I told them a long time ago that I had time to visit them in Guangzhou, but this idea has never been realized. So since the last parting, I haven't seen Miss IC for 2 years and Brother WN for 3 years.
when we say goodbye, we often say goodbye when we have a chance, but we don't know which chance it is, and we don't know which next time. Many times we have been waiting, waiting for the right time, waiting for a moment when we don't know when we will act. But that time is often many years apart, and even that moment will never come. Perhaps because of this, there will be many regrets in life.
Of course, many times we say high-sounding courtesies just to be polite, and then turn around and forget them, because you are in the other person's heart or the other person is not that important in your heart. Don't worry about those unimportant people, but for those important people, we try not to leave as many regrets as possible.
I read a story before. A person went to see his friend B. They were very close friends when they were in college. Because they went their separate ways after graduation, they only saw each other once in many years. Later, B was frustrated because of his work and ideals, and the reality was oppressive (crazy). When A went to see B for the last time, B was in a senile state. His mental disorder made B forget many things, but he always remembered the dreams and ambitions he told A in college. B's situation will deteriorate within the expected range and it will never return to the past, and he will never go back. After A left, he mentioned that this might be the last time they met. A cried and left, went back to the city where she worked and lived, gave up her work and social activities, made appointments with close friends, made phone calls, met, and often got together. I remember watching the story in tears at that time. I cried after reading it, and then quickly picked up the phone and called my family and friends.
after that, I decided that if there is anything I want to do, I should do it quickly. If there is anyone I want to see, I should go and see it quickly. Don't wait until later, because the so-called future will probably never come. That's why I often do things for my family and friends, write letters, meet and talk.
Let's talk about this meeting in Guangzhou. I asked about IC's itinerary during the holiday at the beginning of the month and said that I would find time to visit her in Guangzhou. I adjusted my schedule to travel this week, bought a round-trip ticket in advance, picked up my schoolbag and went there. It was also very convenient to go back and forth. At the same time, I informed brother WN that I would visit him, but unfortunately he just happened to be on a business trip and didn't see him.
So the whole trip became just staying with IC. We ate super delicious pork belly chicken in a restaurant together, exchanged recent news occasionally, and had a rest when we were tired. Because I live in a high-rise building, I can see the whole wide Pearl River at IC's home. When I get up in the morning, I see the sun rising from the river, and the morning glow is bright and beautiful.
Then we stayed at home and didn't go anywhere. We spent the whole morning filming the sunrise, listening to music in a sunny room, staring blankly, brushing our mobile phones, making breakfast and lying down. At noon, she went out to deal with things, and I went back to Shenzhen. The whole process is almost boring, but there is a wonderful silence, feeling that the whole person is relaxing. nice trip!
actually, visiting old friends doesn't need any special sacred ceremony at all, and you don't have to wait until a specific moment, that is, when you want to see them. You don't even need to say much when you see it. Stay together, have a meal, watch the sunrise and listen to music together. It's good to see that the other person's life is orderly and everything is fine, and it's good to feel at ease and calm down. Such a moment is precious. I hope everyone can experience such a quiet meeting time for friends.
If you want to meet your friends, meet them. If you can't meet them, call each other to exchange information. Don't wait for the next time, and don't always talk about another day. Don't turn the distance that could have been brought closer by a phone call into the rivers and lakes where there is no book in sight.
So at this moment, if you want to make a phone call, please make an appointment at a time and place if you want to meet. Don't wait, don't wait ...
Shudong: Is there anyone you particularly want to see or contact?