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On the bus home in the afternoon, Yun Music recommended the song "Paper is Short and Love is Long" to me. Put on the headphones and listened to this song. Looking out the window at the speeding roads and cars, I unconsciously fell into the cycle of single songs.
"Paper Is Short and Love Is Long" by the Yanbianer Band, they sing a little off-key folk songs and express their feelings very directly. It seems that the rhythm is cheerful but the song is sad.
The most liked comment on NetEase Cloud was written by Good Goodluck:
I traveled across two provinces to find the girl I have always loved, full of joy I told her I love you personally on New Year's Eve, and then she rejected me. It was dark, I couldn't find my way in a strange city, and there were still 15 minutes until the train started. This is my first time to Zhengzhou, and it may also be my last. -1°, cloudy and windy.
What a sad comment. The saddest thing in the world is not being able to love. There are many people like this in the comments.
Looking through the comments, reading the lyrics, and listening to the music, I feel like this song takes me back to my youth again.
In this life, people are most afraid of not understanding a certain song.
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When he returned to school after his freshman year of military training, Brother Bing bought a plane ticket and flew directly to Inner Mongolia to find his girlfriend. The distance between Chengdu and Inner Mongolia is very far, thousands of miles apart, but he must want to reach there directly with a somersault cloud. I only left one sentence, and when the counselor asked, he said that I had something to do at home and had to go home.
I can’t remember how many times this story happened. Several times he took the train to Inner Mongolia to save money. One sitting lasted more than 20 hours. When there were many ticket stubs spread neatly on the table, Brother Bing said they broke up.
In love, "not suitable" is the most deceptive thing. I can't say you are good or bad, but I just don't want to be together. I'm tired of it, tired. To put it bluntly, I just can't find you. Reasons to continue to like you. Or fall in love with someone else.
Is the story over? No. Although none of us mentioned it, or consoled it, it would have been more straightforward to drink a few stiff drinks. Although I don't mention it, the voice I heard most often in the dormitory during that time was "You must be happy." I've seen that piece of paper with names written on it fisted into a ball and thrown into the trash. You can also see the crooked "Zhang Xian".
That row of train tickets is a love letter written for you. And it doesn’t matter if you don’t understand.
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After four years of college, the prince said: There is only one girl who has ever moved my heart. She has a very stubborn temper, her skin is not fair, and she is not pretty. I stared at her for a long time when I first met her.
"What's so good about your girl?" I asked.
"I can't say what's good about her. Maybe she has many shortcomings, but her advantages are like the sun, making her shine."
"Have you confessed your love to her?"
"No, because I thought there should be no result from the beginning."
Whose youth did not have such a story, like an ordinary but shining girl, watch her smile I was happy for several days at a time, and sad for several years when I saw her cry once.
A boy had a crush on a girl and came to me to confide in him. He once said something like this: "She was lying on the table crying that day. It was the first time I saw her cry with my own eyes. I thought at that time, a faucet in my heart was suddenly turned on, and all the water came out. The boiling water hit the tenderest piece of flesh in my heart. "
When you have a crush on someone, you love and care for her, but you can't find an identity to comfort her.
“You asked me to forget it, but I don’t want to forget it. You asked me to do something and tell a story, but I don’t know how to start.”
Paper is short but love is long-lasting, just let it stay in your youth.
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I still remember this passage in "The Story of Heaven and the Dragon Slayer":
Zhou Zhiruo sneered and said: "We had a marriage agreement before, and my husband Your life is in danger at this moment, and since I didn't hurt your life today, others will definitely say that I still have my old feelings for you.
If I ask you to help me again, all the heroes in the world will accuse me of being shameless and wanton. "
Zhang Wuji said anxiously: "We only need to have a clear conscience. Why should we care about what others say? "
Zhou Zhiruo said: "What if I have a guilty conscience? ”
Zhang Wuji was stunned and couldn’t speak, so he just said: “You...”
Yes, I feel guilty because I am short on paper and long on you.
And in our memories, we all remember Zhou Zhiruo as the poor orphan girl above Zhijiang River and the gentle heroine in the desert. It is like you in the memory of youth, which is so profound and beautiful in everyone's heart. Everyone has a Shen Jiayi.
If there are any regrets, it may be that on the day we broke up, we turned around and heard nothing from her.
She said that she had been hurt a lot over the years. People, I said, there is no harm, just one is willing to fight, and the other is willing to suffer.
All encounters in this world are fate.
The book cannot be written, the paper is short but the love is long, no matter how deep the love is, it cannot be written
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The paper is short, the love is long, but the love is deep; the paper is short. I love you so much.
In the past, the carriage was slow and the letters were far away. There was only enough time to love one person.
Now, "I like you" is too shallow. , so shallow that you will forget it after a glass of wine, and so shallow that you will give up after a quarrel.
"You were young at the time", in fact, "you were young at the time" is a perfect excuse.
It turns out that when you are young, you will be crazy about love, and you only want the feeling and fate of your partner. You have not considered the house, car, money, the burden on your shoulders, the great future, and the annual salary of one million, you just want it. Simply be with her.
If you can’t devote your youth to your most beloved girl, then don’t be too hasty to reconcile with the world, okay?
The rest of us? You will understand: She is not the wrong person, but the person who makes us better.
Thank you. The rest of my life is long, but love is short.