It is normal for children in kindergarten to stay in bed in the morning. Most children of this age still lack self-management skills, so parents must first understand their children's behavior of staying in bed. I don’t agree with some parents, especially working parents, who may be too tight in the morning, have to send their children off, and can’t be late for work, so they keep urging their children to stay in bed, or even treat their children after several urgings are ineffective. Yelling is very detrimental to children's sense of security.

At this time, parents need to control their emotions and not lose temper with their children. The beginning of the day begins in the morning. If the children start being scolded and yelled at by their parents before they even open their eyes in the morning, will their children still be in a good mood?

Of course, we cannot condone children's behavior of staying in bed, otherwise once the children develop this bad habit, they will have endless troubles in school in the future. Therefore, we have also thought of many ways to deal with children's staying in bed.

First, allow the child to sleep for 5 to 10 minutes more.

Agree with the child that you can extend it for a while to give the child a buffer time from mind to body. It is not easy for most children to get up as soon as they are called. In addition to the child's own In addition to personality, more needs training and cultivation from parents.

Second, play some music they like.

It is best to have a cheerful rhythm. For example, recently children especially like "Youth Cultivation Manual" by TFBOYS, or "The Earth Welcomes You" by Xie Na, and "Little Chicken Little Chicken" and "Little Chicken Little Chicken" by Wang Rong. Shark Shark》...

Third, give some appropriate small rewards.

My two children are usually very clingy to me. They like to act coquettishly with me and like me to hug them. So when they want to stay in bed, I will say to them: "If you get up now, Mom rewards him with a hug!" Because the second child is younger, I also give her a little privilege: "If you get up now, mom can carry you to the bathroom!" These two sentences are usually very effective for my two children.

Fourth, pretend to be a robot and learn to speak like a robot.

"Slightly buzzing, slightly buzzing, it's time to get up now, little master, please get up quickly... If the little master doesn't get up, robot No. 1 will be angry, and robot No. 1 will be angry with the little master if he doesn't get up. The master has implemented the family law..." Usually when I start pretending to be a robot and talking, the children are actually awake, but they just don't think about it, so if they continue to pretend to be asleep, I will really implement the family law-tickling or kissing, gently Tickling and kissing hard until they couldn't help but get up laughing.

Fifth, agree on a secret code with your child the night before.

Let the child think of something that he may be interested in. For example, my son thought of "playing with ipad" and "fidget spinner"... and agreed to say this word to him the next morning. It seems like it’s a game to get up, but in fact it’s a very ritualistic way.

Sixth, avoid using light to stimulate children.

Lights are bright when the children are awake and open their eyes. Especially in winter, when the sun rises late, it may still be dark outside when you get up in the morning. Too bright light will make it difficult for the children to open their eyes, which is harmful to the children. Eye irritation may also occur. At this time, it is best to make the light in the room weaker first, allowing the child to open his eyes and adapt, and then gradually turn it brighter.