Home-based nanny service guidance

The home-based nanny service is fully prepared to meet the challenges of customers, provide them with professional and considerate maternal and infant care services, and deliver more With many scientific parenting experiences, I hope that the following guidance will be helpful to all nannies!

1. Key points of parenting in the first month of baby

1. Early skin contact between mother and child, and more touch.

2. Talk to the baby more, smile more, touch and hug the baby more.

3. Let the baby look at pictures and listen to some soft and soothing music.

4. Learn to raise your head and keep practicing crawling and walking.

Ability of newborns: The optimal viewing distance of newborns is 20cm, they can follow the red ball and move their sight.

Newborns have innate walking ability and can take about 4 steps with the support of adults.

Newborns have an innate grasping reflex. They can hold an adult's fingers and support the weight of the body.

Newborns have a crawling reflex. When his body is lying prone on the bed, and the adult gently pushes his soles, he can crawl, and he has a certain sense of self-protection. When crawling, he can turn his head to one side to prevent suffocation.

Newborns also have a certain ability to imitate. He can imitate adults sticking out their tongues.

A newborn baby is not just a little guy who only knows how to eat and sleep. He has many innate abilities. Parents should provide better early education based on the characteristics of their babies.

Nursery tips: Newborns have innate reflex abilities such as sucking, walking, crawling, and grasping. Parents should take advantage of the baby's growth characteristics to provide early education in a timely manner.

Memory of newborns

Nursery tips: Newborns have the ability to remember. They take longer to look at new pictures and shorter time to look at familiar pictures. Parents should give their babies Look at some pictures with simple patterns to cultivate your baby's ability to focus and develop his memory ability. You can see colorful pictures during the full moon.

Wired remote control: The newborn's mobility is still relatively small, and he spends most of his time in the crib. Parents can take advantage of his interest in music and play wired remote control games with him.

Newborn babies are more interested in toys that can make sounds. Parents can play wired remote control games with them. Tie one end of the rope to one of the baby's wrists or ankles, and tie a bell block to the other end. When the baby moves, the string will be pulled, and the bell will make a pleasant sound, making the baby feel curious and happy.

Nursery tips: Toys that make noise can stimulate babies’ curiosity and interest in exploring the environment.

Learning to raise the head: A newborn baby can raise its head for a few seconds with the support of an adult. Raising the head is the first big movement that the baby needs to learn after birth.

Raise your head upright: Let the baby's head rest on the mother's shoulder, pat it a few times, and then let it stand upright naturally for a moment. Every time it learns to raise its head, the mother should communicate with the baby with words, or Use toys to tease

Lying on your belly and raising your head: Hold the baby on your chest, slowly lie down or lie flat on the bed, and let the baby lie prone on your abdomen naturally.

Lying down on the bed and raising the head: Let the baby lie prone on the bed, place both hands on both sides of the head, help the baby turn the head to the midline, and tease the baby to raise the head for a moment.

Put a small quilt or pillow under the baby's upper body, and let the baby put his hands on both sides of his head to encourage him to raise his head.

Nursery tips: Learning to raise your head can expand the baby's field of vision and promote the overall development of the baby's physical strength and intelligence.

Learning to crawl: Crawling is an innate ability of babies. If you insist on training the baby, you can maintain this ability, otherwise it will disappear after 52 days after birth.

Crawling training method: Let the baby lie prone, put your palms against the soles of the baby's feet, and let him crawl forward using the abdomen as a fulcrum.

Nursery tips: Learning to crawl can exercise the extensor muscles of the baby's head, neck and back, promote the movement and stretching of the limbs, and enhance physical fitness.

2. Key points for raising babies in the second month

1. Gradually make the baby’s sleep time regular.

2. Take the baby outdoors when the weather is good.

3. Let the baby touch various toys and practice grasping.

4. Continue to practice lying prone and raising your head vertically.

5. Communicate more with the baby and tease him to pronounce words.

Parent-child communication: As soon as a baby is born, it is necessary to communicate with him in various forms such as touch and language. When the baby wakes up or whispers to the baby, it should be accompanied by gentle skin caress. The parts touched can be hair, limbs, abdomen, back, instep, back of hand, fingers, etc.

When you hold and caress the baby, speak to the baby repeatedly in a soft, friendly, and varied tone of voice. When the baby looks at you, gaze at him with caressing sunlight, and respond positively to the baby's smiles and babbles. Communicating more with babies can promote their physical and mental health and intellectual development, allowing them to fully enjoy your caress. Mothers and babies playing together will increase the emotional communication between mother and child and create a happy emotional inertia in the baby, which is a sign of baby's mental health.

Tips from nanny: More parent-child communication with babies can enhance the stimulation of the baby’s vision and hearing, enrich the baby’s emotions, improve the baby’s emotional intelligence, and is conducive to the formation of a healthy personality of the baby.

Learning to turn over: lying on the side and then lying on the back (90 degrees turning over): Let the baby lie on the bed on its side, put the baby's left leg on the right leg, and use the adult's body slightly to help the baby turn over. .Supine (turning over at 180 degrees): Place toys in front of the baby, and move the toys to tease the baby so that he gradually turns from prone to supine. After practice, the baby can skillfully complete the turning movement, which exercises the muscles of the baby's whole body and promotes the brain. development.

Nanny’s Tip: Learning to roll over can promote the coordination and movement of the neck muscles and limb muscles, expand the child’s range of activities, and develop his intelligence.

Novel little hands: Babies are born with the ability to grasp the surface. If parents do not train this innate reflex, it will gradually disappear.

A one-month-old baby can hold an adult's finger or pencil, as well as some toys. At this time, the baby's grasping is some unconscious behavior.

When breastfeeding or making fun of children, mothers should talk to the baby in a soft voice and touch the skin, so that the baby's hands can actively stretch and exercise the baby's grip strength.

Parents can hang red cloth strips, red bracelets or small red bell pins on the baby's wrist to make him see colors or hear sounds and look at his little hands.

Nursery tips: Playing with hands is an important process in the development of baby's hand movements. Parents doing more hand exercises for babies can enhance the grip strength of the baby's hands and cultivate the baby's hand-eye coordination ability.

3. Key points for raising babies in the third month

1. Do exercises with the baby.

2. Let the baby listen to more music to add nutrients to the brain.

3. Use a mirror to tease the baby to raise his head.

4. Teach the baby to practice patting and reaching for toys.

5. Arrange an environment for babies to see, listen, touch and play.

Do aerobics for babies: When the baby is two months old, parents can often do aerobics for the baby.

Including: whole body relaxation exercise (starting from the wrist, looping to the shoulder, 1-4 beats, looping from the ankle to the thigh, 5-8 beats, chest and abdomen loop, 1-8 beats), upper limb training (elbow joint flexion and extension, Shoulder joint circumference), lower limb training (ankle joint, knee joint, leg flexion and extension), body movements, sitting movements.

Babbling: A baby’s babbling calls are a sign of cuteness and the beginning of language development. A two-month-old baby will pronounce two or three vowels, such as a, o, e, etc. When the baby pronounces words, parents should respond and speak to the baby with exaggerated mouth shapes. Three-month-old babies will have the diphthongs of PM and have preliminary response ability. Parents should have more vocal communication with their babies and encourage them to speak loudly and laugh loudly.

Parents should often make their babies laugh. Parents should smile, scratch the baby's body, and touch the baby's little face to make them laugh. After a few days of teasing, the baby will smile happily when adults tease him. Learning to tease can promote the baby's future language learning.

Nursery tips: Babies babbling and learning words are the beginning of babies communicating with the outside world and expressing themselves. Parents should use exaggerated mouth shapes to talk to babies to promote their language development.

Look in the mirror: Babies born around 90 days old are lively and cute, and can play games with their mothers. The baby can hold its head up when lying on its stomach and when held upright. At this time, parents can let the baby play the game of looking in the mirror to promote the development of the baby's upper limbs and neck muscles. Mothers can hold the baby in front of the mirror so that the baby can learn to recognize themselves and their mother. The baby feels happy and gradually develops a sense of self.

Let the baby lie prone on the bed, put his hands on both sides of the head, put a small mirror in front of the baby, let the baby look at himself in the mirror, and encourage the baby to raise his head.

The mother holds the baby and looks in the mirror. She quietly lets the baby look at it for a while in front of the mirror and tells him that this is the baby and that is the mother. Raise the baby's little hand, touch the mirror, and then touch the nose, so that the baby can gradually understand his own appearance. Babies who often look in the mirror will notice the organs on their faces and recognize their own facial features quickly. You can let the baby play with some small mirrors that cannot be broken. You will find that the baby will have various expressions when looking in the mirror, laugh, make faces, and talk to the person in the mirror. Playing with the mirror brings the baby a lot of happiness.

Nursery tips: Parents can take advantage of the baby's interest in looking in the mirror to encourage the baby to raise his head and turn over, exercise the muscles of the baby's upper limbs and neck, chest and back, so that the baby can understand himself and develop the baby's self conscious.

4. Key points for raising babies in the fourth month

1. Frequently change the indoor layout to give the baby rich sensory experiences.

2. Do baby aerobics for the baby.

3. Learn to stand up.

4. Tease the baby to take the initiative to reach for the toys on the table.

5. Play more games with babies to enhance parent-child relationship.

Baby’s leg movements: Babies will take steps when they are just born. This is an innate reflex ability. If parents provide appropriate movement training, babies can learn to walk early, thereby promoting brain maturation and intellectual development. Babies respond to familiar music with expressions, and some music can cause babies to dance their limbs happily. At the same time, when babies are amused by family members, they can also dance their limbs very happily, such as kicking their legs or waving their upper limbs.

Choose a toy that the baby likes and tie it with a bell, hanging it right above the baby. Use an elastic band to tie it to the baby's ankle, so that the toy will make a sound when the baby kicks, increasing the baby's ability to do leg movements. interest. Place a large blow-up balloon or a noisy toy under the baby's feet. The baby will make a splashing sound when he accidentally steps on it. This unexpected effect prompts him to kick again, which makes the unintentional activity an intentional activity. Babies don't like kicking if they don't make any noise.

It is noteworthy that:

1. Premature infants and children with rickets should not do this exercise.

2. Pay attention to the baby’s mood. If the baby is in a bad mood, stop immediately.

3. Generally, except for diarrhea, fever and other illness conditions, you must persist.

Generally, around ten months old, you can walk alone.

Nursery tips: Parents use toys to let the baby do some leg exercises, which can promote his lower limb muscles, enable the baby to learn to walk early, and at the same time promote his intellectual development.

Hide and Cat: The game of Hide and Cat is babies’ favorite game. Babies all over the world play this game. Babies from four months to one and a half years old often get pleasure from playing this game repeatedly.

When babies are three months old, they have good recognition and memory abilities and have clear emotional memories of common relatives around them. At this time, you can play hide and seek with the baby to enhance communication between parents and children.

As the baby’s visual distance adjustment ability increases, he will become more and more interested in the game of hide and seek and gain great happiness in the game.

Nursery tips: Frequently playing hide-and-seek games with babies can cultivate the baby's interest in exploring the world, stimulate the baby's curiosity, and enhance the emotional communication between mother and child.

Baby’s little hands: Around three months, the baby begins to hit things consciously. This is the beginning of the baby taking the initiative to catch me, but the baby’s little hands are not dexterous enough. Around four months, the baby eyes can follow moving toys.

A four-month-old baby can grasp the toys placed in front of him. The baby needs both hands to grasp the hanging toys, because the hanging toys will shake and it will be difficult for the baby to grasp them.

The baby's hand movements develop gradually. Parents should give him various toys to develop his hand skills so that the baby has a pair of dexterous little hands.

Nursery tips: Active grasping is an important stage in the development of fine movements of the baby's hands. Frequent training of the baby's grasping can promote the baby's hand-eye coordination, coordinate the movements of both hands, and make the baby's hands more dexterous.

Learning to sit: Sitting, crawling, walking, and jumping are already very easy for adults, but they are learned gradually through practice in infancy. The first thing a baby can do is that the neck muscles can fully support the head. The neck muscles are the first large muscles to develop in babies. Parents should often let their babies do head-up exercises to exercise their neck muscles. After the baby can raise his head, parents can let the baby lie on the bed, then hold the baby's back with both hands, and slowly let the baby sit up.

In the fourth month after the baby is born, the neck muscles can fully support it. When the weight of the head lifts, parents can start to do supine and sit-up exercises for the baby. When the baby is lying on his stomach, let him hold one of the adult's fingers in each hand. The adult holds his hand with the palm of his hand, slowly lift the hand, and let him sit up with the help of the adult's strength. When parents do sit-down exercises for their babies, they should do so gently and shout commands. This can cultivate the baby's awareness of active cooperation. Each practice should not be too long, preferably 3-5 minutes.

Nursery tips: Parents do pull-and-sit exercises for their babies to exercise their neck, hand, and chest muscles, and train their babies' movement coordination abilities.

5. Key points for raising babies in their fifth month

1. Read nursery rhymes to the baby and let him learn to imitate the pronunciation of adults.

2. Teach the baby to hold hands and sit up.

3. Help the baby stand and walk, and practice turning over.

4. Practice grasping hanging toys and develop hand-eye coordination.

Recognize mother: The newborn baby can call his mother with laughter and smile. He likes his mother’s gentle voice and smiling face. Since they are still in the womb, babies are used to hearing their mother's voice.

Newborns have the ability to remember: when the baby wakes up, you can show her some pictures. Generally speaking, babies love to look at black and white pictures that simulate their mother's face, and they can remember the pictures they have watched.

Mothers should hug and caress the baby more, and call and tease the baby gently, so that the baby can fully enjoy your caress and meticulous care. In the warm embrace of mother, both mother and child will be immersed in happiness.

In daily life, as the mother usually participates in feeding and nursing, and has rich expressions and physical contact, the baby can gradually feel the difference between the mother and other relatives, and establish a close mother-child relationship.

Nursery tips: Mothers play more with their babies, which enhances emotional communication between them and enables the baby to develop healthily both physically and mentally. It also enhances the baby's recognition and memory abilities.

Listening to sounds to find objects: When a baby is born, what he sees is his mother’s loving smile and what he hears is his mother’s kind calls. At this time, the baby can look and find things by following the sounds. Gradually, as the baby grows older, the mother can use some small toys that make pleasant sounds to help the baby learn to listen for sounds and find objects. During the practice, you should constantly encourage and praise him, and soon the baby will become sensitive to sounds.

After more than five months, the baby will gradually change from being passive to actively searching for sound-producing objects. In this way, your baby can be said to have a certain ability to listen to sounds and find objects, which will be very helpful for the baby's future development and interest in exploring the unknown world.

Nursery tips: The practice of listening to sounds and finding objects can well develop the baby's hearing, connect the baby's hearing and vision, increase his interest in exploring the environment, and promote his brain development.

Babies already have certain learning abilities. Parents should teach babies to recognize things they are interested in and improve their cognitive abilities. This is also the basis for babies to learn to speak.

Teach babies to recognize objects: Babies around three months old already know their mothers. Mothers should communicate with their babies as much as possible in their daily lives, teach them to understand the things around them, and improve their recognition and memory abilities. Babies already have the ability to learn when they are four months old. Parents should first observe what the baby is interested in, first select the things that the baby likes the most, teach the baby to recognize them, and tell the baby the names of the things so that the baby can associate sounds with objects. Babies can generally learn the names of 1-2 objects within one month. Because it takes a long time for babies to learn to recognize the first thing, parents do not have to be too anxious and teach them patiently. After the baby learns to recognize a thing, it must be reviewed and consolidated every day in the morning and evening. Gradually, when the baby hears the name of the object, it will Ability to accurately find targets with eyes. This encourages parents to encourage babies to point in the direction of things with their hands. Parents should encourage them to enhance their baby's memory. Through learning, when a baby reaches 6 months old, when he hears the name of an object, he can not only see with his eyes and point to the object with his hands, but also likes to touch or reach for things with his hands. Parents can teach their babies to recognize novel things such as flowers and trees through outdoor activities, and increase their interest in learning to recognize objects.

Nursery tips: Teaching babies to recognize objects can improve their cognitive abilities. In the process of recognizing objects, babies can accumulate more vocabulary, promote their language development, and improve their intelligence. Good development.

6. Key points for raising babies in their sixth month

1. Cultivate good emotions and maintain baby’s mental health.

2. Learn to use your fingers to recognize objects.

3. Contact to turn over and learn to turn over continuously.

4. Teach babies how to pass hands.

5. Tease the baby to follow moving or loud things.

6. Get familiar with your family and yourself, and learn to recognize facial features.

Pursuing: Babies have the ability to see as soon as they are born, but due to poor visual distance adjustment ability, they can only see objects about 20 centimeters away from the eyes. As the baby grows older and the ability to adjust visual distance increases, the time and scope of the baby's pursuit also gradually expands. Babies will have different sight ranges in different positions. Parents can place some different toys at corresponding positions according to the baby's different postures, which will help the baby watch and increase the baby's interest in playing.

Around five months, the baby's visual adjustment ability has been greatly improved. Parents must seize the opportunity to train their babies in this area. You can use some brightly colored small toys to shake regularly in front of the baby's eyes, but not too fast. As training increases, the toys will become farther and farther away from the baby. After a period of time, your baby will become more lively and cute.

Nursery tips: As the baby's ability to adjust visual distance increases, the baby's tracking ability and range continue to expand. Regularly playing tracking games with the baby promotes the development of the baby's brain. When a baby practices lying prone and raising his head, he will spin around on the bed with his abdomen as the center of gravity. Parents should let the baby practice more to prepare the baby for crawling and learning to crawl.

Spin and turn: When babies are about four months old, they can not only raise their heads when lying prone, but also lift their chests off the bed. They only use their abdomen and hands to support their weight, which shows that the baby's neck, abdomen, and limbs muscles are strong. Well developed.

Parents can use toys on one side to entice the baby to reach for them when the baby is lying prone. The baby will first use one hand to reach it. If it cannot reach it, it will use its upper limbs to support its upper body and kick its legs to spin around. Parents should properly let the baby get the toy as a rest, and then use the toy on the other side to tease the baby so that he continues to turn his body.

Nursery tips: Turning is an effective way for babies to move their bodies. Parents allowing babies to practice more can promote the development of their coordinated movements and prepare babies for learning to crawl.

Developmental characteristics of six-month-old babies: When a baby is six months old, its physiological development characteristics are mainly an average weight of 7.78-8.30 kg, an average height of 67.0-68.6 cm, and a head circumference of about 42.8- 43.9 cm, the chest circumference is generally 42.9-43.9 cm, and the weight of the brain is twice that of birth. ;