My son hates taking music classes now. The reason is that he met an unreliable teacher in music classes. Two things happened in the music class this semester: 1. Some time ago, the school organized a class chorus. The music teacher asked several children who sang out of tune to only open their mouths and were not allowed to make any sound. My son was also one of the out-of-tune children. The teacher said this The request severely dampened his son's enthusiasm for learning to sing. In music class last week, his son and several other children who were out of tune were called "waste" by the teacher, and his son still can't let go. Although my child has no musical talent, he still likes music. After all, he studied piano for three years from grade one to grade three. The teacher who taught him at that time was also very kind to him and made him deeply feel the charm of music. My son also I have obtained the third-level piano certificate and the second-level sound basic certificate. If it were not for the fact that his piano teacher did not have time to teach him, and the child did not want to change teachers, I believe that the child would have continued to study.

How could this music teacher use verbal violence against children and completely destroy their love for music? Although the teacher's behavior was problematic, I still told my children not to confront or refute the teacher. At the same time, I would not go to the school to find the teacher or the principal to sue the teacher. I'm afraid that if I go to school to deal with this matter, it will be counterproductive and make the teacher have a bad mood towards the child, which will make the child hate school because of it. As one of my colleagues said, she has a sister who is currently a teacher in school. Some parents go to school to sue teachers, which only causes teachers to spread rumors among themselves and think that parents are a "nuisance". Instead, they no longer discipline their children and isolate them. , making the children even more confused.

In fact, I am also very confused about whether I have compromised too much. Should I fight for my children's legitimate rights and not let them suffer this harm? What should I do if I encounter an unqualified teacher? I really don’t know what the best solution is. I only hope that dear teachers can truly love children and stimulate their interest in learning. Even if they do not do well, they should not discourage them. Every child has his or her own talents, and every child also has his or her own shortcomings. Teachers, please stop verbal violence and treat every child sincerely.