you can't learn what your family forces you to learn. First of all, you have to be willing to learn. As for the guitar, you are now in the second day of junior high school. If you want to take the music major, you should still study classical guitar. Folk songs are useless, and the Conservatory of Music doesn't recognize them. If it's just for fun, you can choose folk songs if you like them. As for singing, forget it. If you learn classical music, you can play it to a certain level. If you have nothing to do, you can practice the piano in the park. People will definitely give you money when you see it, which is much better than singing. That is because people appreciate you rather than despise you. After all, classical guitar is one of the three major musical instruments in the world, just like piano and violin.