A very good love song. Someone said: "The pursuit of love is regardless of age. Everyone has their own right to pursue love."

Men pursue love, Most of them are to meet the requirements of the traditional concept of "carrying on the family line". Women pursue love in order to satisfy their own desires and to give everything to that unknown lover.

When women are young, because their hearts are full of curiosity and because they have experienced relatively few things, they are full of persistence in love. "Feeling.

As the "Book of Songs" says: "A man can get rid of his tardiness; a woman can't get rid of her tardiness."

Unlike men who give up easily, women Our love is not only passionate, but also "long-lasting". Why is this happening? Because women are originally born for "love", and they will naturally try their best for "love".

However, when women have experience, they will slowly understand that "love" is not blind or "overflowing", but precise, dedicated and attentive.

So, when a woman reaches middle age, they will become "indifferent". Why is it "indifferent"? Because I have seen through men, through human nature, and through the essence behind marriage. Then, they will become "cold".

But there are exceptions to everything. If a middle-aged woman around you says "I love you" to you, it proves that she has given you these "hints". If you figure it out, you're lucky, but if you don't, it's your loss.

A middle-aged woman’s “I love you” symbolizes her longing for you (husband and wife)

When you think of a middle-aged woman, who do you think of? It's your wife, so to speak.

As a middle-aged person, what is your attitude towards your wife? According to a survey, the attitude of middle-aged men towards their wives will only become "bland" as time goes by.

In other words, some men’s attitude towards their wives is actually the same as towards a stranger.

However, the more times this happens, the more a man must understand that no matter how his wife becomes, as long as she still loves you, still takes you in her heart, and treats you well, then the man should treat you well. Treat them respectfully. You know, it is not easy to meet someone who can love each other and move forward with each other.

What does a middle-aged woman’s “I love you” mean? That represents your wife's "missing" and "admiration" for you.

I remember a friend. Every time after her husband went on a business trip, she would say the words "I love you" to her husband on WeChat. These few words can express her true feelings.

I once asked her: "You have been married for so many years, why do you still say such disgusting things?"

This is what she said: "You don't need to look at age to love someone. My husband is my lifelong lover, so what does it mean to say I love you? "

A middle-aged woman's "I love you" symbolizes that she wants to be with you. Wind and rain, disasters (couples)

In life, there is a particularly harsh saying, husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes.

When everything is safe, both parties can actually live accommodating and make do for the rest of their lives. But if unfortunately, "disaster" occurs in the marriage of these two people, then they will not be far away from each other.

Especially in this "fast food" era, most people's attitude towards relationships is actually a bit "frivolous". Why do you say that? Because of the impatience of society and the impatience of people's hearts, emotional vacancies and instability are caused.

But when your marriage becomes "in danger", if your wife is still willing to "love you" and still says "I love you" to you, it proves that she does not want to. I want to give up on you and want to go through the wind and rain with you and face the complicated world.

I like a saying very much: "You know pines and cypresses when the weather is cold, and true love is revealed in times of adversity."

The colder the weather, the more you can see the tough bodies and perseverance of pines and cypresses. And when you are in deep crisis, if someone is willing to give you a hand or even stay by your side, it proves that she is "loving you" with her life.

So, the biggest difference between a middle-aged woman's "I love you" and a little girl's "I love you" is a kind of mental maturity and determination. It should be done as it should be, never acting on impulse, but doing things according to what one thinks and wants.

So, when your wife is willing to accompany you through every difficult time, you might as well cherish her.

A middle-aged woman’s “I love you” symbolizes her coveting of your family (an outsider)

When it comes to “middle-aged women”, in addition to your wife, The rest, then, are "outsiders."

If a middle-aged woman who has nothing to do with you says "I love you", you should actually be wary of such "love". Why do you say this? Because the more "irrelevant" love is, the more "prickly" it makes people feel.

The "thorn" here is this feeling and the impact this woman has on you.

Think about it, those people who deliberately approach you, what are their intentions and purposes? Do we know? In fact, we won’t know any of this. As the saying goes, "A tiger and a leopard cannot be ridden, and a human heart is separated from its belly." What you see may not be true.

The woman who said "I love you", why do they love you? The reason is very simple, either for money or to obtain corresponding benefits from you.

It seems that the ultimate goal of such women is to disrupt your current life, covet your family, and cause rifts in the relationship between you and your family. Then, their purpose will succeed.

A middle-aged woman's "I love you" symbolizes her desire to "possess" you (an outsider)

In love, there is a word called "the seven-year itch". When a relationship or a marriage reaches a certain stage, cracks will naturally occur.

When cracks occur, we will find that a new member of the opposite sex will come to you and take the initiative. "Love you. This kind of love is a bit like a warm spring rain, but when you think about it slowly, it is also a bit like a chronic poison.

There is a saying that says, the more paranoid a person is about love, the more he will possess you for love.

If a middle-aged woman is always hanging around you, she may even strike up a conversation with you and take the initiative to say that she is in love with you. Then, it proves that she has an urge to possess you in her heart.

But no matter what, "love" is always selfish. No kind of love is fair, and no kind of love can satisfy everyone.