Understand Diary: 2020-03-01

Baotou, continue.

The little prince himself was drunk and confused. He called me brother for a while and uncle for a while. The driver helped him back to the car, and he handed me over to his cousin, that is, Accounting.

The so-called boldness and good drinking capacity.

Everyone has a degree.

Once it reaches the degree, both Shandong people and Inner Mongolian people are confused.

Puke when you need to, and roll when you need to.

No exceptions.

Unless you are not made of meat.

The accounting sister wants to help me.

I said, sister, no need, I didn’t drink too much.

I don’t know why, but every time I think I didn’t drink too much, and indeed I didn’t drink too much, others always think I drank too much. Although I drank a lot in the evening, it didn’t amount to much after careful calculation. , I drank two bottles with my teammates to warm up, drank two taels of foreign wine at the lobster restaurant, and drank almost 40 sips of foreign wine before and after the nightclub, but it wasn’t much in one drink, because most of the time I said slightly that I didn’t do it. , because they are just acquaintances, and there is no need to be affectionate.

The key is that I went to the bathroom and vomited twice.

Actually, I didn’t consume much alcohol.

I mainly consider driving the next day, because we live in the city, and going out of the city is a technical job. During the self-driving process, the easiest way to get out of the city is to go in and out of the city. I usually do the driving. Why? Is it easy to get scratched? Because we are a team, although we each have our own navigation system, we still don’t want to be too far away, so we can take care of anything, so we generally follow the mode. We are the tail car, so following the car is the most difficult.

I don’t want to get drunk.

The accountant sister drove a blue Teana.

After getting in the car, the first feeling is that the seats are really soft and comfortable. It may be that I haven’t ridden in a car for a long time. Whether it is LC76 or big G, they are all in tractor mode, and the road we took It sucks, it jumps and jumps all the way, I have forgotten what a car feels like.

As soon as I sit down, I feel like I can fall asleep immediately.

The accounting sister suggested that we go have some snacks and chat, is that okay?

I said, yes, but I can’t drink.

She said she wouldn’t drink anymore.

I went to a beer house, which can be understood as craft beer. As soon as I entered the door, the shop owner ran over and called me second sister. It seemed that they all knew each other. The shop owner didn’t know whether he was a literary or social youth. , also full of tattoos, on arms and neck, beckoning us into the private room.

Sit down.

The accounting sister said, drink less, feel free, I will accompany you.

I said, yes.

She said, I don’t encourage drinking.

I said, that’s the best. Drinking here is all kidnapping. If you don’t drink, you won’t be given face, or you will resort to self-mutilation. If you don’t finish the drink after clinking glasses, just pour the wine on yourself. He drank from the cup for you... (Every time the little prince clinked glasses with me, if I refused, he would pour the wine in my cup into his own cup without saying a word, drink it as soon as he raised his head, and let me drink. Not a donkey. )

Don’t misunderstand, she said, it’s just a way to express enthusiasm.

The core selling point of this store is craft beer, and the side dishes are all kinds of barbecue. She asked me to order it, and I asked her to order it. She meant that she rarely comes to these places and doesn’t know what to order. What.

She clicked for a long time.

When I took a look, there was some of almost everything.

It seems that she really doesn’t understand. She should come here often, but she has never ordered anything. For example, eating barbecue in Xinjiang is very simple, because there is nothing else except kebabs, and the difference between the skewers is just the skewers. There are iron ones and wicker ones, and the meat is also different. Some are purely lean, and some are half fat and half lean. To say it tastes better, the ones with fat are better.

When we were in Kashgar, we only had a few bottles of Wusu beer and kebabs per person.

Simple and direct.

Baotou is a bit similar to our mainland cities. The skewers are diverse, including leeks, enoki mushrooms, chicken wings, ham...

My sister ordered some of each.

When it comes to barbecue, Jinan’s barbecue is the most popular. Of course, it has not been popular in the past two years. It is related to environmental protection. People who have reached a certain level of barbecue in Jinan must be doing subtraction. What is subtraction?

Nothing but kebabs.

For barbecue restaurants, the least profitable thing is kebabs. If you want to make money, you can only grill other things, because in the end it is just counting the sticks.

I have been with Brother Niu for a long time and have learned this.

When you go to a place to eat barbecue, you only order mutton skewers. The premise is that this is a popular and authentic restaurant, the mutton is real mutton, and nothing else is required.

Another reason is that I have relatives who deliver barbecue ingredients.

I know what these chicken wings and hams look like before they are grilled. There are two reasons why many people tend to have diarrhea after eating barbecue:

First, they are not clean after eating. things, such as these chicken wings and ham sausages of unknown origin.

Second, I didn’t use a paper towel to wipe the skewers when eating skewers.

The head of the sign cannot be roasted, which means it has not been disinfected, but the head of the sign has been pierced with raw meat.

However, when people invite people to barbecue, they always like to have a variety of things.

Counterproductive.

I don’t drink craft beer either. To put it bluntly, this is a handicraft workshop, or go to a bottle bar. We don’t have it here, but I also expressed it to my sister that I don’t drink craft beer. It is easy to get drunk because it is not quantifiable, and it is also easy to have diarrhea.

My sister went to greet the waiter, and the waiter went out to buy it.

Local beer, Snow Deer Beer.

Ordered six skewers of grilled lamb.

That’s all.

Every time our convoy goes to a place, we must order local food and drink local wine. Local food and local wine are the most local style. For example, when we go to Ejina Banner, we drink Yellow River King beer and eat camel meat.

This is also an experience.

Whether it tastes good or not depends to a large extent on our individual taste buds. Taste buds are local. For example, people in Shandong eat onions, ginger, and garlic. Can outsiders accept it? Every time we arrived at a store, everyone immediately called the waiter to get some garlic...

The waiter went to buy two boxes of wine.

Holy shit.

So many.

The boss personally brought it over and gave him four cold dishes, one for the second sister. He was very pious. What could be the most pious thing? He moved a stool and sat down.

It means to toast.

Sister introduced: This is a great writer, and he is good friends with XX (the little prince).

The boss shook hands and handed cigarettes.

So it turns out that the introducer from Inner Mongolia is like this too? This made me very embarrassed. We are not really close friends. We can only be said to be acquaintances. I was passing by and he called me as hard as he could, that's all.

In the past, I didn’t regard him as a buddy because I thought he was my buddy’s little brother and not quite qualified.

Now, I feel that I am not good enough and not qualified enough.

The little prince asked me weakly, Teacher Dong, let’s talk privately, how much can you earn in a year?

I blew it hard, maybe a million.

He thought it was incredible, how could there be so few? Ru Lei Guan Er, do you have such a small income? ! (Nowadays, Internet celebrities talk about their income in tens of millions.)

Qian Zhuang is a coward.

We have no money, so we are naturally inferior to others.

The boss toasted three glasses in a row, which is exactly one bottle. One of the great things about wine culture is that if others drink, you will drink too, so if he does it, I will do it too.

Two bottles were gone.

The boss hurried over, and shook hands again before leaving: Brother Dong, tonight I invite...

Northerners only care about such a "noodle", but this noodle is not What he gave to me was what he gave to the little prince and the accountant, and they will return it in the future. For example, if he takes guests to a lobster restaurant or a nightclub, the little prince will give him the same face.

The accountant asked, when did you write the article when you came out to play?

I said, between the gaps.

She asked, would she write in the car?

I said, generally not. Our car bounced all the way. It was because of the road and the car. Even on the highway, if I sat in the back seat, it would shake all the way. Without comfort, it is impossible to write articles, because writing articles requires absolute silence, and the sound of wind, radio, and music will disrupt the rhythm.

She asked, should I write in the morning or at night?

I said that I would come up with the general framework in the car, and then when I got back to the hotel, my teammates would fall asleep, and I would write. If I couldn’t finish the writing, I would get up early the next day to write again. We usually write in the morning Starting at 8 o'clock, I got up at 5 o'clock and almost finished writing.

She asked, how long does an article take?

I said, in terms of preparation, it takes four or five hours, in terms of writing, it takes three or four hours. From the preparation to the conception to the creation of an article, it takes about eight hours. From this perspective, a career If a person concentrates on writing articles, his career will definitely be wasted, because after writing an article, he will be sweating profusely and the whole person will be in a state of semi-exhaustion.

She asked, do you two share a room?

I said, yes, there are teammates who share a room, because we are in an odd number, but they are usually given to players from big cities. Even if everyone unanimously gives it to me, I can't go there. You can't treat yourself as special, which is equivalent to isolating yourself. Normally I won't be in the same room with others, but in special circumstances, not to mention they are not more particular than me, they are all big bosses, they can accept it, and I can accept it too.

She asked, what is the biggest gain from the journey?

I said, I have no interest in traveling, and I almost didn’t take any photos during the whole trip. The photos I posted were all taken by my teammates. I came here because of the people, and I just think they are quite good. , we should travel together once, have the same memories, and become good friends. When a person's life trajectory changes, it must be because of who he meets. It is clearest to look at the problem from the top down. I am I fancy that they stand taller than me.

She asked, how do you evaluate XX (the little prince)?

I said, he has built his own kingdom, and he is the king in it. There are as many beauties as he wants. There is no shortage of beauties in the nightclub. Everyone is proud to have a word with him. I came over I had a misunderstanding about these beauties and thought they were all gangsters. After having a drink and talking just now, I realized that most of them have serious careers and are relatively respectable. Maybe they need another side in their lives.

She said, yes.

I said, but this way of drinking is definitely harmful to the body.

She said that he was now married and divorced, and he lived a life of dissipation and dissatisfaction every day without listening to anyone.

I say, once you are addicted, you cannot extricate yourself.

She said that she used to be a very honest and honest child.

I said, all this is a stage. Once you experience it, you may let it go. There is a man in our local area who is in a similar situation to him. Now he studies Chinese painting, believes in Buddhism, eats vegetarian food, does charity everywhere, and drinks alcohol. No more.

She said that the main reason was that there were too many flatterers around him and he couldn't listen to the truth.

I said, as a bystander, I think his biggest risk is not drinking, investing, or running these nightclubs. Didn’t we talk about it when we were eating lobster? He said that opening nightclubs now is different from the past. , now it is purely a business, it is very simple, anyone can do it, there is no underworld, there are no models in the country, who dares to stand out? No matter how awesome the big brother is, he still has to foot the bill. The biggest risk is drug involvement.

She said that she had the same view as me.

In the long run, it’s just a matter of time before you get infected.

This is determined by the group and circle.

As a person around her, she couldn't accept the speed of his development. Everything was like blowing up a balloon overnight, and she didn't dare to make up a story like this.

I said that the Internet celebrity economy has broken through the imagination of most people. A person selling Mercedes-Benz G in Tianjin Port told me that he could not sell 20 units in the past year, but now? Someone grabbed the extra 600,000 yuan, and Internet celebrities took it away. Why? This is just a toy car, not suitable for home use. People who did business in the past paid attention to calmness. Most people will not buy this car easily. It is too ostentatious. But what about the internet celebrity economy? Everyone is not short of money and wants personality, so the first choice is to buy big G, and they place orders one after another.

She said, I always advise him to leave some foundation. People are not good for a thousand days, and flowers are good for a hundred days. When the opportunity is right, buy some safety-belt assets, such as buying some properties in first-tier cities. , he didn’t listen, and invested in more than 20 projects in a year, all kinds of projects, few of them were profitable, and most of them were in vain.

I say that Internet celebrities are either trained or born. In addition, with luck, it is meaningless to invest in quasi-Internet celebrities.

She asked, how long do you think Internet celebrities can stay popular?

I said that the current average life cycle of Internet celebrities is two years. In theory, this cycle will become shorter and shorter, because the frequency of new Internet celebrities bursting out is getting higher and higher, and people’s focus of attention is limited. Then Internet celebrities become popular faster and faster.

She asked, is there any way to delay it?

I said, it’s very difficult. Not just Internet celebrities, but the entire modern art is dying, including modern literature. From 1949 to today, there may not be a single work that will remain in Chinese literature. Historically, it’s not that literary quality is poor, it’s not bad at all, but that people’s focus is becoming more and more modern, and they pay more and more attention to the present. Decay itself is also a part of modern art, so I am different from other writers. I don’t expect that I will have any It is wishful thinking for a work to become a classic or be circulated by future generations. I only hope that someone will read my article tomorrow, and that is enough.

She said, I followed you in 2014. I went to Shanghai for a meeting. On the high-speed train when I came back, my neighbor was reading your article and chatting for a few words. He strongly recommended it, so I followed you and spent a lot of money. I spent 800 yuan to buy ten of your books. Later, you didn’t trade in stocks, so I recommended your stock. It must have been in 2015, right?

I said, I was in Hailar in the spring of 2016, and I remember it very clearly.

She said that the reason for the recommendation is also very simple. I work in the mining industry, and the company I recommended is the leader in our industry. The entire industry is undergoing mixed ownership reform. Many of us buy it internally, but we don’t buy it. own stocks, but buy the leader.

I said, at that time, I had just started trading in stocks. I was not mature enough to hold on to it, so I sold it after one day.

She said that later I felt it was inappropriate because the recommendation was a bit inexplicable.

I said, there are two reasons why I chose trust at that time:

First, let me ask you, do you trade in stocks? You said not to fry.

Second, I know you are an accountant.

My reasoning at the time was that you must have some inside information or know some data, otherwise you would not recommend it easily. Especially fans are very cautious when recommending things to idols, and they will not be absolutely sure. It's public. When will it be publicized? When you feel like making an offering.

So, I bought it.

I can’t remember exactly how many points it went up. It might have been a daily limit. Anyway, I made 11,000 yuan in one day. I transferred 5,000 to her, but she didn’t want it, so she let me Even more admiration.

However, I am too good at forgetting. After all, I have to meet new friends every day, and old friends will be forgotten. This kind of simple message sent to me or helped me, basically I forgot about it when I got home.

I feel very sorry...

Come here, I will respect you.

My sister is also a good drinker. We changed to a large cup, the kind that can only hold one cup. She drank it in one gulp, so I did too.

I asked, sister, did you ride a horse when you were a child?

She said, our family still has grassland. XX should take you there tomorrow. My uncle and aunt are still there.

He did say that he would take me there, but I definitely wouldn’t go, because he wanted to take me to experience some kind of Xiamajiu, the kind where he drinks 18 bowls of wine in a row and has fun in a yurt.

That is going to kill me.

Not going.

The next day, in order to avoid being blocked, we all took another exit from the underground parking lot because they were going to pick us up at the hotel in the morning. This shows how terrifying the Mongolian enthusiasm is, as if we were wrestling. , whether you like it or not, I will hold you over and pour you down.

My accountant and I drank up a box.

I said, I really can’t drink anymore.

She said, forget it.

I asked, will XX misunderstand me? I'm leaving with you.

She said, he believes in me, I believe in you, Teacher Dong is a gentleman.

I said, but, I am not.

She said, if you say you are, you are.

It was already past 2 o'clock in the morning when we found a driver. After the driver arrived, we got in the car. The accounting sister asked me, where do you live, Mr. Dong?

I said, I can’t remember exactly.

The driver put the electric car in the trunk and came up.

She couldn't ask any more questions, so she told the driver a community name.

When you arrive at the gate of the community, the driver gets off the car.

She drove in and parked herself.

I asked, is my brother-in-law at home?

She made a shushing gesture...

There were men's shoes at the door.

However, I still went in. I drank too much and was brave.

She turned on the light, but there was no one.

The house is very big, it should be more than 250 square meters. I specifically located the Amap map and found that this is a family home. She poured water and found me slippers, clothes, men's vests and underpants. Said it belonged to my brother-in-law and had been washed.

Looking at the size, he is taller than me.

There was a large bedroom, which was probably used for guests. It also had a shower and a bathroom. She took a blanket, turned on the air conditioner, and packed it up.

I suddenly hugged her from behind.

She said, don’t be ridiculous, I am your sister.

When I thought about it, Mongolian women are not ordinary. If they get angry, they might really castrate me. I'd better be honest. I simply rushed and put on my own clothes again. She took it. Unopened toothpaste, toothbrushes, and facial cleanser came. They said they were for children, so feel free to use them. I packed them up and lay down.

I'm almost asleep.

She sent me a WeChat message and asked: What time will we leave tomorrow morning? What time do you set the alarm clock? (We had already added WeChat when we were at the lobster restaurant)

I said, I can’t sleep, why don’t you come over and let’s chat until dawn.

She said, go to bed quickly.

I said, I really can’t sleep.

Unable to withstand my hard work, she came over. The lights were turned off at the time. You could smell that her hair was still wet and had not been dried. She was wearing a nightgown underneath and her top was still wet. Relatively thick.

Lie down.

As soon as I stretched out my hand, she raised her head and rested it on my arm, with her back facing me.

She reminded again: Don’t move, otherwise I will be angry.

I asked, will my brother-in-law come back suddenly?

She said, yes, and he is also a veterinarian, specializing in geldings.

I moved my hand.

She immediately held it down, firmly, and her hands were extremely powerful.

We were like whack-a-mole, I kept moving my hands and she kept catching.

The stalemate lasted for more than half an hour.

She may also be tired and her attitude has changed, but she made a weird request, that is, she wants to tie my hands to the bedside. Okay, I agree to anything.

She didn’t even take off her clothes...

In the middle, I could feel her crying, and the tears were dripping on my chest. I remembered many past events. Just some rumors among the people, it turns out that they are all true.

A person who has been riding horses since childhood.

The power is extraordinary.

The Han rarely survive half a round.

After dismounting.

She burst into tears.

Untie me first.

I thought I had done something wrong.

She hasn’t drank in four years and has never gone crazy. Why does she have to control my hands? Because of her extreme low self-esteem and breast cancer, she had one breast cancer removed.

Afraid I could touch it.

I confessed and the conversation started. She took my hand and tried it. How did it feel? The texture of the lotus flower is like the scar after being burned by hot water. It is very rough and shriveled, but the granulation still feels a little tender.

I was so sleepy that I couldn't open my eyes, so she took me to take a shower. She put on my clothes and washed me very carefully. She even used bubbles three times and made me fall asleep.

When we went back to bed, she was energetic and I was confused, chatting wordlessly.

Where did the man go?

She never said anything.

She asked me if I minded if she was sick?

I said, I don’t mind.

Recently, I have two very beautiful friends who have breast cancer. They are both younger than me. Neither of them went for treatment. One is because she believes in Buddhism and she wants to walk gracefully, and the other is afraid. , I have advised her since two years ago, and at that time it was only a high-risk potential, but she was afraid and had many children, so she refused to intervene or receive treatment.

I mentioned two points:

First, cancer is just a chronic disease and can be controlled.

Second, believe in modern medicine and do not adopt traditional Chinese medicine.

Chen Xiaoxu passed away that year.

The famous academician He Zuoxiu expressed a view: Chen Xiaoxu was killed by traditional Chinese medicine.

Early intervention and treatment.

Nothing.

I was confused for more than an hour. Around 5 o'clock in the morning, I woke up first. She got up and baked two pieces of bread, fried two eggs, let me eat some, and took me back to the hotel.

I said, no, I’ll call myself Didi.

She said, I will see you off and stay with you for a while.

She simply packed up and left.

On the road.

I asked, sister, are you fully recovered now?

She said that from a medical point of view, if there is no recurrence for 5 years, it is considered a recovery, and the patient is basically the same as a normal person, but the probability of recurrence still exists, so one must work and rest regularly and eat regularly.

I said, then you drank last night.

She said, I feel happy. I met you when I was most discouraged. You gave me the strength to live. XX said that you are here, meaning to meet you together. She doesn't know that I know you, so you don't have to worry about anything.

I said, I want to transfer the 5,000 yuan I had at that time to you. Do you think that’s okay?

She said, if you feel that you pity me or something, then there is no need. If you feel that you are afraid that I will say more, then there is no need. I can do something for you. I am special. happy.

I said, I feel guilty.

Don’t say anything, she said.

When I got out of the car, I found that she was crying again.

While crying, she comforted me: You can go, it’s okay. That’s just me. I just can’t see separation and want to cry when we are separated. I don’t know why I cry so much.

I say, cry less. Crying too much will lead to depression.

She nodded and left.

I went to the front desk to ask for a room card, opened the door, and my teammates were still awake. I pretended to drink too much, threw up a few times on the toilet, lay down, and got up at 7 o'clock to have breakfast.

My teammates asked me in the morning: What time did you come back last night?

I said, I don’t remember either. It must have been two or three o’clock. The people in Inner Mongolia were so enthusiastic that I almost couldn’t come back.

Starting off, I drove the car out of the city.

We have regulations that shift every two hours. I couldn't bear it any longer. Just as I arrived at the highway entrance, I urgently pulled over and told my teammates: I can't do it anymore. You can take my place for a while, and I can take a nap. .

It was 11 o'clock as soon as I was confused.

When I woke up, I found N messages. The accounting sister asked me where I was. Seeing that I didn’t reply to the message, she thought more about it and asked if I was angry with her because she had concealed the defects of the surgery. Explain So many...

I replied, I fell asleep and just woke up.

She was angry again, meaning she sent thousands of words and you just muddled through with one sentence?

Women, so weird.

Maybe you think I’m being ignored on purpose?

After a while, it seemed that I had comforted myself and apologized again. I was thinking that her illness was directly related to her personality. She was too associative and her emotions were easily controlled by outsiders. What should I do? Without saying anything or doing anything, she tortured herself two or three times.

I am not allowed to judge her.

I said, the folklore is true, people who ride horses are great at anything they ride.

She said, can we have a good chat?

I said, it’s my turn to drive, I’ll tell you later.

She said, do I hate you so much?

I'm thinking that maybe it wasn't because of the friend test that I blocked her, maybe it was because something she said offended me, but I can't remember the specific reason. , I have blocked too many people.

At around 1 o'clock, we stopped for dinner.

I felt that I couldn’t understand what I was typing, so I sent her a voice message, and she called her back. I explained it to her on the phone, and she felt relieved.

She said that the little prince was very angry about my running away, which meant that he would not go after he had agreed to do so. The family had made arrangements, and maybe the sheep had been killed and the doves had been let loose, so that she wanted me. Address, for express delivery to Shandong...

I sent her the address.

The mutton express delivery business over there is very mature. In fact, even if I didn’t leave that day, I couldn’t go to the grassland because it rained suddenly. Of course, the little prince said that being angry was well-intentioned, meaning that we are so enthusiastic, why don’t you still Escape.

I didn’t drive in the afternoon.

She pestered me to chat again, but I couldn’t type because the car kept jumping. I put on my headphones and called her, explaining in advance that I had other teammates in the car and could only talk about business.

What's the business?

The little prince got a business from Baidu, which is considered exclusive to Baotou, and asked me if I liked it?

I definitely think it’s good.

We talked about Robin Li again, what did Robin Li do wrong? Why not as good as Alibaba and Tencent?

My point is, nothing was done wrong.

No matter who you are, falling is the norm, and persistence is the abnormality. There are reasons for personality, reasons for direction, and misjudgment. If several cars start together, they will fall behind in one corner. , I can no longer catch up. It has little to do with technology. It may be caused by some non-technical factors. For example, I am the tail car in the convoy. Theoretically, I can drive faster or slower. If I drive a few seconds before the red light, The car passed by and I was delayed by 1 minute, so it might take me 20 minutes to catch up with them. What if I was delayed by 10 minutes? I might not be able to catch up all morning.

You have to believe it.

Each of us is short-lived.

Character is the dominant factor. For example, Zhang Chaoyang is Buddhist, and eventually Sohu also became Buddhist.

Among the many stars, which one is not a flash in the pan?

To say that the real eldest sister in the entire entertainment industry is none other than Liu Xiaoqing. What about now?

A little brother started a micro-business brand and asked her to endorse it.

Talking and laughing, eating and drinking together.

When did a generation of queens fall to this point?

This is not bad, at least there is an endorsement market.

More are forgotten.

It was brought up again, just because of drug use.

Thank Dongman Wenjun with a smile...