We often "judge others by ourselves" and express our views on people and things with our own views. For me, it is not easy to really "push ourselves and things" and "put ourselves in the other's shoes".

We often mistake "I think" and "I think" for facts. I am a person who is afraid of cold and likes heat. My husband and son are afraid of heat and like cold, so the temperatures we perceive from each other are often very different. Every time they tell me that the weather is cold and warm, they always feel "cheated".

There is a song that says, "The wind is smiling with love ...", which is probably the "empathy" that Mr. Zhu Guangqian talked about, and he moved his feelings above the wind and water.

Mr. Zhu Guangqian's appreciation of natural beauty, artistic beauty in music and calligraphy makes us understand that "empathy is not necessarily aesthetic experience, but aesthetic experience often contains empathy. Empathy in aesthetic experience is not only from me and things, but also from things and me; It not only shifts my personality and emotions to things, but also absorbs the attitude of things to me. "

Mr. Zhu Guangqian draws two conclusions from "aesthetic experience is the reciprocal return of people's interest and the attitude of things":

1. The image of things is the reflection of people's interest.

First of all, let's talk about people's taste. Some people are very practical and pragmatic, and only see the explicit value of things without aesthetic taste. Just as Mr. Zhu Guangqian talked about a flower with dew, people who have no interest in reality regard it as a wild flower that can't be sold, while some people may "think it is sad with tears" by the flower and people, and their sadness is also driven up; And some people see the growth law of all things in the world from a flower and realize the wonderful truth of life.

2. People not only empathize with things, but also absorb the attitude of things to themselves.

gentlemen love lotus and bamboo, and most of them imitate the meaning of "getting out of the mud but not getting stained" and "having ambition in bamboo". They are just the representatives of beautiful images, and they all have impressive effects!

Su Dongpo has a poem: "It is better to eat without meat than to live without bamboo; No meat makes people thin, and no bamboo makes people vulgar. "

"To make cultural relics alive", we should learn the essence and nutrition of excellent China traditional culture from the 5,-year history of civilization. We should also make the "things" around us alive, and let beautiful things surround us, so that we will be "printed with beautiful images in our hearts and often infiltrated by them". We think it is hard to be beautiful!