We spend time with our children every day. Eat with the baby, watch the baby drink water, watch the baby sleep. When the baby goes out to play, follow him all the way. Chat with the baby and read with the baby.
So much company. Be there from morning till night, except when the child is asleep. I believe every mother raising children is so hard. In fact, he was asleep too, but he also fell asleep at the same time.
You need to be reminded whether you look good when eating. Sometimes the taste is too good, and I am afraid that I will hold back after eating too much, so I measure it carefully. Sometimes vegetables (such as leafy vegetables) are not something you like to eat, so you don’t want to eat them. We have to learn how to mix it with the rice.
Leafy vegetables also contain vitamins that the body needs, so sometimes it makes sense. Sensible children accept the status quo easily and do not think about whether to eat or not to eat.
Sometimes there is a lot of soup in the dish, and I have to be reminded to hold the bowl flat and straight. If it's a little crooked, it will drip on your pants or clothes. Develop a good habit of holding the bowl upright.
Some children have to be accompanied when drinking water. Like the first glass of water you drink in the morning. First of all, boil the water in advance before the child gets up, so that when the child gets up to drink, the temperature will be warm, and it will not burn the mouth or be cold.
Then you have to keep an eye on it when drinking. If the child looks away accidentally, the water will pour directly on the collar or chest. Therefore, you should also drink water carefully.
Sleep with you. First, let the child understand that it is time to go to bed. Listen to calming music or tell the child a bedtime story to stabilize his mood. Then remind the child to close his eyes and lie on his right side like a bow.
Play with me. Need to lead and guide. When you go out for a walk together, go hiking, or go to the beach, you have to watch and pay attention to safety along the way. Pay attention to rest and replenish energy. It is easier to stick to it.
Chat with you. You may not know what to talk about at the beginning of the chat. Hear what others say and follow what others say. Slowly the problem came. For example: Why are there mosquitoes in summer? Why do other people's clothes look so good? Why do we eat this dish today? etc. All kinds of problems started to come.
However, what we need at this time is to calm down. First of all, I think that since there will be problems, it means that the children have started to think. This is a good thing. It is equivalent to children slowly starting to build their own cognition.
We just need to be patient, listen attentively, and keep our eyes on the child's forehead. Let children feel that getting answers requires listening attentively. Then answer questions based on the questions.
Sometimes answering questions just requires a little reminder and inspiration. Mainly to inspire children's own understanding. For example, the child mentioned why there are mosquitoes in summer? You can ask your children whether the temperature in summer is hot or cold?
Children may answer hot. What happens to our bodies when the weather is hot? Will I sweat? Mosquitoes also like to come closer when they find that our bodies smell like sweat.
In addition to physical reasons, you can also give guidance. Think about whether mosquitoes are more likely to be found in clean places or in dirty places. Sometimes taking it to the trash can and taking a look will make it more intuitive and clear.
Finally, let’s take a look at companion reading. First, set up appropriate tables, chairs, and benches that are just right for the children to sit on. My eyes can just see the words on the book.
What we need to do is to use our eyes to observe whether the child's gaze just falls on the words. Use your ears to listen to the child's reading voice to see if the words are clear and sound.
Before your child is in a reading state, listen to calming music and sit upright for a while. Then slowly introduce the benefits of reading. What help will it have to him/herself? For example, reading brings wisdom and so on.