I think the kindergarten holds graduation ceremony, which is a new way to keep up with the competition.

Graduation ceremonies in many kindergartens are very simple. Teachers can take photos of the children and then hold a simple graduation ceremony for the children in the kindergarten. But now there are more and more kindergarten graduation ceremonies, which are more grand than university graduation ceremonies. Some people say that children's kindergarten is only once, so they should be given a sense of ceremony. However, some people regard comparison as a sense of ritual. Some kindergartens have to hold a special event in the hotel, with a red carpet, and parents wear grand evening dresses and bring their babies to attend. This sense of ceremony is like the year-end party of a good company. However, with this sense of ceremony, I think children are more concerned about whose parents are dressed very beautifully and who is wearing a very beautiful little dress today. Is this ritual sense of comparison really good for children?

first, children develop the habit of keeping up with the joneses, just like some kindergartens just ask their children to celebrate their birthdays. Parents buy cakes, snacks and send them to kindergartens, and all students celebrate their children's birthdays together. Then when the child comes back, he will tell his parents that he will spend his birthday like this next time, and he will also buy very, very big cakes, what kind of beautiful clothes to wear and a lot of snacks. Birthday is a blessing and requires a sense of ceremony, but this sense of ceremony has become a comparison. It doesn't mean anything to children at all.

Second, children tend to feel inferior

Not every parent has this kind of financial resources, which will lead children to feel inferior. Moreover, after the child is used to comparison, he should compare himself with other children in all aspects. If he can't compare himself, he will feel very lost and his values will be distorted slowly. Children will gain self-confidence from the outside. They pay too much attention to the outside world, but it will affect their study.

Parents should set an example. They should not compare themselves with other parents, nor should they compare their children with others. A sense of ceremony is not precious, but a simple hug, a family dinner together, a photo together and a candle blowing together, which is love for children.