The brisk melody of "You exist deep in my mind, in my dreams, in my heart, and in my singing" is still familiar to me, but the original creator of this song, Qu Wan, Ting has disappeared from public view in recent years.
When I saw news about her on media platforms, they were all scolding, saying that she was a "corrupt official's daughter." When she posted photos of her outings with her boyfriend, etc., she would receive various negative comments such as "Your mother is in jail and you are playing outside", "Fake filial piety", "Mistress", etc. There were also reports that Qu Wanting's Her career in music was paved with her mother's money, etc. All kinds of negative news surround Qu Wanting. Did Qu Wanting really do something wrong? She must bear the responsibility for her mother's mistakes. Is the road really paved with money by her mother? In fact, it does not seem to be the case. She has had a "cold war" with her mother for many years because of her music studies.
Qu Wanting was born in a happy family, with her mother and father. They were both cadres, and she had loved listening to music and singing since she was a child. It was only in middle school that she discovered that she was really interested in music. Later, because of her mother's promotion, Wu Xia estimated that her family was divorced, and Qu Wanting followed her mother. Her mother is a strong person. She hopes that Qu Wanting can work hard and become a smart woman like herself, and does not support her taking the music path.
So when Qu Wanting just got married. When she was 16 years old, her mother sent her to study in Canada. According to her mother's request, Qu Wanting studied business. When her mother sent Qu Wanting on the plane, she told her, "Your grandmother passed away when I was 19. I got here on my own. You are 16 now, almost that age. "Qu Wanting was confused by this sentence and didn't pay much attention to what her mother told her. She only knew that by going abroad, she could get rid of her mother's shackles and have more time to study music.
After arriving abroad, Qu Wanting began to gain access to more music knowledge and began her own creative journey. In 2004, she accidentally participated in an event held by the Canadian Music Television Channel, where she sang a song called Dido. "Thank You", she did not expect that her foreign face would win first place in this show, which further determined her to pursue a music career.
However, her mother Zhang Mingjie was firmly opposed to Qu Wanting. In this line of work, Qu Wanting was influenced by Western culture and was a person who went her own way. The mother and daughter had a heated argument at first. Qu Wanting originally thought that her mother just said she disagreed, but she never thought that her mother would argue with her because of it. After three years of "cold war", without her mother's support, her musical journey has not been smooth sailing. When a cleaner supports her musical journey
In 2005, Qu Wanting formed " "The Wanting Band" (Wanting Band) had a very difficult time developing at the beginning. Qu Wanting said that the first performance was in a coffee shop. They prepared very early, but by 12 o'clock, almost all the people were gone. The boss asked them to perform when she was young, so the response was not very good. It was also at that time that she realized that she was not suitable for the rock style, so she disbanded the band and became an original singer.
Because of music. Without the support of her mother, Qu Wanting had to earn her own money to continue her music career, so she started her working career. When she saw a rich man holding a party at his home, she went to work as a cleaner. From 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., she earned an average of 100 Canadian dollars a week, and she also worked as a waitress in a bar, helping people pour drinks. However, her mother never came to visit her, and she didn't even know much about what her daughter was doing. Life. During this period, she composed the English song "Shell" for her mother, and she almost cried every time she sang it.
Finally, her hard work paid off, and she met Canada's top performer while watching a performance. Terry, the producer of the music company Nettwerk, was the company that successfully packaged Avril Lavigne. Qu Wanting said that she was brave enough to go up and introduce herself to Terry, saying that she didn't have any songs yet, but she would in the future. .
Terry admired this courageous Chinese girl, so he gave her a business card and told Qu Wanting to come back to her when she was ready. Qu Wanting has been preparing for this for five years. She has created many works, but they are always unsatisfactory. So she continued to create, and finally she created her first album "LOVE I AM" five years later. Terry was very shocked when she heard such touching lyrics and melody. It was actually written by a little Chinese girl. , thus making Qu Wanting the first Chinese female singer of Nettwerk. Qu Wanting later said, "I was very excited. I was singing Dido's songs before, but now I am in the same company as my idol." From then on, Qu Wanting's music career began to go uphill.
In 2011, her song "In My Singing" was noticed by the producer of "Chun Jiao Saves Zhiming" and the song was used as an episode in the movie. But the movie was very popular, but the song was not. It wasn't until Li Daimo's cover of "In My Singing" in "The Voice of China" that the song became completely popular. This melody can be heard in almost all streets and alleys across the country. From then on, Li Daimo became popular, and the original But few people know about Qu Wanting.
Seeing that others sang this song without her consent and used it for commercial purposes, Qu Wanting became angry and sued Li Daimo to court. From then on, the original Qu Wanting began to appear in the eyes of the audience. In 2013, she even appeared on the Spring Festival Gala with Du Chun. From then on, Qu Wanting became completely popular. Her reputation in the country is getting better and better, and everyone regards her as a musical talent.
When her mother Zhang Mingjie saw that her daughter had made achievements in various aspects of music, she confirmed her daughter's musical path. The two mother and daughter "resolved their old feud" and their relationship got back on good terms. Qu Wanting also Post photos with your mother on various social occasions. At that time, Qu Wanting was famous all over the country, and her mother's career was also promoted all the way, becoming an official at the bureau level in Harbin. I originally thought that the happy life of the two mothers and daughters would go on like this, but unexpectedly something unexpected happened. The mother was involved in a corruption case and was criticized
On November 3, 2014, a department in Heilongjiang Province issued a notice to remove Zhang Mingjie, deputy director of the Harbin Municipal Development and Reform Commission and director of the Municipal Urbanization Construction Leading Group Office. Later, it was reported that Zhang Mingjie was suspected of taking advantage of his position to embezzle 349.85 million yuan during the land expropriation process. This money also included the resettlement fees for 566 laid-off workers. Zhang Mingjie was called "the "one in the name of the people" in "The Name of the People". The prototype of "Gao Xiaoqin".
But Zhang Mingjie refused to plead guilty. She believed that she did not use her power to seek benefits. According to her, the Harbin original breeding farm, as a state-owned enterprise, was on the verge of bankruptcy. It could not even pay basic wages, let alone medical insurance. Employees died almost every month because it was too difficult. Hundreds of employees went to petition. Zhang Mingjie said that she was "taken in due course" at the time, and many employees hoped that the restructuring would be successful. Now Zhang Mingjie has been imprisoned for 6 years, but no sentence has been announced. This shows that this matter is not as simple as the public thinks.
After her mother was arrested, Qu Wanting did not speak out immediately, and no one knew it was her mother at first. It was only half a year later that their relationship was announced, and public opinion broke out. Qu Wanting responded, "I love my mother very much, and feel heartbroken. This ordeal is very stressful for me, and I cry almost every day." "But later it was revealed that she was in a relationship with the mayor of Canada, Robertson. Some people thought that she was a mistress, but it was clarified that the two got together after Robertson's divorce, but they still broke up.
In 2018, she spoke up for her mother again. She said, "My mother has been detained for more than 4 years and there is still no verdict. I hope the court will give a fair and just result." But she was once again criticized by the public. Some people said that she was pretending to be filial. During the period when her mother was in jail, she traveled abroad, surfed, and found a rich boyfriend to fall in love. This is what she said Grief and tears? All kinds of bad voices have been haunting the girl, which forced her to withdraw from the domestic music market.
From the moment the child is born, it means that he has an inextricable relationship with his mother. Her mother is imprisoned. As a daughter, it is false that Qu Wanting is not heartbroken. Just as Qu Wanting released the new song "The Last" on the eve of her mother's trial. "Good Arrangement" reads: I want to see your smile, I want you to be proud of me, I want to return to your warmest and safest embrace, I don't want to see you grow old, I don't want to hear about your suffering anymore, Give me the final answer and put an end to this helplessness and injustice. "Every word and sentence reflects her longing for her mother and the suffering of these days, but she turned all this grief into motivation and wrote it in music, which became a force on her way forward. Summary
In order to make music, she worked as a cleaner and a bartender. In fact, a large part of Qu Wanting's musical achievements was achieved by herself. Even if her mother made a mistake, she could not let her daughter bear it. Jointly and severally responsible, Qu Wanting did not do anything wrong. Now she is being scolded for her mother's mistakes, which has forced her to withdraw from the Chinese market. Her mother's matter has always been a pain in her heart, but this cannot let her down. She has to give up her pursuit of a new life. She still has such a long period of life. She cannot stay at home and cry for her mother every day. Is it wrong to pursue a new life? Is this unfilial?
In the interview, she also said this: "I am very grateful to my parents for sending me abroad when I was 16 years old. Some parents just want to be around, and feel that their children are unfilial if they are not around. My parents are very selfless. They have never made me feel this way. They just hope that you can do a good job in your career, go out of your own world, and see that you are successful and able to stand on your own feet before you die. , they will be happy when they see you happy. I think this is the highest state of being a parent. ”
In her family concept, her parents think that she will be happy if she does a good job in her career and breaks out a world to establish herself. And she is also working hard to live and create, and has also made films abroad. Several records that have received good response, I believe her mother also hopes to see her working hard to pursue a new life, instead of having her daughter shed tears for herself every day, which is the best reward for her mother. , and she cannot give up her life because of her mother's incident.