That day, I was waiting at the train station. I felt bored, so I opened WeChat. I never expected that an old classmate who I hadn’t seen in many years would add me to her address book, and then she would add me to her classmate group. Facing a group of classmates whom I haven't seen for many years, I was happy to chat and the mood was high.
After many years away from home, our classmates have not contacted each other for more than 20 years. This sudden "meeting" made me surprised and excited. From then on, I read every message one by one, and my heart was locked in the WeChat group.
Today, WeChat has facilitated our lives. WeChat has functions such as information transmission, reading, communication, and media sharing. With WeChat in hand, you can know the world at your fingertips. I usually read and like to use WeChat. Whether it is literature, history, music, health, or military, entertainment, or food, I enjoy it and learn a lot of knowledge from it.
Since joining the group chat, I have read less. Whenever I have free time, I often spend time leisurely in the group. Every time I hear familiar people speaking unfamiliar words, I feel the ruthlessness of time, and time is not only mottled. Our looks also widened the distance between us, and I felt like I was missing something.
In fact, I rarely participated in group chats and rarely sent messages. I only occasionally used the WeChat platform to post some articles, hoping that more people would comment after reading them, so as to comfort the loneliness when writing. Get some spiritual enrichment. As time goes by, the circle of friends is getting bigger and bigger, and more and more groups are joining.
At first, I tried to be a person who kept to the group, and occasionally commented on their emotions, likes, or sent a few emoticons to show that I was an indifferent person. Later, I spent more and more time in the group, chatting became addictive, and I couldn't stop. I felt uneasy when facing the pile of books on the table.
Sometimes when I am in a crowd and see everyone playing with their mobile phones, I am the only one doing nothing and feel a little lonely. In fact, if you maintain inner silence, you will often get a moment of peace of mind. Sometimes I can't resist the temptation of the WeChat notification sound, so I open WeChat and see thousands of unread messages in the group, almost crashing...
Because there is too much junk in WeChat, the phone runs slowly and often appears The phone freezes and freezes, and sometimes it automatically shuts down when I answer a call, which makes me puzzled. I wanted to quit the group, but I couldn't let go of my feelings, so I had no choice but to delete unread messages frequently and restore my phone to factory settings every once in a while.
When my friend's poetry collection was published, I found that I had only published a few words in books and periodicals. I felt very ashamed. I concluded that the reason was probably related to the group chat. So I tried to use WeChat less often, and I felt much more at peace inside, and my mental state gradually improved. In fact, too often, we spend time and energy on ineffective social circles. We are busy all day long and have no intention of working and studying. As a result, it is difficult to achieve success in our careers. I think that without tranquility, one cannot reach far, and without indifference, one cannot achieve clear aspirations.
I think that friends are not about having many friends, but about being close to each other. The difference between chatting companions and close friends is that one uses one’s mouth and the other one uses one’s heart. The circle is important, but you must find a circle that suits your development, otherwise you will always be in the circle. Circle; connections are not gained by pursuit, but by attraction. Only if you are good enough can you have real connections; when looking for friends, you need to find people who understand you and people who understand you; to live together, you need to Find someone who loves you and who you love. Don't spend too much time in ineffective social circles, and do more things that are beneficial to your body, mind, and family.
Quiet, nourish the mind. Noisy, cluttering the ears and confusing the mind. In today's WeChat group chats, there are many opinions, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false. What is wasted is time that cannot be recovered. I think we shouldn't spend a lot of time chatting. When I have nothing to do, I read a book and cultivate flowers. Friends come from far away and have a heartfelt wine. Spend your free time with the elderly, children, and loved ones, because they are the most important circle in your life.
That day, after I read an article "Give Up Your Ineffective Social Circle", I was enlightened and suddenly understood. It turned out that the group chat I had been insisting on giving up was a useless social circle, so I immediately Open the group chat, click Delete and exit. At that moment, I felt particularly relaxed and at ease.
At any time, you must give your soul a pure land.