I didn’t expect that Huang Lei would be scolded by netizens for having low emotional intelligence! In the previous variety show "Longing for Life", one episode of the program came to several raw meat in the music industry.

Huang Lei, who has always been a warm and good customer, gentle and meticulous, and takes the overall situation into consideration, showed politeness when faced with some fresh meat, and said hello calmly and returned to the kitchen.

As a result, when the wolf came after a while, Huang Lei couldn't restrain his excitement. He was very excited and quickly hugged his old friend.

At the dinner table, Huang Lei opened his heart and talked with Wolf about the years at that time, and couldn't help but shed tears.

At the same time, he also confessed why he was not enthusiastic towards young guests.

He said: To be honest, so many of you are here. I don’t know you either, so I don’t have to talk nonsense to people I don’t know. So when you come in and say hello, I’m not that enthusiastic either.

However, with this sentence, not only the smiles of all the guests present instantly froze, but their expressions also became awkward

The Internet immediately exploded, with netizens complaining that his frame was not smooth, and even his road was not smooth. All dark.

Actually, I agree with Huang Lei’s statement. When people reach a certain age, they no longer need too many nods and interactions, and there is no need to waste oneself on unworthy people and things.

As the island gourmet Shiro Chuoji lamented, when I was around 40 years old, I implemented the policy of never dating people I was not destined to have, and my life became easier.

Indeed, growth is addition and maturity is subtraction.

People who are truly familiar with interpersonal relationships have long known that they should give up for themselves.

Previously in "Mars Intelligence Agency", Qian Feng, who has been partnered with Wang Han for 10 years, said: His WeChat account was deleted by Wang Han!

As a result, Wang Han replied calmly: Fan Bingbing, Chen Kun, I also deleted it.

Afterwards, he said: If the number of people in his circle of friends reaches more than 100, he will feel very scary, so he will delete all the meaningless things.

After deleting it, I found that life is quite easy, all the time is my own, free and chaotic.

But now that our lives are almost occupied by mobile phones, many of us are like this

Check QQ, WeChat, Moments and Weibo every 5 minutes. I never missed the news and circle of friends of each group, but I just opened my eyes and looked at the flowers.

Hone your presence in group chats every day is actually just a steady waste of time

Or add friends and show off your 5,000 friends, but end up not having any good friends

Try to beautify the PS filter and praise the circle of friends, but in the end there is only the appearance...

In most cases, ineffective social interaction not only requires strong energy, but also means ignoring the voice of one's own heart.

However, in fact, smart people are no longer like this. They gave up useless social interactions and focused on improving themselves.