Both parents hope that their children will be successful and their daughters will be successful. They hope that their offspring will live a stable life, but they only want to be safe and happy, which often backfires. However, the children of stars are more concerned and under greater pressure from public opinion because of their parents' professional reasons. Different ways of parents' education have different effects on the same thing, just as Du Jiang and Huo Siyan instilled in his son the idea of women first, so, uh-huh, although he is sometimes naughty, he can be polite and a little warm man. Of course, this is a successful case, and there are also some people who spoil and cause tragedies, such as Li Tianyi. He is the son of the famous singer Li Shuangjiang. Li Shuangjiang and his ex-wife Ding Yingyu have a son
Before the accident of their son Li Tianyi, Li Shuangjiang was still an old artist who was highly respected and loved, but for public figures, personal marriage life will inevitably be exposed to the public. As a literary and art worker, it is not enough to be artistic, but virtue is equally important. Before marrying his student Meng Ge, Li Shuangjiang had a little-known marriage experience. At that time, he was working in Xinjiang Art Troupe. Li Shuangjiang, who was in his prime, met Ding Ying, a dancer of Art Troupe. Ding Ying, a typical Xinjiang girl with beautiful appearance and cheerful personality, fell in love with Li Shuangjiang at first sight. They soon confirmed their love relationship and entered the marriage hall.
After the marriage, Ding Ying gave birth to a son named Li He. At first, the life of a family of three was very happy and sweet. However, as Li Shuangjiang became more and more famous, more and more contradictions broke out in this marriage, and finally it split. After the divorce, his son Li He lived with his mother Ding Ying, while Li Shuangjiang was single again. Ding Ying was basically responsible for his son's education. Ding Ying, who was born in a military family, was very strict with his son since childhood, whether in life or in study.
As a father, Li Shuangjiang devoted himself to his own career after the divorce. He was at most a bystander to his son's education and life, and paid no effort. Later, after graduating from university, Li He followed his parents' footsteps and engaged in literary and artistic work. At present, he works behind the scenes in the Song and Dance Troupe of the General Political Department. According to insiders, Li He has always been very low-key and humble from the early days of his work to the present, and he has never taken the initiative to say that his father is Li Shuangjiang, and he has never participated in any public program activities. Both the unit leaders and his colleagues who have worked with him have given him a high evaluation.
When Li Tianyi was sentenced to prison and the whole family was reviled, Li Hecai appeared beside his father. During that time, Li He always took care of Li Shuangjiang, not only cooked jiaozi for him, but also served as his driver to pick him up. The same father gave birth to two very different sons, one to send him to hell and the other to save him. Meng Ge, the second wife, gave birth to a son named Li Tianyi for Li Shuangjiang. < P > Compared with the low-key of the first marriage, the emotional experience of Li Shuangjiang and Meng Ge, the second wife, is too high-key. Dream pigeon once conceived a child, but failed to keep it. It was not until 1996 that Li Tianyi, a son, was born. Li Shuangjiang, an old son, and the dream pigeon, who had a hard time seeking a son, opened a bottomless doting mode for their son. Li Shuangjiang once said in an interview that when his son was born, he needed to stay in hospital for infusion for three days because of his weak health. At that time, Li Shuangjiang, who was 57 years old, stayed with his son for three days and three nights without sleeping. Old son, Li Tianyi is loved
The couple's love for their son can be said to be all-round all the time. When Li Tianyi was 4 years old, he suddenly became interested in the piano. Li Shuangjiang, aware of this, immediately invited a famous figure in the piano field to teach him for his son. At the age of 8, Li Tianyi said that he would learn calligraphy, so Li Shuangjiang invited a famous calligrapher to teach at home. At the age of 1, Li Tianyi fell in love with playing ice hockey and Li Shuangjiang dreamed pigeons.
In August, 211, Li Shuangjiang Mengge couple held a grand song club for their son Li Tian, which was held in the Concert Hall of the Central National Orchestra. In addition to the couple, many singers including Yu Junjian and Lv Wei appeared to help out. Such a luxurious lineup only served as a foil for Li Tianyi, who was just 15 years old. He was the leading figure of the stars holding the moon. It can be said that in the process of growing up in Li Tianyi, it has become the norm to be responsive. Li Tianyi beat a couple because the other couple didn't hit the turn signal while driving < P >. But for the dream pigeon couple in Li Shuangjiang, this kind of education method will definitely lead to fire. One day in September 211, Li Tianyi and his friends drove BMW and Audi luxury cars respectively, and they clashed with the owner and couple of another car at the gate of the community just because the other couple didn't hit the turn signal. Afterwards, in order to make amends for his son, Li Shuangjiang was photographed by the media and went to the hospital to apologize to the injured.
It is worth mentioning that at that time, Li Tianyi was a minor, driving without a license, and the BMW he drove was a 14th birthday gift from his mother's dream pigeon. After getting the car, Li Tianyi specially spent nearly 3, yuan to make a major renovation of the car. After the renovation, the BMW engine was particularly loud. In order to highlight his personality, Li Tianyi took off the original license plate and drove without a license every time. After this beating, Li Tian didn't learn a lesson. As parents, Li Shuangjiang and Dream Pigeon didn't realize the failure of their education, and they still let their son drift without a bottom line. Li Tianyi and four other suspects were jailed for crimes
In February p>213, after the news of Li Tianyi and four other suspects came out, a family of three was quickly involved in the whirlpool of public opinion. As the truth of the incident was revealed layer by layer, Li Tianyi's crime was completely solved. For a while, the focus of media netizens was all on this family. In the process of later litigation, Dream Pigeon made up lies and poured dirty water in court in order to whitewash his son. It's a pity that such behavior will do more harm than good to the final trial result, and Li Shuangjiang was never seen again after the news was exposed. According to the news given by the media at that time, Li Shuangjiang was ill with anger and was being treated in the hospital.
In November, 213, Li Tianyi was sentenced to 1 years in prison for his alleged rape. This result means that Li Tianyi, then 17 years old, will stay in prison until he is 27 years old, and will not be released from prison until the end of 223. However, since he did something wrong, he must pay the price. His parents did not teach Li Tianyi the truth of being a man, but now the society has taught him, but the price is even more painful. Conclusion
As the saying goes, "spoiling a child is like killing a child". When a child makes a mistake, it should be corrected in time. It is very important to establish a correct concept of right and wrong from an early age, which can even affect the child's life. Education has always been an important aspect in society. Every year, the government allocates a lot of money to provide children with good resources, but parents are the best teachers. It is even more important than teachers to urge them to form good habits, establish a sound personality and teach basic knowledge and manners from an early age. I hope the Li Tianyi incident will sound a wake-up call for parents and not neglect family education.