mom V, an enterprising mother of two children.

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