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I went shopping with my friend Qing on the weekend. Qing received a call from her husband, saying that he wanted to give her a lipstick.

She actually said angrily: "Why are you buying me lipstick? I, a person who is too lazy to even wash my face, can't use lipstick at all. Why don't you give me a few hundred yuan?" The child is buying a bucket of milk powder!"

Then the phone beeped.

Obviously his husband is angry! I originally wanted to give her a surprise, but I didn't expect to hear her answer like this!

I asked curiously, do you remember that you loved stinky girls in the past?

Qing said that since she had a child, she works during the day and takes care of the child at night. I'm so busy every day that I don't even have time to wash my face and look in the mirror. Apart from my children and housework, I don't have time to care about beauty.

Besides, it doesn’t matter how you dress up after you get married. You already have someone who wants you, so who do you want to dress up for?

After entering the mall, Qing ran to the children's clothing area excitedly.

She said that she would take her children out to play with her husband’s friends this weekend. You should buy beautiful clothes for your daughter and dress her up beautifully so that others don’t look down on her.

I looked at the clothes Qing was wearing. They were loose sportswear and they were all old clothes.

Involuntarily said: "Why don't you buy yourself some beautiful clothes? Aren't you afraid of others laughing at you?"

Qing smiled and said: "Why are you laughing at me? It’s not like I’ve never seen her before. She’s the mother of a child and no one can laugh at her.” Qing carefully picked out clothes for her daughter, her face full of happiness!

"Divorce Lawyer" said:

Women must not forget themselves in marriage and invest in themselves. When you forget yourself, your husband will also forget you.

Many women are like Qing. After getting married and having children, they no longer pay attention to their personal image or dress up in front of their husbands, and gradually become "yellow-faced women".

In fact, women like to dress up, not for others to see, but mostly to please themselves.

Dressing yourself up beautifully is also a way of respecting yourself.

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I once saw such a mother in a magazine:

Xiaomei is a mother of a second child. Since giving birth to her second child, she has to She has to do housework and take care of her children, and rarely dresses herself up.

Later on, I gradually stopped paying attention to my own image. I looked slovenly all day long, and I treated myself as easy as possible.

After a few years, Xiaomei looks like a middle-aged aunt. Not only is she much older, but her clothes are also very tacky.

Once Xiaomei went to the kindergarten to pick up her children and was laughed at by the children.

The child said to her mother: "The child said you are not beautiful at all, and thought you were my "grandma"!"

After hearing what the child said, Xiaomei was suddenly stunned. Now, I have worked so hard to take care of my children, but in the end I have become an "ugly" mother that people laugh at.

It was only then that Xiaomei truly realized that her slovenliness had seriously affected her children.

From then on, Xiaomei became determined to change her sloppy image. She didn't want her son's classmates to make fun of her anymore, nor did she want to affect her mood.

First, Xiaomei found a job and hired a nanny to look after the children. She believes that women must have their own careers to live confidently.

She has changed her previous sloppy image. She cleans herself up every day and puts on makeup with special care when she goes out to pick up her children.

In order to improve her temperament, Xiaomei also participated in yoga classes and flower arrangement classes.

After half a year, Xiaomei's whole image has changed. Not only is she dressed fashionably, but her whole person is radiant. When she went to pick up the child again, the children all praised her for her beauty, and he regained full face for his son.

As the saying goes: There are no ugly women, only lazy women. A woman who knows how to dress up will bring out a kind of confidence and love for life from the bottom of her bones!

When women dress themselves up appropriately, they can show a unique style, make themselves more confident and look more attractive!

Only women who give up on themselves and are too lazy to take care of their appearance will become older and uglier, and will be completely insulated from beauty.

Only women who know how to cherish themselves and dress themselves appropriately will live a more glorious life.

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In the program "Love Speaks Out Loud", a girl was accused by her boyfriend of not dressing well and not taking a bath or washing her hair.

Their conversation made the guests and the audience burst into laughter.

My boyfriend also talked about one thing in particular:

Once a friend was coming to play at home, and he asked his girlfriend to dress up.

My friend came, and when the girl opened the door, her boyfriend collapsed.

My girlfriend kept the house clean, but she appeared in front of her friends in pajamas with messy hair.

At that time, he felt that his girlfriend's slovenly appearance made him lose face in front of his friends.

In the TV series "Beautiful Li Huizhen", during an interview, Li Huizhen was disliked when she got on the elevator because she was dressed casually and had messy curly hair, so she had to climb the stairs.

During the interview, because I was dressed casually and spoke directly, I was made fun of on the spot by the interviewer and the girl who came with me for the interview. The situation was very embarrassing.

The interviewer joked with her and said: "If our company hires you, we will be under a lot of pressure!"

At the same time, she was criticized by the girl who came for the interview: No serious and responsible attitude.

The girl said: "In today's society, appearance is also one of the competitive forces. If the headgear and clothing have not been taken care of at all, I think it means that there is no serious and responsible attitude."

Li Huizhen The final interview failed!

Some people say: Whether a woman dresses up or not, whether she is beautiful or not has nothing to do with age, whether she is married, or whether she has children.

It is the nature of every woman to love dressing up and beauty.

A woman should dress herself elegantly and decently. Not to please others, but to give yourself a better state.

Women who love to dress up are not only beautiful, but also work hard, and will also have more good luck.

Love to dress up is a kind of self-appreciation for women, and it is also a kind of respect for others. At the same time, it is also an expression of pleasing yourself. Only such a woman's life will become more and more exciting!

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Lu Yu said: "No one is willing to appreciate your inner things through your sloppy appearance!"

Ni Ping, the host of the program, has been suffering from poor health all year round. She was tired and had a swollen face. She was once helped by someone while hosting a show and was laughed at. Once when I was hosting on the same stage as Dong Qing, I was called "grandma".

Ni Ping said: "The biggest mistake in my life was to give up my own image!"

Suffering a blow, Ni Ping made up her mind to lose weight and change herself.

I saw recent photos of Ni Ping on the Internet not long ago, and I couldn't help but exclaim: "The Ni Ping of the past is back."

In the photo, she is wearing a horizontal striped T-shirt and blue jeans. , dressed casually.

After losing weight, she looked radiant. Not only did she become more beautiful, but she also regained her confidence.

Some people say:

A wise woman must know how to treat herself well. She knows that in order to live well, in addition to finding the right man, she must also know how to love him. Own.

A woman who knows how to dress up will be more confident and charming.

As women, we cannot give up the opportunity to become beautiful. No matter how tired we are of raising children or busy at work, we must take time to love ourselves.

Please remember: women love to dress up to better please themselves!