Reprinted from: Xu Mo’s Private Concert Hall Works

The relationship between one person and another is actually fragile. Often, the higher your expectations, the greater the disappointment.

The more seriously you look at something, the more serious you are about gains and losses.

In the end, expectations turn into harsh criticism, hurting others and yourself.

We must understand that in this world, those who truly care about you will accompany you through thick and thin.

People who really understand you will appear in front of you anytime you need them.

As for those overvalued feelings, you can’t keep them even if you try hard to keep them.

It is better to lower your expectations of others and strive to be the light of your own life.

When you lower your expectations of others, you will find that life is full of surprises, and your relationship will go much smoother.

Lowering your expectations of others is not because of giving in.

But because life is already so difficult, don’t continue to embarrass yourself in these relationships.

Concerning feelings, have more understanding and less expectations.

As for friendship, I welcome you. You go, I'll see you off.

In the most youthful years, we had each other wonderfully, and that was enough.

Concerning strangers, even if those who have been helped are not grateful, we are worthy of our conscience and will not regret it if we help all we can.

In this life, the only thing we can change is ourselves.

Your happiness must ultimately be achieved by yourself.

For the rest of my life, I hope that everyone will have two or three close friends, be surrounded by beautiful women, and live a happy and ideal life with a simple attitude.