What do you think about your good friend who always plugs in headphones and listens to music when walking with you?

He is a roommate of mine, and we usually have a good relationship with him. But sometimes when we go out together, she always plugs in her earphones and listens to music, as if she is trying to ignore me. We also cooperated very well and did not talk to her. Let her go her own way. We once wondered if she was autistic. So we saw her very closely during that time. I'm just afraid that if we are not careful, we may lose our status.

One time she went to eat alone. Because we couldn't get up, she went alone. On the way, I met people from the dormitory next door. The person came back and told us that so-and-so in your dormitory is kind of cool. The rest of us had question marks on our faces. She said, we met her at dinner today and greeted her. I wonder if her headphones are particularly good at soundproofing or not. He didn't look away from us, even if he glanced sideways at us, there was no reply. Then he put his hands in his trouser pockets and went on his own. us:. . .

Another time I went out to eat with her. She took out her headphones in the dormitory, put them on again and again and told me, don’t talk to me later, I want to pretend to be X, my I felt miserable inside, how did this ** roommate survive? Then I stayed away from her from the moment I got on the elevator. She looked confused and asked me what was wrong. I said, didn't the great god not let me talk to you? She said not here, but just don't talk to me when we are walking on the road later. So, along the way, I looked at her with a retarded look. She also looked like I was cool. Why.

But don’t tell me, we are accustomed to wearing headphones in class, walking with headphones, and always wearing headphones in our dormitory. He also said that he would buy a Bluetooth headset and keep the headset online at all times, which made me laugh. Please be patient when encountering such mentally retarded people. Don't think that they don't want to listen to you, they just want to act cool.

I would be disgusted with this kind of behavior. I think she doesn’t respect me at all. No matter how much you like listening to music, you don’t have to do this. This will really make me seem to have no sense of existence, and I will also feel the mood. Not good. I can forgive it once or twice, but if it happens more times, I will be really speechless.

Although I have never encountered this kind of situation, what I encountered is very similar to this situation. At that time, I will feel that the other party does not respect me at all. I can still forgive it once or twice. Yes, but if you do this to me often, then don’t be with me. This semester, when my boyfriend and I went to the cafeteria to eat together, eight out of ten times we would sit down and say a word after finishing the meal. I didn’t even say anything, but then he started watching videos on everyone’s mobile phones. I was also absent-minded when talking to him, because he often does this. We often have conflicts. I think he disrespects me too much. There were several times when I talked to him. If I say it directly, he will change it once or twice, and then he will do it again a few days later. I really feel that such a person is not worthy of my respect, and he does not take me seriously at all.

When I went out to play with my good friend, she never acted like this. The two of us just chatted all the time. It would be really disrespectful for a good friend to behave like this. Stop pestering her, maybe it's just because she doesn't want to be with us. As long as I see anyone wearing headphones on the street, I will basically not ask her to say hello. Everyone has their own self-esteem. Just imagine what others do to us, those reconciliations People who walk with friends and wear headphones will no longer be like this.

If I talk to a person who doesn’t ignore my existence, I really have something wrong with my brain. Why should I put my hot face on someone else’s cold ass?

I think it would be disrespectful to me if my good friend always listens to music with headphones on while walking with me!

Anyway, I think that when a good friend is with me, it is normal for him to talk and chat with me, isn’t it? If two good friends are together but don't have any communication with each other, wouldn't the atmosphere of such a scene be awkward?

If a good friend plugs in his headphones and listens to music by himself, I will feel like an outsider.

Watching my good friends enjoying themselves, but I seemed like a fool and could only stand aside blankly. I think this kind of friendship should be coming to an end soon!

And for me, I usually only pick up my headphones to listen to music when I am very bored. So can I also think that my friends feel very bored when they are with me? If this is the case, then my existence seems to be very unnecessary.

Maybe my good friend doesn’t have this idea in his heart. Maybe he just happens to like a song or music, so he does this. But no matter what, I think it is very impolite to have headphones plugged into your ears when you are with others!

So, no matter who I am with, even if I am walking with someone I am not very familiar with, I will automatically take off my headphones out of courtesy to show my respect for the other person. respect. Of course, if I meet someone I don’t like, I will still put on the headphones. This action also hints to the other person: I don’t want to talk to you!

I think it depends on the situation. Wouldn't it be nice if the other party plugs in headphones to listen to music and gives you a pair of headphones? Along the way, you can listen to the other person's favorite songs with your friends, or the songs you like, or the songs you both like, and you can also share your moods.

I have a friend who likes to listen to music while walking, but when you walk with him, he will choose to listen to the music with you instead of just putting on headphones and listening alone. Song. At this time, we must learn to tolerate each other, because everyone has his own habits, if he is used to listening to music while walking. And if he is willing to share it with you, then what do you have to worry about?

If she always likes to listen to music by herself with headphones when walking with you, then she disrespects you very much. Because I think wearing headphones to listen to music means that the other party does not want to communicate with you. So if my best friend always plugs in headphones and listens to music when walking with me, without caring about my feelings, I would feel helpless and angry, and I would be alienated from her. Because when we walk with our good friends, there will be a lot of things we want to say to each other, and we will chat with each other, instead of two people not communicating at all.

Especially when you are thinking of something interesting and want to share it with the other person, and you see him wearing headphones, you will instantly lose the fun of talking.

So, no matter what, when you and your good friends are together, don’t listen to music alone. Even if you want to listen to music, you can choose to play it outside or share a pair of headphones. Listen to the other person together. If you often listen to music alone when you are walking with friends, it is very likely that you will find that you have no friends around you in the end.

I think this is quite understandable, because young people nowadays basically like to listen to music. They also like to plug in their headphones and listen while walking, and sometimes they will hum a few lines. This is all normal.

But if we have something to do every time we go out and he is always like this, then I will think that he and I have nothing to say and feel bored, so he would rather plug in headphones. Listen to songs. After all, everyone is working now, and good friends don’t talk about getting together and playing together very often. After a while, when work stops, we make an appointment to talk and play together during the break. If he does this, it will make me think that he is It's very rude and makes me think too much, wondering if he doesn't want to play with me? If he does this, it will also spoil my interest.

If it were just the two of us, it would be very awkward to hang out together like this, and the relationship between us would become weaker and weaker. I will gradually feel that I don’t want to be with him in the future. We went out to play, but it was so boring. I couldn’t plug in my headphones and listen to music at any time. It had to be like this when I was with you.

If I knew that this good friend of mine really likes to listen to music, it can be said that he is so intoxicated that if he doesn’t listen to music for a while, he will feel uncomfortable all over. Zhong, he is also engaged in music work. He especially likes to listen to some songs and listens to them all the time. I think I have become accustomed to this. When he and I are walking together, he always listens to songs like this. If you don't chat with me, I will get used to it. Since I am friends with someone like him, I must have my own reasons and I can tolerate it.

But for someone who doesn’t have this problem at first, but just happens to be with me and does this while walking, then I think he must have done it on purpose and made me feel particularly uncomfortable. I will never keep this kind of friend again.