"Music Poet" Li Jian is a magical being.

Among singers, he has always been a niche presence, but one that cannot be ignored.

When he was still a member of Shuimunianhua, he became famous all over the country with his song "With You in My Life".

However, due to different musical concepts and it is said that they did not want to make purely commercial music, the group disbanded.

This time it was disbanded and disappeared quietly from the public for ten years.

Returned again on the program "I Am a Singer". His style of music, his attitude towards music, his "walking joker", and his emotional and sincere singing gave the impetuous audience a hint of tranquility and inner peace.

He is a maverick existence. Music industry bosses invite heavyweight guests just to win the title of "King of Singers".

He was the only one who invited Yue Yunpeng, who had no musical background. What he cares about is not the eyes of the outside world, but that he wants to sing the songs he wants to sing.

Li Jian did not accept the millions of endorsement fees offered by liquor and beverage brands. He believes that regular consumption of liquor and beverages is unhealthy, so he is unwilling to make this money.

When other singers became popular after participating in this show, they continued to hold concerts and sign new management contracts to take advantage of the current popularity and seek greater financial benefits for themselves.

Li Jian went on a trip. What he said is: The more you are surrounded by fame and fortune, the more you need to be sober.

For fame and wealth, people die for money and birds die for food. How many people can cross this threshold?

Li Jian usually likes fitness, reading, traveling, and composing music. He has been elevated to a high position in the hearts of the public, but recently some people have accused Li Jian of falling from the altar.

Some netizens believe that Li Jian has been married for many years but has insisted on being a DINK and has not bought a house. This behavior is irresponsible to the woman and fails to fulfill her instinctive obligations as a human being.

Although I already have money, I still don’t want to buy a house. This kind of carpe diem attitude makes netizens find it difficult to understand.

Li Jian once said in an interview, "I don't think my genes are so great that they must be passed on. When I come to this world, I want to live out myself."

Talking about buying a house, "I didn't buy a house, but I bought a lot of guitars. I feel more happy buying guitars than buying a house."

"Who do you care about? Everyone is different, but if people just pursue houses and cars, it’s understandable. But I don’t really care about it when I don’t have the conditions.”

If, Li Jian’s economy in his early years. The situation is not very good and people cannot afford to buy a house, which is understandable to the public. But after you become successful and your income increases dramatically, why don’t you buy a house?

Some netizens do not understand and think that Li Jian is not too sober but lacks a sense of responsibility.

These two completely different and exclusive ideas are quite interesting. These are also two current mainstream concepts and are worth exploring.

Li Jian’s wife has a lovely nickname “Little Shell”.

When Li Jian was 10 years old, he met 5-year-old "Little Shell" Meng Xiaobei.

When Xiao Beike was 5 years old, she looked like a doll, sweet and cute.

Li Jian’s father said that Little Beike looks like a Russian little girl, with thick curly hair and a mixed-race look in her eyes. She is a “CIS little girl”.

The two children were ignorant and had no feelings. They were too young and young at that time, and did not have the complex emotions of adults who are just beginning to fall in love.

The next time we met was at a wedding in high school. The little shell has grown into a graceful girl. This time they met, the little shell planted a wonderful seed in Li Jian's heart.

Talking about who pursues whom, Li Jian said that they are attracted to each other. They have the same aura and the same feelings, so they naturally come together.

Li Jian is five years older than Xiao Beike and has tutored Xiao Beike in her homework.

"But later I couldn't tutor her anymore. She became a female doctor. I couldn't understand the books she read."

He has a saying about marriage, "A good marriage will make people more powerful, while a bad marriage will make people worse. I found that some music singers' careers have stagnated and they have a lot to do with their partners. The two people actually grew up together and influenced each other. Before the age of 30, the appearance was inherited from the parents. After the age of 31, it depends on oneself and one's own circumstances."

After Li Jian writes a song, Xiao Beike will be the first person to hear it and give him suggestions for revision.

Li Jian said: "She is better than me."

Meng Xiaobei's living conditions let us see a person who can cook foreign cuisine, play the piano, and take photos. A talented woman who arranges flowers, grows flowers, makes tea, and translates poems from foreign poets.

She silently supported Li Jian’s every transformation.

When Li Jian was worried that he would not be able to maintain a high income and a stable income to give the two of them a stable life after quitting the group, Meng Xiaobei told him: "Go the way you want to go, without considering me. . ”

If Meng Xiaobei is determined not to support it, Li Jian may have another fork in the road to choose. However, the woman he met was so supportive of him.

The marriage between the two of them is like a tiger to a tiger, influencing each other.

Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian are both graduates of Tsinghua University. There is no worldly atmosphere of money in them, but they are filled with the scent of books.

After graduation, Li Jian went to work at the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television. He could have had a successful life at a glance. Like many young people, I don’t want to settle for this life and want to explore the infinite possibilities of life.

With a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan and excellent benefits, no matter it was then or now, there are people vying for this job.

However, Li Jian resigned and entered the music circle with his dream.

Li Jian wants Dink, and Meng Xiaobei also supports it. In response to this, some netizens complained, "If you don't get angry, just let the mother-in-law out. It's better to have too many people."

Li Jian responded: "I don't think it is necessary to continue my genes. It is nothing special. It’s not an endangered species.”

It is the instinct of many people, especially men. He has a paranoid insistence on inheriting genes.

The DINK family has different ideas, and neither party can convince the other.

Li Jian once said, "Just make ends meet and be particular, as long as you feel comfortable."

From his words and deeds, we can analyze that he is a person with great inner feelings and spiritual world.

He wants to explore himself and find the meaning of his life. It’s a different path, a completely different path from the public.

We cannot say which idea is absolutely correct and which idea is absolutely wrong.

If they return to the ego, some people want to find the meaning of their existence.

I am not willing to follow the crowd and follow the crowd. Even if I do some things slowly, I do it only after thinking clearly.

Instead of just listening to others in a daze, not understanding anything, and just doing it without understanding anything, is this a kind of irresponsibility to yourself?

Returning to the topic of human reproduction, reproduction is the instinct of most people. If they do not have children, will a group gradually die out?

I am also confused as to which concept is correct. There is a tug-of-war between two concepts: one wants to let go and seek relief, while the other is burdened with heavy responsibilities. Which one should I choose?

Li Jian has not bought a house until now. Everyone can understand when the economic level is poor. But when the economic level and conditions are high, why do we still insist on not buying a house?

In his home, we can see a lot of records and books. There are no high-tech appliances, but only fitness equipment.

He doesn’t play with smartphones and doesn’t use the Internet much. He spends his time reading, writing music and savoring life.

In his early years, he spent all his money on guitars and musical instruments, all of which were very expensive.

He said, "Desire triumphs over reason."

It’s not that he doesn’t know that buying a house is more practical, and renting a house does not feel safe, especially when a man’s marriage involves the practical issue of buying a house and a car.

But Li Jian still chooses to follow his heart and wander in the world of music. No matter what the outside world says or thinks, no matter whether money is tight or not.

Li Jian believes that buying a guitar will make him happier than buying a house. This is his concept.

There was once a very controversial saying, "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on the back seat of a bicycle."

Then Li Jian may be the man who can sit on the back seat of a bicycle and laugh.

Everyone has different pursuits and different views on logic. It is not easy to understand each other.

Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei especially like to drink tea and chat together in the tea room. This is their happy time.

They all like reading, discussing life, and "the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", poetic and leisurely.

Meng Xiaobei is a very independent woman mentally and financially. Behind her seemingly gentle face is a very strong heart. It seems that he is following Li Jianjian, but in fact he is "moisturizing things silently".

How many couples have suffered from seven years of itch and ten years of pain, and they have nothing to say.

But it is extremely difficult for the two of them to maintain a long-term spiritual connection.

It is difficult for bystanders to understand and empathize with other people’s marital feelings. Everyone has their own way to go.

Should you choose to live in the mouths and eyes of others, or should you choose to follow your own heart and live your true self to find the meaning of life?

There is no standard answer.

Many people have lost their way and lost themselves in this era. Unprecedented confusion and loss have left many lost sheep unable to find their way home.

There will be an answer to whether Li Jian is too sober or irresponsible. It's just that people who are still confused, most people including Li Jian, are still in the environment of "Zhuang Zhou Mengdie".

In the dream, I didn’t know I was a guest, and I was just having fun for a while. I can't even figure out whether I am a butterfly or something.

Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are exploring whether DINK is worth it, what is the point of insisting on living within one's own boundaries, is a house and a car a lifelong pursuit, and is it best to follow the footsteps of most people? choice.