—— Some thoughts after reading The Best Confidant
Nan Zhiyuan
"Stumbled through the growth process, just waiting for the most beautiful bloom in time". As soon as I picked up this fresh-looking book, every word immediately came into my eyes. I held my breath for fear that it would be blown away by my excited breath. What beautiful words!
The protagonists are two girls who are bosom friends. They have similar names: Xiaoqing and Xiaotong. They talked about everything, went shopping together, shared the same ice cream, went to the toilet together and wore the same clothes together. The teacher said they were twins, and the classmates said they were conjoined babies ... < P > The word conjoined babies awakened my ignorant memory in primary school: at that time, I was often keen on "marching" on campus with several best friends, deliberately taking the same steps and deliberately doing the same. What else can be explained if friendship is not soaring to the boiling point?
In the book, when they entered junior high school, Xiaoqing and Xiaotong were faced with a difficult choice, whether to go their separate ways and go to a middle school that suits them, or to give up everything to go to an ordinary middle school with their most irreplaceable confidant in their lives. After all, bosom friends are bosom friends. Of course, they can't stand the pain of parting, so they chose the latter.
to junior high school, my god! Is this book tailored for me? Otherwise, why can every word touch my mood and remind me of that ignorant friendship with endless aftertaste?
I remember that a few months ago, we were just primary school students who were hesitant to choose a junior high school. We think about our plans after junior high school and how to persuade our parents to take the same middle school. Our naive agreement is like a piece of paper that can rise and fall with the wind and return to its original place. But now, I'm running around ...
Xiao Qing and Xiao Tong didn't last long, until Yuan Yuan, a transfer girl with a porcelain doll, appeared in their lives, just sitting behind Xiao Qing. For some reason, Xiao Qing "betrayed" Xiao Tong (in Xiao Tong's view) and gradually approached Yuan Yuan Yuan, and Xiao Tong became a girl who was alone and had no friends.
I remember that just after I entered higher school, my former good friends gradually left me and made new friends, and I was caught off guard and was lonely. Every day, I watch several pairs of good figures pass in front of me in the junior high school campus. I bitterly and eagerly want to find a partner who can talk with me. I once wanted to be a boy, because boys are like upright logs, which can stand alone to form a forest, while girls are different. They are inclined logs and need to support each other so as not to fall down. Girls need friends more than boys. I think so, and so does Xiao Tong.
The good times didn't last long, and the "bad times" didn't last long. By chance, Xiao Tong discovered the reason why Xiao Qing left her. It turned out that all this was a misunderstanding after all, and the two of them made up their differences. It turns out that Yuan Yuan has a family full of violence, and he needs Xiaoqing's help more than Xiao Tong's enlightened parents, but Xiao Tong doesn't understand, so he refuses to accept Yuan Yuan as a "threesome". I especially like the last sentence in the book that is still unfinished: "So far, I (Xiaotong) feel that the sunset in the evening is particularly beautiful. For the first time in several months, I sang loudly on the road. If I can, I even want to flip through the air ... "
This is a diary of friendship, which is the melody of falling and mixing in youth, and it is the crystallization of many tears and laughter. Sister Pang Jielei, the author of this book, is like Sherlock Holmes, who has detected our happiness and sadness so carefully; She is a musician who wrote the music of our youth, and vividly described our ups and downs!
The so-called confidants and best friends are not all synonymous with good friends, and good friends are symbols of growth. The so-called best confidant represents a beautiful growth process
The growth path is not smooth, but we still have to make it suffocating perfect ...