Modern families attach great importance to their children's education. Apart from providing them with a good learning environment, they will also consider letting their children take one or two art courses, such as art and musical instruments. Because China people traditionally like to be lively, musical instruments that can set off the lively atmosphere have become the first choice of many families. When their children learn musical instruments, many people find that their children will have great changes, which makes people feel pleasantly surprised. The author uses the examples I have seen with my own eyes to illustrate. After all, hearing is empty, seeing is believing: < P > First, change your personality and temperament;
We all know that people's character and temperament are gradually cultivated in the acquired environment. Living and moving, status and environment can change people's temperament, and cultivation or self-cultivation can change people's quality. The so-called people change with the change of status and treatment. That is, because the environment has a great influence on a person's character and temperament, Meng Mu will move three times.
When Mencius was a child, he lived near the cemetery. Mencius learned some things like worship and played games to handle funerals. His mother said, "This place is not suitable for children to live in." So he moved his family to the market, and Mencius learned something about business and slaughter. The mother thought again, "This place is still not suitable for children to live in." He moved his family to the Xuegong. Mencius learned the etiquette of bowing and advancing and retreating in the imperial court. Meng Mu said, "This is where children live." Settled down here. When Mencius grew up, he learned six arts and gained the reputation of a great scholar.
The author's friend's sister had a similar experience with Mencius. The living environment of her friend was not very good, which led her sister to open her mouth and swear at an early age, start fighting, and even start smoking and drinking behind her parents' backs. Like a small gangster, her mother felt that it had a great influence on a girl, but it was difficult to move away in a short time, so she chose to send her daughter to a music training institution. After a while, when I saw it again,
second, change some bad habits;
Learning concerts can improve your attention, at least it can improve the attention of my neighbor's children. My neighbor's children have poor attention, and it is not easy to concentrate in class. They are still absent-minded in various thoughts, and they like to forget things for a long time. They can often hear the manic roar from their neighbors. During the summer vacation, they are sent to learn musical instruments for fear of safety problems. In those two months, they can often hear the voice of little boys playing the violin. One day, in an unintentional chat, my neighbor told me that the little boy's attention has been greatly improved, and he has collected his own things and stopped throwing things away. Indeed, I never heard the roar upstairs after school started.
third, change your own destiny;
One of the author's brothers changed his fate because he learned a musical instrument. He always liked playing the flute when he was a student. In high school, he was often a reserved track in various campus welcome activities. At that time, when the college entrance examination ended, his family changed, and his parents were unable to support him to go to college. So he went to a training institution to be a teacher, and earned his tuition in two months. After entering the university, he worked as a teacher in a music training institution next to the school. During these four years, he earned his tuition and living expenses, and he also supplemented part of his family every year.