Our guide is a woman, and she usually pays great attention to health care. My family is from the northeast, and my father got her some fine black fungus from the northeast and wild honey. . The guide and I are several people who have nothing in common, and I feel very embarrassed. .
I hesitated for a long time. First, I sent her a message during class, asking if she was in the office, and brought some home specialties when she went home on holiday. If I'm in the office, I'll just go there after class! Our instructor doesn't teach. The office is independent and she is the only one. It's polite to ask, and it's considerate, because it's not good to be seen by others. It's best to say hello or make sure she's alone before sending it. )
Then the guide sent back a message saying that she was in the office, so she didn't need anything. Let me keep it for myself. It's so far from home.
(This is polite to me. When she says she is there, it means she has acquiesced. )
I went to her with my things as soon as class was over. Sure enough, no one ... In fact, the atmosphere is awkward and there is nothing to talk about, so don't put the topic on yourself. I mean, teacher, this is a special product of my family that my parents asked me to bring you. (Maybe the tour guide doesn't know where your home is, so don't embarrass everyone. Just introduce the special product on your own initiative. Our tour guide pays attention to health preservation, so I said that black fungus can clean the stomach, detoxify and beautify the face. . You can talk about it conveniently. . Lose weight. . Whitening. . The conversation started. .
In the process of chatting, you should do what you like. For example, you are a mother, and you are still so slim. How can you keep it? Do you always exercise? Then say that you are envious. . And so on. . Don't mention anything you sent to others. .
does your guide like wine and tea? Looks like a man. Both men and women like to listen to compliments, and the more successful people are, the more they value it. You should learn to praise. . This is really effective. Praise is not the same as flattery. You should sincerely enlarge one advantage of him and praise it. There is never anything to be ashamed of when you say it. Let go, you are a college student, and there are many such things to face in the future. . This is the social status quo. . Just do more exercise. Your guide can understand your youth now. That's how they all came.
Knowing more about his preferences will help your conversation. If you want something from him, don't get into the subject when you meet him. That intention is too obvious, and the relationship with the guide should be handled slowly, and you can't cram for the last minute every time something happens. Remember to bring something with you every time you come home from vacation. There are many places in your college life where the instructor wishes you a helping hand, including scholarships and grants. And a lot of honors, and he can help you with any small mistakes in the future.
all you have to do is not to show your nervousness, but to be calm. You should always think that you are giving him something, not taking it, so there is no pressure. As long as he dares to accept you, there is nothing he can't dare to send. He is much more experienced than you in this respect. He will guide you. Don't worry. All you have to do is listen to your father and bring things and his parents' greetings to him. Just make him feel that you are real. .
calm down. Keep a low profile. Calm. Don't panic . Just do it. . Don't be too ostentatious, don't make a big deal out of it, don't keep talking about it in front of others, and don't discuss the things and contents you met with others too much.
wish you success! People have to grow up. . Come on! \(^o^)/~