What are you doing? You can reply to the boy: I was wondering why we have such a tacit understanding, and I just wanted to ask you what you are doing.

A boy in an ambiguous relationship asks you what you are doing and how you respond. This seemingly random but difficult to deal with conversation starter is the most common problem faced by ambiguous men and women. If you reply, I am watching dramas, eating, and watching videos.

Then the boy will respond to you with uh-huh, oh-oh, oh-oh, what should you do? Come on, the deeper psychology of a boy asking you this is that he misses you but dare not say it. What he really wants to know is not what you are doing, but whether you are thinking about him too, so what you have to do is to follow the flow and guide the attack.

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In fact, whether a man or a woman is looking for each other and asks what they are doing, what they want to express is not to ask what you are doing, but to express their interest in you. Of course, there is another possibility of casting a wide net. This is not within the scope of consideration. Just be careful to avoid it. It's just that they don't have a good way to chat with each other, and they don't even know how to start a conversation. So, what are you doing, what have you eaten, have you gotten up, etc. become their only weapons for chatting.

After responding, I didn’t say a few words, as if I had nothing to say again, and then I repeated this chat mode. It's deeply boring. The other person comes to you because he wants to have further contact with you, so give him this opportunity to get to know you. Since the other person doesn’t know what to say, you need to guide them.