Theoretically speaking, this is not possible. After all, memorial service is a solemn event and is not suitable for playing music.
If necessary, you can choose Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva or Amitabha Buddha’s sacred chant music to pay homage to the ancestors who have redeemed yourself. It will benefit both the underworld and the sun, and eliminate disasters. It is a very good choice!
When sweeping the grave, bring some flowers, fruits, cakes, mineral water and other offerings to show your memory.