Perspective statement: What should you do to think about yourself? ! ~

People can’t just do what they like, and when you haven’t succeeded yet, you shouldn’t be too arbitrary!

As a new human being in the 21st century, our goal is to retire at the age of 30!

So we must do what we should do first, and then do what we like to do! ~

A person's concept must change, and his ability must also change. What we need to learn should be the ability to serve the public, not just to serve one person! ~It would be very dangerous if you only serve one person! ~

So we must use our spare time to learn the ability to serve the public! ~

Many times I wonder if we can be more persistent in life and work. At least we should be more harsh on ourselves more of the time and not allow ourselves to choose life based on subjective preferences. Try to be sensible and do what you should do, what is worth doing, and what must be done that is useful and necessary for the future.

You should do what you like to do. If you really do it, wouldn’t it be successful and unsuccessful? Paradox one.

If you like painting and eventually become a famous painter, does that count as success?

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Xiao Ming wrote:

You should do what you like to do. If you really do it, wouldn’t it be successful and unsuccessful? Paradox one.

This paradox occurs when "should do" and "like to do" intersect.

I still like to do well. . . . . But what you like today may not like tomorrow. . . What should be done is to remain relatively unchanged, so the probability of perseverance is greater, and the probability of success is also greater.

Look at the problem from the development of things. Yes, "like" depends on the person himself, and as the person himself continues to progress and mature, "like" will also change. So Xingzi saw a relatively unstable standard and a relatively stable standard; when we ourselves are not able to understand how to measure, the risk of choosing a relatively stable standard is relatively small.

In life, we often encounter this situation. Should we choose what we like to do? Or choose to do what needs to be done? Many people do not like what they want to do now or in the future. Very few people have successful careers because of their hobbies. In the end, what they like can only be relegated to the status of amateur hobbies.

When a person becomes independent, if he works based solely on his own preferences, the probability of career success will be very low, because it is not easy to find a job that he likes; Career requires greater perseverance than ordinary people. On the contrary, if a person temporarily puts aside his stubbornness about his own preferences and seizes the opportunity, then career success will be easier to come by. However, because of people's emotional desires, they will not be satisfied with the success of their career, but will lament the loss of what they like.

To be precise, this theory of success is actually a contradictory concept.

Yes, we always have such contradictions. What we like and what is real are not necessarily the same. This needs to be reconciled by ourselves.

Some things are reflected in their own thoughts. Everyone understands and understands them, and they will do what they think they should do, or what they can do, or what they are willing to do. If you try to impose something or point out something, I personally think it will be disgusted.

(5) Learn to create inner stimulation for yourself. In mental work, many things are not that interesting. Make people very willing to do it. The word "must" is often the only motivational stimulus. It is from this place of disinterest that you should start your mental work, learn to concentrate on attacking the mysteries of these theoretical problems, and learn to concentrate your energy to such an extent that you gradually turn "must" into "I want" . As for the things you are most interested in, you can do them last.

(7) Learn to exercise self-control.

(8) Don’t waste time on unnecessary trivial matters (chatting, passing time idle).

(13) Overcome your own bad habits (for example, sitting empty-handed for 15 minutes before starting to study; turning over books you didn’t intend to read unnecessarily; after waking up , lying in bed and not waking up, etc.).

A few years ago, the famous American psychology doctor Elson conducted a questionnaire survey among 100 outstanding people in various fields in the world. The results surprised him - 61% of them admitted that they The profession they are engaged in is not their favorite, at least not the most ideal. A person can actually achieve such brilliant achievements in a field that is not ideal for him. Apart from intelligence and diligence, what else can he rely on?

Susan was born in a musical family in Taipei, China. She loved music very much, but accidentally got admitted to the university's business administration department. Although she didn't like this major, she studied very seriously and received excellent grades in all subjects every semester. When she graduated, she was recommended to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and received a doctorate in economics and management.

Dr. Elson asked her: "If you don't like your major, why are you doing so well? If you don't like your current job, why are you doing so well?" "Because where I am, I have to do my best. I must take my responsibilities seriously." Susan's eyes flashed with determination, "Whether you like it or not, it is what you have to face. There is no reason to deal with it hastily. You must do your best. That is responsible for the work. We are also responsible for ourselves.”

Sometimes we can choose what we like, but more often than not, there are not so many choices. At this time, the only thing we can choose is to like everything in front of us: What you must do, what you should do, what you can only do. Doing what you like is good; liking what you should do is even better! Do what you should do first, and then do what you like to do, and you will be able to shoulder your responsibilities and live your life as you wish. Therefore, we must learn to prioritize things at any time.

Studying is the pursuit of knowledge for the sake of the country. Therefore, we must tell children to determine a direction when studying and doing things: first do what you should do, and then do what you like to do. Many people study for fun, how unreasonable! What is the interest in reading? The real goal should not be interest, but responsibility. Find interest in responsibility.

“Don’t neglect doing good deeds because they are too small, and don’t neglect doing evil because it is too small. And for that reason

You should first think about why you are studying and who you are studying for. Some people may say that studying to find a job for yourself is so despicable and insignificant, how boring it is! And pitiful! You should never live just to find a job! It’s too easy to just pick up a knife and stab someone. When you cook, there are people who stand guard for you, and your things are indispensable! Why don't you do it? Because I told you to learn the skills of survival and understand the meaning of life. Value is not a place to create human value. Therefore, we must know that reading is definitely not for ourselves. Reading is for the sake of the country. Therefore, we must tell children to set a direction when reading and doing things: do what you should do first. Do what you like to do. Many people study for fun. What is the interest in reading? The real goal should not be interest, but responsibility. Interest cannot be used to replace responsibility.

"Do what you should do", such an ordinary sentence, such an ordinary sentence, it is very common for an employee to stay in his position, find his job, and complete his job well. Things, but for a teacher, a people's teacher who is known as the engineer of the human soul, what should be done and what should not be done, especially in today's reform tide, how to position oneself and truly do a good job As a teacher, being a class teacher is an art.

Do what you should do, that is, use your own love, your own personality charm, and your own knowledge to influence Students, to educate students, and truly become a new type of teacher who keeps pace with the times!

With outstanding performance, Li Zhengyun has won the "Yantai City Model Worker" and "National Public Security System" Honorary titles such as "Advanced Individual Learning from Lei Feng", "Outstanding People's Police in the National Transportation, Port and Shipping Public Security System", and "National Excellent People's Police". Faced with these honors, Li Zhengyun said: "People have to do something in this life. I just did it." What you should do. "Engaged in an ordinary profession, but made extraordinary achievements, this is the police life of Li Zhengyun, an ordinary policeman.

Do what you don’t want to do but have to do