Does the questioner want to ask "The lyrics say "Love and non-love suffer equally, why don't you know how to say no?" What song is it? "The One Who Loves Me and the One Who I Love".

1. According to the query of Kugou Music, the lyrics "Love and non-love are equally painful, why don't you understand rejection" is "The People Who Love Me and the People I Love" sung by Qiu Haizheng, released on 2010-11 -16.

2. Part of the lyrics: Love and not love suffer equally, why don’t you know rejection, surrounded by infatuation, can’t live without the one I love, I know love requires fate, can’t let go of the one I love, because Understand how serious she is.