In that society of intrigues and intrigues, it was rare for people to be confused. She insisted on being clear and serious about everything, and the outcome was inevitable. This inevitable outcome is also reflected in Sister You, who was born in a completely different situation from Lin Daiyu. In Dream of Red Mansions, I thought they all died cleanly. This cleanliness is nothing but my personal respect for them. Although the third sister was born in the market, she once sank into that environment. It was the unity of beauty and vulgarity, the unity of frivolity and self-esteem, the unity of acting on the occasion and venting anger and revenge that made her stand out in the East, where gentleness and sorrow are the beauty. She stood out among the women and became a strange woman in the Grand View Garden.

The third sister is different from Daiyu, who uses her tears to water the delicate flower of love every day. She knows very well that "a life-long event, from life to death, is not a trivial matter." She has seen through the rich She "couldn't get enough of the powerful young man's frivolity and incompetence," so she fell in love with Liu Xianglian, who was "a cheerful guy by nature," so she dared to ask for an engagement. In that era when marriage was involuntary, her love was like a silver sword, piercing the throat of feudal ethics.

Once upon a time, two mandarin duck swords were like two traces of autumn water, cold and bright, flowing with her contempt for the powerful and her beautiful hope for free love. But once this hope was shattered, the sword became her only weapon. A weapon of fate! Because there are not many words about the third sister in The Red Mansion, some people complained that Baoyu’s words hurt her, others regretted that Xianglian misled her, and some said that it was too risky and hasty for her and Liu to commit their lives to each other after just one meeting. , In this regard, I often think of Lin's sentence: "Where is the fragrant hill at the end of the sky?" If Lin Daiyu uses a weak appearance to explore the meaning of life, then the third sister uses A shrewd and even dissolute personality to maintain the dignity of life. Why is life sad, and why is death so painful? If you don't have a close friend, what's the use of staying around? In the rebellious struggle with love as the core, they all did it without looking back, and they all paid the price with their lives.

What do you want in this life and what do you want in the next life? This question not only lingers in the hearts of Lin Daiyu and Third Sister You, but also makes me, an outsider, feel sad countless times. In the traditional ethics that judge girls based on their reputation, Lvzhu fell down for Shi Chong, and the third sister fell and rose again for Xianglian. She broke out of the trap of Jia Zhen and others, and fell into the formidable trap. under threat. I don't know how frustrated she was when she returned the sword, and I don't know if there was any element of anger in her. I just imagine that a bold person like Liu Xianglian can't break out of the cage because they are married. , may not be a blessing. There is no paradise in the world, maybe we can only find it outside the world of mortals.

As I write this, my heart becomes heavy in vain. The life tragedy of Dream of Red Mansions seems to be far away, and it seems to be happening again in the world. What do you want in this life, and what do you want in the next life? Who can give the accurate answer?