The highest state of the relationship between men and women

The highest state of the relationship between men and women. In the world of love, the highest state of emotion is nothing more than a look in his eyes or a small movement. You are completely in love with him. Understand what he means, let me share an article below about the highest level of relationship between men and women. The highest state of the relationship between men and women 1

The highest state of the relationship between men and women. In fact, the friendship between men and women is a noble human emotion, an emotion between love and friendship. This kind of feeling is not a lover, not a lover, but it is beyond ordinary friends. This kind of feeling does not talk about love, let alone sex.

But it will make your heart beat, but not emotional; make you warm, but not passionate, pure but sweet, plain and long. There is a metaphor that is most appropriate, that is: stand at a place that is neither far nor near and appreciate the other person. This kind of feeling lies in the understanding of the heart and the blending of the spirit. The two people's hearts are very close, but their bodies are "far away". This is a kind of "Plato" at the spiritual level, which only rational people can do. Only sane people can get it. When two people are together, they have a tacit spiritual understanding and a unity of souls. They can talk about love, marriage, and the future, and they can talk about all the problems in life without concern. The highest state of the relationship between men and women 2

The highest state of heterosexual friendship: Appreciate each other while standing not far or near.

In fact, the friendship between men and women is a noble emotion between people, an emotion between love and friendship.

This kind of feeling is not a lover or lover per se, but it is beyond ordinary friends. This kind of feeling does not express love.

But it will make your heart beat, but not emotional; make you warm, but not passionate, pure but sweet, plain and long.

There is a metaphor that is most appropriate, that is: appreciate each other from a place that is neither far nor near.

This kind of relationship lies in the understanding of the heart and the blending of the spirit. The two people's hearts are very close, but their bodies are "very far" away.

This is a spiritual level of "Plato" that only rational people can make and only rational people can obtain.

When two people are together, they have a tacit spiritual understanding and a unity of souls. They can talk about love, marriage, and the future;

They can talk about everything in life without caring about it. We have a clear understanding of each other's problems, understand each other, support each other, and respect each other.

I feel like a lover, but without the boredom of the world; I feel like a brother and sister, but without the solemnity between brothers and sisters, casual but solemn, intimate but rational, knowing each other but selfless, two people who have this kind of feeling Individuals would not consider themselves to be of the opposite sex.

They can hold hands tightly, or they can hug each other firmly. It is friendship, appreciation, and innocence, but it is definitely not desire or possession.

They will appreciate Nietzsche together and discuss Byron together, but they will never give each other a little flower. They can go on outings together, drink together, and when they get to the station, say goodbye and go their separate ways. There is no need to meet each other on the road, no need to stay together, no need to be tired and pretend to be inseparable, just walk your own way home easily and with dignity.

That feeling is wonderful, that taste is indescribable.

Of course, there is no denying the attraction of the opposite sex. Occasionally, there will be a few moments that make people unable to help themselves, and it is indeed inevitable that they will quietly reveal a little bit of admiration.

He felt it, and she felt it too. It was a slight feeling at the moment of shaking hands, a vague impulse to embrace, but when they looked up at the clear sky, they looked at each other's selfless love. With their eyes, they will know: There are some things that are more lasting than love and more worth pursuing.

With this kind of emotion, there will be pain, helplessness, happiness, and endless enjoyment that you can’t explain. Because after all, this kind of emotion exists between men and women of the opposite sex. It is not love, but it is close to love, and it can even surpass love. This kind of relationship is highly variable and the most difficult to grasp. What it relies on is mutual restraint and respect, and it is the last line of defense.

Because of this kind of emotion, only the most passionate people will have it, only the wise and wise people will have it, and only the ice-snow and smart people will have it.

Because they must understand: Love is luxurious, as beautiful and fragile as a glass bottle. To have this relationship, you must stay away from love and sex. Therefore, it is tacit and fully understood.

A thin layer of paper makes this relationship more charming and vital. Only with distance can there be beauty; only with distance can we appreciate; only with distance can we have eternity.

Only a rational man; only a smart woman is worthy of this affection and can maintain it. Guys and dolls, vulgar men and women cannot and do not deserve to have this kind of emotion. The highest state of love between men and women 3

I have long heard of the term "soul mate", but it always feels a bit illusory and out of reach. Sometimes I still feel that this is a spiritual love. Happiness can only be tasted in the spiritual world. In real life, it is like the colorful soap bubbles that burst when they hit the ground.

However, when I saw these two love stories that happened in real life, I really believed that there really are "soul mates" in the world. If you don't believe it, please listen to me. The stories are all real people.

This first love story happened in Toronto, Canada. These are the protagonists in the story, they are George and Shirley, who are 95 and 94 years old this year.

The two of them were recognized as gods and goddesses when they were young.

Look at the beautiful photos of handsome guy George. He is so handsome, handsome and graceful. He is so handsome!

Look at the beautiful photos of beautiful woman Shirley. She is so beautiful, her eyes are so beautiful, and she is so elegant and refined. It is really fascinating!

What do these two handsome guys and beauties look like in military uniforms? At that time, he was a young and handsome Navy lieutenant, and she was a female soldier in the Air Force. Their military uniform photos are so beautiful!

Our male god and goddess met in 1944, and the matchmaker was their respective mother.

Many years later, when George and Shirley recalled their romance sweetly, George always said to Shirley tenderly, I almost missed you back then.

Back then, George, a navy lieutenant, was handsome and became the object of many girls' pursuit. Regarding Shirley, the blind date his mother found for him, he refused to meet her without even looking at the photos. The reason was that he did not want his mother to interfere with his freedom of love. Later, unable to withstand his mother's insistence, he reluctantly agreed to go on a blind date with her.

Back then, Shirley was a female Air Force officer. When her mother asked her to go on a blind date, she was unwilling. On the one hand, there were many suitors around the beautiful girl. On the other hand, she was independent and confident. She likes her parents to interfere with her marriage. However, when her mother showed her the photo of the young man, she couldn't help but agreed to her mother: "Okay, go and have a look!"

They finally met! When their eyes met, When they faced each other, a powerful current quickly connected their hearts and communicated with their souls! They each said in their hearts that it was him (her)! The lover of my dreams!

George later said to Shirley: "My dear, do you know how beautiful you were that night? It was so stunningly beautiful! I thought I was in a dream." Shirley said shyly: " So you stalked me."

Six days later, the young man George got down on one knee and proposed to his goddess Shirley with a carefully prepared engagement ring. Looking at George's handsome face full of love, Shirley readily agreed.

They got married soon! This is what is now called a flash marriage. This marriage started by my mother, experienced flash love and flash marriage, and was not very stable in the eyes of outsiders, began its 73-year journey of happiness!

Their marriage was just like ordinary people, full of life, salt, sauce, vinegar, having children, trivial and tiring. However, because they were close to each other and had love in their hearts, their family life was poetic and picturesque.

This happy couple lives a harmonious and happy married life. The so-called "three-year pain and seven-year itch" do not exist at all for them.

They have two sons and two daughters, who have inherited their good genes and are all beautiful, talented and kind-hearted.

George runs an insurance company, and Shirley gradually becomes a famous painter, and her works are collected by famous museums. Except for love, they each have their own sky.

George said to Shirley, I am responsible for raising the family, and you are responsible for smiling like a flower.

No matter how busy or tired he is at work, George never forgets to prepare surprises for his wife. A bouquet of flowers, a movie ticket, an invitation to a dance... Her smile is like a flower, which is the best reward for him.

This couple is always elegant, beautiful and elegant in the crowd, standing out from the crowd. The appearance of happiness and sweet life are eye-catching.

Like glue and paint, they are close to each other, help each other, love each other, etc. This is a true portrayal of their lives.

"They have a really good relationship. Even if mom goes out to buy a pair of socks, dad will accompany her," their children said.

Every time it was George’s birthday, Shirley would personally make a cake to send blessings to George, and give her husband a loving kiss.

Every time their wedding anniversary comes, they must prepare carefully, and then recall their sweet blind date and happy married life among flowers and blessings from relatives and friends.

This is a soul mate. A soul mate is the understanding of the soul, the inner stability, the spiritual dependence, the companionship of life and the sharing of the ups and downs.

Time is changing, but what remains unchanged is their belief in life, death and freedom.

The divine couple is gradually entering their twilight years.

Shirley suffered from rheumatoid arthritis in her early years, and it became more severe after she turned 94, and even her whole hand turned purple;

When the arthritis was relieved, she There was something wrong with his heart again. After several rescues, he was always on the line between life and death.

Every minute, George may lose his beloved wife.

In those days when Shirley was dying, he hardly ate or drank, and kept repeating only one sentence: If I lose her, I don’t know how to live.

As if hearing her husband’s prayers, Shirley was miraculously pulled back from hell, but when her condition gradually stabilized, George’s body also collapsed.

On his 95th birthday, he fell into a coma in the bathroom, and later was in and out of the hospital due to viral infections. At the same time, Shirley accidentally broke her pelvis and was bedridden again.

Every day, they worry that one person will die before the other, and they are anxious all day long.

My dear, I can’t bear to take the first step and leave you alone, and I don’t want you to leave first and then leave me to face the sorrow and grief! This is their voice!

After spiritual communication and careful consideration, the soul mates decided to use euthanasia to complete their lives.

They told their relatives and friends about this decision. They were very sad to hear the news, but they understood the decision of this loving old couple. They understood that if one of the soul mates left, the other would One person cannot survive!

Relatives and friends recalled their children and juniors from all over the world. After seventy-three happy years, the family now consists of four generations, George and Shirley being the happy great-grandparents.

Relatives and friends spent their last wonderful and happy time with George and Shirley!

Finally, it was time to say goodbye. On March 27, 2018, the whole family gathered together for the last dinner. The candlelight was swaying in the Opus restaurant. Old George was wearing a suit and Shirley was wearing a plain skirt. They once again mentioned to the children the love story that belonged to the two of them. Although they had said it countless times in their lives, this time it was really true. The last time.

Both of them had been soldiers, and they bid farewell to their lives with military salutes.

The last moments after the warm farewell were left to themselves. Later, euthanasia was about to be carried out, and he asked her, "Are you ready?"

George hugged Shirley tightly and asked gently, "If you are ready, I will be fine." ." Shirley kissed George deeply, and this kiss will follow him forever.

He took his wife's hand, and the two of them walked to the bed with calm faces, and said one last word to the children at the corner of the bed, "We love you, children." Then, Supporting each other, they carefully lay down on the bed together.

On both sides of the bed, there were two doctors waiting for execution. In the room, Mozart's Scottish folk song slowly sounded:

My love is like a piece of music

The song is beautiful and melodious.

I love you so deeply

Until the world is exhausted

Until the sun melts the rocks

As long as life is endless...

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In the melodious tunes, George and Shirley breathed a deep sigh of relief...

They seemed to have returned to the sweet night of their blind date seventy-three years ago.

They looked at each other and murmured, and he said: "I am really lucky to know you in this life. With you, I am happy every day." She said, "I love you!" The 95-year-old George looked at his elderly wife affectionately, with infinite warmth and love in his eyes.

He said, "This is the most moving music I have ever heard in my life. When we went on our first date that year, this ballad was playing, and I fell in love with you too."

Shirley gently put the tip of her nose close to George. She wanted to breathe the last air in her life with him.

She said: "Let us still be together in the next life.

They held each other's hands, with smiles on their faces, and turned into a couple in the warm music. The angels of love fly to heaven. In heaven, they have no pain and no worries about separation. They love each other and will be together forever!

The love story of George and Shirley spread all over the world. People were moved and shocked by their deep and sincere love!

The second love story I want to tell begins.

This is the hero in the story, French history. Macron, the youngest president in the world.

Look at his beautiful photos! He attracts countless fans wherever he goes.

Although France Women are obsessed with their young and handsome president, but they have no chance because President Macron has a wife.

Recent photos of Macron and his wife. > Judging from the photo, Macron’s wife is older and average-looking. After checking Baidu, it turns out that Macron’s wife is Brigitte Tronieu, who was born in Somme, northern France, on April 13, 1953. A chocolate family in Amiens, its brand of macarons is now world-renowned.

Born in 1977, Brigitte is 24 years older than Macron.

My first feeling was that this pair was too mismatched! There are so many beauties in France, why would the French president want a mother-like wife?

However, when I learned about their love. After reading the story, I was moved by their love.

It turns out that Brigitte was Macron’s middle school teacher.

The story begins more than 20 years ago. It took place in a small town called Amiens. Brigitte taught at the Jesuit school of La Providence in Amiens, was a French and Latin teacher, and ran a drama workshop in 1993. , Macron, who was only 15 years old, came to this middle school to study in the first grade, and was in the same class as Brigitte's eldest daughter Lawrence.

Looking at the photos of Macron as a boy, he was a handsome boy since he was a child. .

When Macron was a teenager, he went to middle school in Amiens, and Teacher Brigitte, who was about 40 years old, taught him French literature and drama. You can see from the photo that Teacher Bu. When he was young, he was also average-looking.

Macron has been a good boy since he was a child. He has excellent grades and good academic performance. He loves poetry and drama. He can also play piano and dance tango. He is a good boy. A typical literary teenager. Brigitte soon noticed Macron's extraordinary talent. She often praised Macron in class and even recited his poems in front of the whole class. Macron was nicknamed by her classmates for this. Nicknamed: Teacher’s Little Pet. The picture shows Teacher Bu coming on stage to kiss the students who succeeded in the performance.

Macron has a precocious personality and does not like to exchange ideas with his peers. I am more inclined to discuss literature with the teacher. The common pursuit and hobby of literature and art made them appreciate and love each other.

Macron’s parents were so shocked by this “evil relationship” that they immediately forced their son to transfer to the Lycée Henri IV in Paris, which is home to top students.

When they said goodbye, the two shed tears on the spot. 17-year-old Macron said to Brigitte: "You can't get rid of me. No matter what you do, I will come back to marry you."

Brigitte also felt heavy about this teacher-student relationship. She recalled the pressure. During that period, almost all her friends disappeared. She was regarded as an alien and isolated.

After Macron arrived in Paris, the two kept in touch by phone. Brigitte recalled: "We often called each other and chatted for hours. Gradually, he conquered all my resistance with his patience." Later, Brigitte also moved to Paris, where she studied at a famous school. I found a job in a private high school and stayed with Macron again.

Lovers will eventually get married. On January 26, 2006, Brigitte chose to break up with her husband Andre Louis Oziel*** after living together for nearly 30 years. On October 20, 2007, Macron married Brigitte in Le Touquet after 12 years of bitter love. Former French Prime Minister Michel Rocard witnessed their wedding. His economics teacher Mark · Ferrasi and businessman Henry Ellman served as their witnesses.

At that time, Macron was 30 years old and Brigitte was 54 years old. When Macron’s parents asked him about having children in the future, Macron said he didn’t want children. Brigitte’s child would be me. children. I think Brigitte must have felt particularly warm in her heart when she heard such words. The 30-year-old Macron was suddenly promoted to the grandfather of seven children.

Brigitte is really Macron’s lucky star. After he married Mr. Bu, his career was booming. He joined the Sarkozy government at the age of 30, worked as an investment banker at Rothschild Bank at the age of 31, and became the French Minister of Economy at the age of 37. At the age of 39, he won the first round of the presidential election and became the youngest president in French history.

After Macron won the election, he passionately kissed his wife. He was so excited that he told people: Without her, I would not be where I am today.

What Macron said is absolutely correct. Since they fell in love, Brigitte has done her best to help Macron achieve his career. She is Macron’s strategist and good wife.

After Crone became president, Brigitte came from behind the scenes to the stage, causing various people to discuss and speculate about their "irrational" marriage. There is a theory that Macron relied on the financial resources of Brigitte's family business to rise to power and run for president. The fact is that on the website of the French Industry and Commerce Bureau, Brigitte's family business "Jean Trogneux" has corporate assets of 1.9 million euros and 20 to 49 employees. Her family is far from being called a rich man.

Some people even say that Macron is gay and this marriage is just a physical marriage. Brigitte refuted this argument. She said, I am with Macron every day, and he has no "opportunity to commit crimes"!

Their legendary marriage is becoming more and more happy and stable amidst people's discussions and doubts, which can be seen from their clasped hands and sweet smiling faces.

My personal opinion is that why Macron and Brigitte, a couple with an age difference of twenty-four years, can live such a happy and harmonious life with true love is because they are soul mates.

Their hearts collided with each other from the very beginning, with the same hobbies, the same language, the same ideals, mutual understanding, mutual companionship, and mutual love. With support, mutual admiration, mutual respect, and mutual love, their relationship has transcended the world. They continue to penetrate deeply and integrate into each other's souls. They share and face the life problems they encounter. No matter what others think, he/she will love and cherish each other more and more, and they all think that the other person is My only one. They are willing to spend their entire lives assisting each other and bringing happiness and honor to each other. Their relationship has been sublimated to the highest realm of male-female relationships - the soul mate stage.

This is a very beautiful relationship, bless them!