Lu Yu-Zhu Lei
What is unforgettable is first love
It was in the summer when I was 13 years old, which is called the cardamom age, and I always wore cool trousers. Chen Luyu, a girl in a floral skirt, met a new playmate. The little boy with fair skin and always full of jokes is called Zhu Lei. When he and Chen Luyu's other two playmates were playing together, they called Chen Luyu because they were missing someone in the poker game. The 13-year-old Chen Luyu looked particularly petite because of his thinness. When they met for the first time, Zhu Lei joked: "Whose sister is this?" He may have said this out of fun, but the 13-year-old girl got an extra boost from this sentence. Thoughts: I am the younger sister, so who is the older brother?
One morning not long after they met, Zhu Lei looked at the jumping little Lu Yu and asked: "What will you do when you grow up?" She said: "When I grow up, I want to sell popsicles. !" The other two children laughed at Xiao Luyu because he had no future. Everyone else wanted to be a scientist or writer, but you actually sold popsicles and had no future. They laughed so much that Xiao Luyu felt a little embarrassed, but she really couldn't think of anything wrong with her ideal. She thought selling popsicles was a good idea. That way, you can eat as many sweet cream popsicles as you want every day. Zhu Lei looked at Xiao Luyu's blushing face and said, "Me too, I want to sell popsicles when I grow up! I will do whatever you do." As he spoke, the little boy's face also turned red. ...
Little Lu Yu felt a warmth rising from the bottom of her heart. This little boy gave herself a sense of solid security. Looking at Zhu Lei's sunny smile, she thought to herself: He is mine. elder brother.
"Brother" has been with her through five winters and summers, and they spent almost every holiday together. Zhu Lei's care gave Xiao Luyu's memory of his boyhood a hint of shyness, sweetness, and some inexplicable feelings. This wonderful feeling continued into Chen Luyu's adulthood. During the summer vacation when Chen Luyu was 18 years old, she reached a new level in her life - she was admitted to the International Journalism Major of the Foreign Languages ??Department of the Beijing Broadcasting Institute. When she learned that Zhu Lei had also been admitted to the TV Department of Beijing Broadcasting Institute, her heart felt sweet, and there seemed to be a sound of blooming flowers gently ringing in her heart...
September 1989 , Chen Luyu and Zhu Lei entered the Beijing Broadcasting Institute together. With the arrival of the new semester, Chen Luyu and Zhu Lei's first love began in that place where the sound of books was loud. That day, Chen Luyu received an unsigned letter. Before he opened it, Chen Luyu guessed the content of the letter as if he had foreseen it. Yes, he wrote it. At a time when love can begin, their love comes naturally.
Like all student lovers, they hold hands and go to self-study, the library, and the canteen every day. The agility and brilliance of youth permeate every day of love. Zhu Lei was responsible for going to the library every day to occupy a seat and queue up for lunch. Chen Luyu followed him like a little sister. After eating, he rushed to wash the lunch box. Chen Luyu saw that most of her lovers were girls washing lunch boxes. One day she said to Zhu Lei: "Leilei, this is what a girl should do. Let me do it!" After that, she rolled up her clothes. sleeve. Zhu Lei grabbed her: "Lu Yu, no, how can I make you suffer? Listen carefully, as long as we are together, I will never let you suffer at all. This is the principle of my love for you." !" Chen Luyu put the lunch box back obediently, but Zhu Lei didn't see it. Tears had quietly slipped from Chen Luyu's delicate face - it was easy to cry when he was so happy.
Don’t express pain when breaking up
Like all people who are new to love, they can’t figure out the rules and direction of love. They will quarrel over some very small things. And sad. The delicate and sensitive love nerves of boys and girls become exhausted after countless collisions. In fact, the dance party that day was quite lively, and Chen Luyu was always a highlight of the night. But after coming out of the auditorium, Chen Luyu's mood suddenly became bad for no apparent reason. Without any reason, she got angry at Zhu Lei. Normally, Zhu Lei would have carefully comforted her and made her happy, but that day Zhu Lei suddenly felt that if love required him to maintain it all the time, then their love must be fragile. That night, he no longer accommodated the little girl's "bad temper."
Actually, Chen Luyu regretted it after going back at night. She should not have gotten angry for no reason, but due to the girl's self-esteem, she did not make any expression.
Zhu Lei felt that he was not wrong and was unwilling to bow his head again. The estrangement grew deeper during the Cold War. In the winter when their college life was coming to an end, they thought their love was dead and would never exist again. So, breaking up became inevitable.
It was a bone-chilling winter, and falling out of love seemed to young people to have lost everything. No matter how free and easy you are, how fair-minded you are, pain will crush your hard-earned faith every time a memory of love emerges. During the winter vacation, Chen Luyu kept himself alone at home and didn't go anywhere. Thinking about how he spent every holiday with that person, but now he was so lonely and that person would never come again, Chen Luyu cried and cried. What remained in Chen Luyu's memory during the Spring Festival that year was desolation. The noise outside had nothing to do with her, and other people's blessings and greetings could not warm her empty heart. The sound of crackling firecrackers outside the window could not cover up the feeling in her mind. The boy's clear laughter. In those days, Chen Luyu felt like he couldn't live any longer...and Zhu Lei started to freeze his emotions from that winter on.
The new semester has begun again. With the encouragement of his father, Chen Luyu participated in the English competition for the Beijing Olympics and won first place. Success allowed her to gradually come out of the pain of broken love, and she chose to adjust her mentality through hard work. In 1993, after graduating from the Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Chen Luyu went directly to CCTV to serve as the host of the "Art Garden Landscape" column. Zhu Lei also graduated in the same year and joined Beijing Television and became a TV program director. Although they never asked about each other's news, they were very aware of each other's every move. Whenever Chen Luyu's program is broadcast, Zhu Lei will stay away from the TV. He is afraid of seeing that familiar figure, even though he wants to see it so much!
Chen Luyu spent a wonderful year in her busy life. At the end of 1994, she won the title of "CCTV's Top Ten Most Popular Program Hosts". After receiving the honor, Chen Luyu felt that this program was not the type of program she wanted to do, and she felt that she needed to "recharge." With a lonely heart and wings ready to fly, Chen Luyu went to the United States to study in 1995.
During this year in the United States, Chen Luyu met a blond and blue-eyed man who gave her love and marriage. That little girl saw a different kind of happiness in a foreign country. In 1996, she returned to China with her husband and joined Phoenix TV, hosting the programs "Music Unlimited" and "Music Enthusiasts", which attracted the love and attention of the majority of TV audiences. 1997 was a very important year for her. This year she participated in hosting a number of large-scale programs. These include the world-famous "Report of the Century of Hong Kong's Return - 60 Hours Non-stop" and the live broadcast of "Princess Diana's Funeral". After these successful news live broadcast experiences, in April 1998, Chen Luyu served as the host of the new information program "Phoenix Morning Bus". With the hosting style of "telling the news" rather than "reading the news", in a gentle and relaxed atmosphere In it, he talks about the latest news and financial information from the world that day. Chen Luyu ushered in the glory of her career, but at this time her marriage turned red. When Chen Luyu was working on "Phoenix Morning Train", she never took a day off in a year. She went to bed at 7pm every night and went to work at 4am. Although she believed that being too busy at work would not lead to emotional alienation between the couple, it was fate. That's how it ended. When one day she found that she could no longer find love between them, she chose to let go. In 1999, Chen Luyu liberated himself from the "siege".
Chen Luyu! When this name became popular all over the country, there was a person who was in pain. What he cared about was not the achievements of this famous woman, but this person. She is his first love and the source of his most pure feelings. For so many years, Zhu Lei has never taken the initiative to inquire about Chen Luyu, and has never read any reports about her. He even deliberately avoids the time slots where her programs are on before turning on the TV. He is afraid that his feelings will be affected by everything about her. Losing control in front of things. Every time, he told himself that it was over, don't think about it anymore, and he even tried hard to face it with an indifferent attitude.
But he forgot that all of this proved that he still cared about her!
So, nine years later, on a summer afternoon in 2002, he couldn’t help but dial the phone number that made his palms sweat. Coincidentally, She was interviewing not far from him. They arranged to meet in the lobby of a hotel half an hour later. These 30 minutes were the longest and most difficult 30 minutes Zhu Lei had ever spent in his life. Zhu Lei felt a little panicked, and even had the idea of ????escape in the last few seconds of waiting. But here she comes! A pair of leather slippers, a short skirt, and her straightforward clear noodle hair style, everything about her made him feel that she was still the same little girl. "Lei Lei!" The moment she waved her slender arms to greet him, he understood that what time changed was only time itself, and that the person standing in front of him and the emotion that hit his face were all from the past. , they were only separated for 9 years.
True love has always been waiting in place
On the last day of 2002, Chen Luyu and Zhu Lei registered their marriage at the Cotton Tree Drive Marriage Registration Center in Hong Kong. They held a simple wedding that day with only 5 people including the registrar. Two people got married, two friends attended the ceremony, and an elder was responsible for registering and solemnizing the marriage. It was very much like the "playing house" in childhood. ". But they knew in their hearts that this was extremely sacred, and they were serious about this love!
After staying in Hong Kong for more than five years, Chen Luyu still feels alienated from this place. She spends many days in Beijing every month. Chen Luyu said that if he could paint a picture of his appearance in recent years, it would look like this: a person carrying a bag and pulling a suitcase, shuttling between two airports. "I feel like I am always a person walking home. I don't feel anything in Hong Kong. I just feel that it is the place where I work. Even though it has been more than five years, I never feel like home. But Beijing is different. This environment is familiar to me, and I can integrate into the life here. When I think about what to eat, I immediately know where to find it, and when I want to talk about anything, I know where to find someone. And now that I am married, of course I have made my home in Beijing. "Zhu Lei understands that home is a woman's true destination and dependence. He hopes that he can give Chen Luyu peace of mind as he did before. Embracing Chen Luyu, Zhu Lei feels that she is really happy...
With Zhu Lei's care, although Chen Luyu is busy traveling back and forth between Hong Kong and Beijing, she feels that she is more energetic at work now than before. . A stable love life, a loving husband, a warm family, and a kind of happiness that can be grasped in the palm of your hand make Chen Luyu, Phoenix TV's "leading actress," smile particularly sweetly this spring.