1. Learn to listen and communicate

The biggest weakness between husband and wife is "self-righteousness". They both think that what they think of is what the other person is willing to do, and they are not willing to pursue it at all. I don’t respect the other party’s opinions, let alone the other party’s suggestions, thinking that what I am doing is the right thing. At home, we often just talk, making the other half feel wronged and suffer. As time goes by, the marriage relationship will no longer be as sweet as love. Husbands and wives should learn to listen and communicate. Both people need to listen patiently to each other's thoughts. Instead of guessing, they should encourage each other to speak out and make things clear. When the other half receives the other person's ideas and gives feedback to the other person with suggestions, this is a good communication process. Instead, one person is chattering there, and the other person is silent and just wants to escape and immerse himself in his own world. Communication between husband and wife must be based on effective communication, rather than ineffective communication all day long.

2. Trust each other and not be suspicious

If couples want to live in harmony, they must trust. Trust is the cornerstone of harmonious relationship between husband and wife. The best way to handle the relationship between husband and wife is to trust each other. They should not question each other or hide from each other. They should maintain an absolutely loyal heart to the marriage. You must know that suspicion is a taboo for mutual trust between husband and wife, and it runs counter to openness and honesty. Suspicion is a sharp sword piercing the relationship between husband and wife. Not only will mutual trust be lost, but the fight will also lead to both sides being hurt, and eventually the marriage will break up and they will have to go to the road of divorce. Suhomlinsky once said, "Love cannot be censored, only trusted."

3. Do not quarrel overnight to create a romantic atmosphere

As the saying goes: "The bed A quarrel at the head and a quarrel at the end of the bed.” There is no such thing as an overnight feud between husband and wife. As long as it is not a matter of principle or a trivial matter, you must know how to solve it in time and don't delay it overnight. During the quarrel, you must know how to control the situation. As long as the quarrel is small, once the conflict escalates, you must stop it in time and remind the other party not to continue the quarrel. Or end the argument by admitting your mistake. Many people think that admitting a mistake means "admitting giving up". How can you give up after a quarrel? In fact, if you have such an idea, your marriage will not be successful. In marriage, husband and wife love each other and do not compete for life. No matter whose fault it is, the most important thing is to end the quarrel in time and actively reconcile the relationship between the two.

After an argument, you must learn to coax the other party and create a romantic mood for the other party, such as a candlelight dinner, a hand-cooked meal, a carefully prepared small gift, to make the other party happy

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