1. How to arrange the order of kowtows at a wedding?

This is a procedure for a Chinese wedding.

I heard this from a staff member of Senna. Most people nowadays get married in the Western way.

If it is Chinese style, it is more complicated. There are many opinions.

The sedan chair begins its journey: Accompanied by gongs, drums, suona and lion dance, the sedan chair begins its journey. According to tradition, the bride should be carried out in a sedan by her brothers.

However, many modern people have only children, so they can only do it for their cousins ??or best men, who usually carry them instead of carrying them. The journey of the sedan chair is just a formality at present. Unless the two families are very close, carrying it from one end of Shanghai to the other will definitely make you fall down from exhaustion.

However, it is customary to give red envelopes to the bearers, otherwise they will intentionally shake the sedan to make the bride "feel better". Crossing the brazier and shooting arrows: In the ancient ceremony, the bride sat in a sedan chair and crossed the charcoal brazier, but now it is usually the bride who crosses directly with the support of the matchmaker.

Then before getting off the sedan, the groom has to draw his bow and shoot three red arrows toward the sedan door to drive away any evil spirits that the bride may have contracted along the way. After the brazier, some people have to step over the saddle, which indicates that the couple will have a safe family after marriage; then the groom will use a scale beam wrapped in red cloth to lift the wedding scarf on the bride's head. At this time, the couple should Officially worshiped.

The most important part after the worship is not to exchange glasses of wine (Hexinjiu), but to serve tea to both parties in the high hall. Usually at this time, a group of people burst into tears. The scene is touching and can be seen in the warm and festive atmosphere. Permeated with deep family affection. Concentric knots and matchmaking: In modern wedding ceremonies, many things that should be done in the bridal chamber are brought out and displayed.

For example, hair tying should be done by the newlyweds in the bridal chamber and kept together as a token of their relationship. Now it is performed in public. Afterwards, the mothers of both parties lit dragon and phoenix candles together, the newlyweds exchanged fragrant books and beautiful jade as tokens, and then invited a matchmaker to present hoofs.

2. How to arrange the seating order at a wedding?

1. How to decide the seating arrangement of guests, wed114 Wedding Knows that there is no absolute rule of right or wrong. But there are still some basic guidelines that newcomers need to know. The classic round table arrangement is such that the bride and groom must be at the front of the table, facing all the guests.

2. It is very important who the parents of the couple sit with, especially when you choose a more Western-style sitting method such as a square table. The square table is suitable for small and intimate weddings. The couple's relatives and friends may be gathered together. In this case, it will be very important to include friends who are familiar with each other.

3. The guests all want to sit closer to the couple, what should I do?

In fact, the simplest way is to set up two main wedding tables, so that the couple will have more friends. It is better to arrange two main wedding tables, one for the parents and elders of the couple, and the other for the parents and elders of the couple. A main wedding table can be arranged with some friends who are close to the couple, so that the guests can be well coordinated.

4. It is best for the newlyweds to arrange those who are also attending the wedding together at the same table, so that there will definitely be topical connections between them. What should be avoided is for a person to attend the wedding to be arranged with a group of familiar people, which will easily lead to a non-circular exclusion effect.

5. The seating arrangement should be divided into three groups: the bride, the groom’s parents, and the bride’s parents.

Each group will get to know their friends or relatives so that situations where they don’t know each other are avoided. Putting some unknown single young people together is also a good opportunity to make friends in a romantic wedding banquet environment.

6. How to arrange seats for guests who do not meet with each other

In fact, it is easy for everyone to think of this principle. If a person is invited to attend the wedding of the couple in a different place, it can be arranged. At the main wedding table, if they are college classmates, they can be arranged at the classmate table, and the guests can chat with each other; the newlyweds in student days can be placed at the classmate table, and the guests can chat with each other; the newlyweds in student days can communicate with each other to a certain extent. This way guests won’t seem lonely.

7. When the parents of the new couple are divorced;

In fact, when encountering this situation, it is best to seek their opinions before the wedding. If the parents have already formed a new family, , then should we consider arranging seats according to the existing family order? Not only can it be arranged properly, but it can also add a sense of happiness.

It is best to let the parents sit at different tables. The couple can take care of both parties when toasting during the wedding banquet, so as to avoid embarrassment.

3. What is the correct order of the wedding ceremony?

The correct order of the wedding ceremony is as follows: 1: The bride and groom welcome the guests 2: The wedding ceremony officially begins - the music starts, The gun salute sounded.

1: 10 minutes before the wedding, the emcee, host, lighting engineer, sound engineer, supervisor, etc. are all in place. 2: 4 minutes before the wedding: The groom stands waiting by the stage, and the bride stands at the door of the wedding hall.

3: 2 minutes before the wedding: Play the wedding reminder. 4: Narration of the prelude to the wedding ceremony: with background music "Myth" 5: the groom and the bride appear. Narrator of the host: A thousand years have passed, their sincerity moved the Buddha, and the Buddha appeared again and brought them here... The groom holds flowers. Come out from the left side of the stage, face the spray candlestick and make a wish for 3 seconds...music "Yesenia" (while chasing light A towards the stage); the bride slowly walks in from the door of the wedding hall... (salute); the groom faces Walking in the direction of the bride, (gun salute) they meet under the starlit pavilion. The groom presents the most beautiful flowers to the bride with his own hands, and they walk to the audience stand together.

6: Host presided over 7: Witnesses spoke Ladies, gentlemen, distinguished guests: Today is the day of the wedding. When the lights are on and the guests are crowded, I serve as the witness. I feel even more happy and honored. The husband is not only loyal, but also smart and capable.

The lady is even more passionate, gentle and generous. As the saying goes: "We are destined to meet you thousands of miles away."

Due to their good conditions, once they met, they fell in love at first sight, and their two sincere hearts collided together, sparkling with love. They fell in love, they were like-minded, and their union was a match made in heaven and made in heaven.

As their new life is about to begin, I hope that the bride and groom can forgive each other's shortcomings, learn about each other's strengths, have everlasting love, and have boundless happiness. Witness: September 26, 2009 (backup) Dear guests, relatives and friends: Hello! Today is the day to get married. This golden boy and girl, after eight years of love, finally blossomed and merged into one.

Here, on behalf of all the relatives, friends and guests of the bride and groom, please allow me to express our best wishes to them, and wish them love as much as glue, happiness and good fortune! The love is intense, the thoughts are endless, the luan sings and the phoenix dances, the phoenix dances in joy, the child is born day and night, and the fragrance spreads around the early birth of a precious son. The sky is blue, the earth is brilliant, the sea is dry and the rocks are rotten, the earth is desolate, the rich and the poor are the same, and the wind and rain are in the same boat for thousands of years.

Thank you everyone! 8: Love Vow Next, the most exciting moment has finally arrived! Let us applaud your great love! This is the exchange of heart to heart, the blend of love and love, interweaving today's beautiful vows. In order to remember this day forever, remember this moment, this moment when the flowers of love bloom, the two of us will exchange wedding rings. , to show their unswerving loyalty to love. OK, ask the bridesmaid to bring the wedding rings.

(The bridesmaid holds the wedding ring) As you can see, the pair of rings I am holding now are complete circles, which represent eternity without end, purity and holiness.

When you exchange rings with each other, through this token of marriage, we pray that your love will be so long-lasting, pure and holy, and that your marriage will always be harmonious and happy.

Now I ask the groom: Are you willing to marry the bride beside you as your only and forever wife? Whether rich or poor, forever? (I do) Please applaud and support, and ask the groom to come again! I would like to ask the bride: Are you willing to marry the groom beside you as your only and forever husband? Whether rich or poor, forever? (I do) Please applaud and support, and ask the bride to say it again! 9: The groom and the bride exchange tokens. Now the groom puts the ring on the ring finger of the bride’s left hand and tells her: ——I, on this special day today, am willing to use this ring as my token to express my eternal love to my beloved. Lover and wife——, I promise that from now on, I will always be by your side, love you, respect you, cherish you without reservation, protect you in danger, comfort you in sadness, and always be loyal to you. , grow and succeed with you. I am very lucky to be your husband; I am very excited to announce to the world that you are the one and only in my life.

Bride, please put this ring on the ring finger of the groom’s left hand and tell him... ——I, on this special day today, would like to use this ring as my token to express my gratitude to you. My eternal lover and husband promise that from now on, I will always be by your side, love you, respect you, cherish you without reservation, protect you in danger, comfort you in sorrow, and always be loyal to you. , grow and succeed with you. I am very lucky to be your wife; I am very excited to announce to the world that you are the only one in my life.

Groom, you have promised in front of everyone that you will become one in each other's lives, support each other, and live your whole life together. I believe that from now on, you will no longer be caught in the cold rain, because you have become a shield for each other; you will no longer feel cold, because you will warm each other's hearts; and you will no longer be lonely, although you are still Two people, but only one life.

Wedding rings are tokens of love between lovers. These two small concentric circles closely connect the two hearts of two people. Guests, let us sincerely wish you both a happy marriage. Newlyweds, I wish them eternal love and may their hearts be together forever! I wish your days will be beautiful and happy every day until eternity! Now, I solemnly announce that you have become husband and wife. The bride and groom have officially become one in life. The bride is in the groom’s blood, and the groom is in the bride’s blood. We will live a beautiful and happy future life together! Groom, you may kiss your bride. (Applause) Bride, you can kiss your groom.

(Applause) 10: Speech by the Newcomer. In which section should the Newcomer’s Speech be placed? Speech content (omitted) 11: Light the love candle (Best Man): ***, on behalf of everyone, are you willing to witness this engagement and promise to do your best to support Mr. xxx and Miss xxx *** in building a happy family together? ——I do. (Lighting candles) (Bridesmaid): ***, on behalf of everyone, are you willing to witness this engagement and promise to do your best to support Miss xxx and Mr. xxx in building a happy family? ——I do.

(Lighting candles) Now, the two candles in front of you, standing on both sides, are representatives.

4. The order of seating at the wedding banquet

The seats at the wedding banquet are indeed very important. In traditional Chinese etiquette, the seats are closely related to the person's identity and status. Therefore, when it comes to your life-long events, don’t be careless about this detail!

1. Parents, relatives, friends and colleagues of parents

Parents of both parties should have separate seats. Parents’ elders, sisters and brothers can be arranged at the same table or in the same adjacent area. Giving the elders a more distinguished seat at the table also makes it easier for their parents to take care of them. The seating order can simply be arranged by the parents themselves.

Usually the bride and groom’s parents’ table should be close to the main table and on both sides of the red carpet. It is easier for guests from the same party to communicate in the same area.

2. Colleagues, friends, and business partners of the newcomer

This group of people should be greeted first after the elders. Those who are familiar with each other should be placed at the same table as much as possible, and those who are not familiar with each other should be placed at each table. It will be more polite to arrange for a familiar friend to take care of you in time. Please arrange them in the middle of the entire banquet area.

3. Classmate friends

Most of them are the best friends of the newcomers. There is no need to greet them deliberately. They will definitely wait patiently for the newcomers to appear. You might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area so that they can Enjoy yourself and avoid drinking that will affect the entire wedding process. This part also includes the helping staff.

When arranging seats, you can ask the catering department to provide a table map, and number or name each table. This way, the seat arrangement will take care of all aspects. Combine this table map and table rows Prepare several copies of the printed guest list to make it easier for guests to sit down and at the same time show the host's meticulousness and thoughtfulness.