Recently, a new student came to our class. His name is Yu Nuo. He is fair and clean and very lovable. In the two months since she entered the kindergarten, she has never done any exercises. Every time she hears the music for exercises, she will cry silently and stand stiffly by the chair, refusing to come out. In order to encourage him, I always whispered in his ear: "Yu Nuo, go and line up, it doesn't matter if you don't do exercises." Only in this way will he be willing to go out.

Arriving at the playground, Yu Nuo quietly watched other children doing exercises. At this time, the grandmother who has always cared about Yu Nuo would always stand outside the wall and watch her precious granddaughter do exercises. When she saw Yu Nuo, she would always stand there alone with an anxious expression on her face. Whenever Yu Nuo turned around, Seeing her grandmother, Yunuo started crying again. In order to make Yunuo willing to do exercises, I tried my best.

Method 1: Before doing exercises, I put a big apple sticker on Yunuo. "The big red apple likes Yunuo the most. As long as Yunuo does exercises, the teacher will reward you with two big apples. Okay." "?" Yunuo nodded, but when it came time to do the exercises, she didn't move at all.

Method 2: In order to make Yunuo move, when the music was playing, I stood next to Yunuo and held her hand to dance together. But Yunuo didn't cooperate at all. He put his little hands in his pockets and refused to move.

Method 3: Knowing that Yu Nuo likes to take pictures, I tried this trick again. "Yu Nuo, the teacher wants to take a photo of you doing exercises, and then transfer the photo to the computer and send it to your parents for a look, okay?" Seeing the camera, Yu Nuo was a little excited and nodded. But when I turned the camera on her, she stopped moving again.

One day when leaving the kindergarten, the anxious grandma said angrily: "If Yunuo doesn't do exercises tomorrow, grandma won't come to pick you up." Perhaps because of the pressure from grandma, Yunuo stood there every day. On the playground, I watched my grandma nervously outside the fence, but she still didn't want to do exercises.

Seeing that none of the above methods worked, I discussed with her grandmother to temporarily downplay her doing exercises and let nature take its course. In this way, time passed day by day, and it seemed that Yu Nuo didn't like to do exercises as a matter of course.

What is the reason that makes Yu Nuo unwilling to do exercises? I carefully recalled Yunuo's performance in the past two months since she came to the park. Yu Nuo always washes her hands alone and is the last one to go to bed. She even has to wait until the children leave before going to the toilet. She is also unwilling to accept help from others. According to her grandmother, Yunuo has a strong sense of self-esteem and does not dare to try things she has never done before.

I remembered that during the days of gymnastics at school, Yunuo happened to be sick and didn't come. By the time she arrived, most of the children could do exercises, except Yu Nuo. Maybe this is why Yunuo doesn't like doing exercises. After finding out the reason, I used the time between classes to give her each action individually. Yunuo studied very seriously and quickly learned the basic movements. In order for Yunuo to master the movements skillfully, I also asked Yunuo to take home the exercise tape to practice. From then on, Yunuo finally learned to do exercises and became willing to do them.

For a long time, I always thought that Yunuo didn’t like doing exercises because she couldn’t adapt to the environment and because of her stubborn personality. I didn’t carefully analyze Yunuo’s personality characteristics. For a child's special performance, it is impossible for us to quickly change the child's behavior with just encouragement and help. Only by careful observation, patient listening, and careful thinking can we find the crux of the problem.