I think increasing the intimacy between lovers depends on the following four points: the first is to enjoy the music taste between the two, the second is to have timely late-night chats, and the third is to cultivate a good relationship with each other. Or the kindness of things, the fourth is to communicate more with seniors and learn from their experiences, and the last is to deal with emotions reasonably to make you closer.

First, enjoy your music taste. In a happy relationship, music is very important. Music can record your specific emotions at a specific time. When two people recall a song they listened to at the same time, they will remember what it was like at that time. And if two people have completely different musical tastes, they are missing a very important entrance into each other's souls. So talk to the other person more about the songs you like, and listen to the music the other person likes more. This is not for you to change your music taste, but for two people to merge with each other, so couples should share their music taste, which can increase the intimacy between the two.

Second, have late-night chats with your partner. A survey shows that 10pm is the time when men and women find each other most attractive. The key point of late-night chatting is that the conversation should be sincere and talk about things you don’t talk about during the day. Talk about hopes, goodwill, and visions. For example, if the other party doesn’t know your vision, they won’t be able to outline their own position in your future world. It will create a strong sense of insecurity. And if you don't talk about your wishes, the other person will feel that they don't understand you enough and can't enter your world, and will eventually drift away and end up separated. Therefore, if you want to increase the intimacy between the two, chatting late at night is a good way. method.

Third, cultivate the other person’s kindness toward all people and things. Because kindness is the easiest and most difficult character to cultivate in the world. But a kind, respectful, generous, and compassionate partner must be an excellent soul mate. The kinder the heart, the higher the intimacy between lovers.

Fourth, it is best to have an older couple as your "mentors." When you encounter a problem, if two people can't solve it, it's best to ask your elders for their opinions. If necessary, you can also ask them to break up the fight. This way you can better handle the conflict between the two, and naturally you will become closer. .

Fifth, don’t let the other person become your emotional “trash can”. It is true that soul mates should talk about everything, but if you simply use the other person to vent your anger and receive all your negative information, then you will definitely not gain a soul mate. At the same time, we should also ensure that there is no secret from each other. The four steps of warm expression: first, describe the facts reasonably rather than evaluate; second, express your feelings and opinions; third, give reasons and the responses you hope to get; fourth, give suggestions and discuss them together. Only by controlling your emotions reasonably can you better increase the intimacy between lovers.